joqatana
@joqatana.bsky.social
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Formerly Homeless. Opinionated & AuDHD. Person with Sarcasm. Whiner. Does not take kindly to unsolicited advice or told what I really meant. She/They/Dude Art/photo alt is @jopics Art, Mycology, Dogs, Obligatory Egrets, etc. (will crosspost) User: #138,868
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Reminder that if you just want the pictures and not the Baggage, you csn follow @jopics.bsky.social
I do repost all the pictures here…
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(These are two different events that were 40 years apart. I tend to leave out information by accident and then realize I left a definitive part of a statement out so maybe people think I’m subtexting?)
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I learned in 5th grade in 1966 it means “apologize or else”. I learned the hard way.
I said it to an NT person and she didn’t apologize. Because I can’t express subtext and she had never had to deal with bullies.
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You mean crutches made for an average height human? Did they WANT him to injure himself futther?
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How would you interpret this statement?
“Don’t bother apologizing, it won’t do any good”
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She wasn’t talking about science. She was talking about how people talk.

I cannot DO nuance.
I cannot SEE subtext.

Nor can any autistic person I know in real life.

See how straightforward that was? She was objecting to THAT. There’s SUPPOSED to be a hidden underlying message I’m spose to see.
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Some do. Like the guy who walked over to my 6’5” husband and looked DOWN at him and asked “you play (basket) ball?

And I did literally have to stand on a chair to talk to Bill Walton. I’d call him profoundly tall.
thinkingautism.com
"I ask you to consider that autism itself has the power to bring people joy. I experience happiness to the extreme. I can be entertained by the simplest things. I show ppl love in the most unique ways.” Marcy Hannah Waring, @ejwillingham.bsky.social's TPGA newsletter:

buttondown.com/TPGA/archive...
Do some tall people have "profound tallness?" (This is an autism labels side-eye)
You can’t take the tallness out of someone, not in any ethical way. “Tall” is just what they are.
buttondown.com
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I guess it isn’t fair to NYC to ask Mamdami to please primary the shit out of Newsom.
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They’re protesting at a school district office on Saturday?
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thinkingautism.com
A reminder for struggling autistic and disabled folks: “If you’re saying to yourself ‘Why haven’t I done this easy thing?!,’ the thing is probably not actually easy.” from Real Social Skills:

tinyurl.com/HardThingsArentEasy

#autism #disability #neurodiversity
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Only if it comes without ears or other cartilaginous extremities.
Was I too nuanced?
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OK. Today’s pattern recognition is unsuccessful dating attempts. And not just my own.
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Not baby blue suits with mahogany colored shoes? Nah. The guy who wore that is probably unaware of antifa. He really did live in a bubble.
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Totally a Deadhead.
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Somebody has a teal problem with 61 year old men.
Last guy I made out with was 63. Unfortunately he wanted to fix me. And had what I can only call Ivanka Syndrome.
So glad I didn’t end up with him in lockdown but nice to remember how much fun making out was…
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Hey did Newsom sign the bills to protect trans kids yesterday?
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Terry and the Pirates and Friends. One Halloween long long ago (1985?)
Happy Birthday to Greg Douglass. You are forgiven for writing Jungle Love.
Night of the Living Mullets. Left to right: Martin Fierro, John Cipollina, St James, Natalie my Birthday Twin, Terry Dolan, unidentified, Greg Douglass in Eraserhead tshirt, me, unidentified, and David Hayes. Somewhere in San Jose. Closeup of Douglass and me.  I was giving him shit for wiping off the Halloween make-up. I had done a kinda Jungle Love face (great for beating surveillance cameras) cuz he didn’t tell me he wanted Drag) I wouldn’t have had time but he would have been gawjus, dahling.
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Just day before yesterday a person who is not s journalist or author but some kind of scientist was complaining “people are too blunt and straightforward. They lack subtext and nuance”
She’s a scientist. Complaining about lack of nuance.

Are scientists supposed to do subtext or nuance?
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jessdkant.bsky.social
More. Of. This. Any city that allows a corporation to build a data center will be unlivable within a year of construction.
moreperfectunion.bsky.social
Microsoft has withdrawn its proposal for a data center in a Milwaukee suburbs after community pushback.

After opposition from area residents and elected officials the 244 acre Caledonia project will not proceed.
Microsoft drops Caledonia data center after facing opposition. Company looking for new site
Outcry from residents and elected officials caused Microsoft to drop the Caledonia plan. But the company is seeking an alternative site.
www.jsonline.com
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Mr Stompy in Great Form tonighy
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Today on fecebook I unfriended 2 people I never met for being total dicks, and muted someone I know & like irl for posting AI & his friend saying the fake Frank Lloyd Wrght would make a great office for “President Newsome”.
Guess which I’m more upset by.
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Happy Birthday to Stanley Mouse, the Toulous-Lautrec of the 20th and 21st Centuries. #art
Framed 10 minute sketch of me by Stanley Mouse. I’m sitting crosslegged on a stool with one hand on my knee and one behind me
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BRB gotta go get my nose pierced.
acyn.bsky.social
Kid Rock: Do you know what is stupid… these chicks running around on campuses with blue hair, five nose rings.