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On the other site, someone just bragged that they have a rotisserie chicken daddy who sends them a monthly allowance for chicken and I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE ENVIOUS IN MY FUCKING LIFE.
On the other site, someone just bragged that they have a rotisserie chicken daddy who sends them a monthly allowance for chicken and I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE ENVIOUS IN MY FUCKING LIFE.
yes. if not for my husband’s health insurance/salary + some money my family gave me while i built my business, it’s unlikely i would be where i am—something for which i’m all too aware, and all too grateful. success in writing = talent + perseverance + coverage of human necessities.
And the folks who are actually writing full-time generally only got there after years of day jobs, family support, or both.
The point of sharing this is not to demoralize anyone, but to let emerging writers know they're not failing if they can't make a living off writing alone. Almost no one can.
almost every novelist you read who's not from the airport fiction or bestseller sections is working a full on day job, including multi-award winners and absolute legends, or they have a spouse or trust that supports them. virtually across the board. just normalize in your mind that's how it works.
November 25, 2025 at 11:51 PM
yes. if not for my husband’s health insurance/salary + some money my family gave me while i built my business, it’s unlikely i would be where i am—something for which i’m all too aware, and all too grateful. success in writing = talent + perseverance + coverage of human necessities.
I hate when people want to remain anonymous after donating something so life-changing and meaningful. I just want to praise them from the rooftop so everyone knows how appreciative I really am. I understand why though.
November 25, 2025 at 10:42 PM
I hate when people want to remain anonymous after donating something so life-changing and meaningful. I just want to praise them from the rooftop so everyone knows how appreciative I really am. I understand why though.
Okay, I'm just going to tell you: No joke, they're buying him a NEW FENDER GUITAR! And it's one of the super fancy ones! Now all I have to do is buy the amp they suggested! My nephew is going to lose his mind lol
November 25, 2025 at 10:35 PM
Okay, I'm just going to tell you: No joke, they're buying him a NEW FENDER GUITAR! And it's one of the super fancy ones! Now all I have to do is buy the amp they suggested! My nephew is going to lose his mind lol
I did buy myself one cool thing today. They have the most comfortable fluffy grippy socks on sale, four pairs for eight bucks, and I couldn't resist. They're so warm and cozy. 10/10; thank you again for the gift!
November 25, 2025 at 10:17 PM
I did buy myself one cool thing today. They have the most comfortable fluffy grippy socks on sale, four pairs for eight bucks, and I couldn't resist. They're so warm and cozy. 10/10; thank you again for the gift!