Stella Duffy
@stellduffy.bsky.social
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Pākehā Londoner; Dr (not the medical kind), existential psychotherapist, supervisor, doctoral research in postmenopause; writer of 17 novels/70+ stories/15 plays, yoga for writing workshops; 2 x breast cancer; knee, hip, & some brain mended with metal
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Sending love to our Jewish friends in and from Manchester, especially those whose shul suffered this horrible attack, and the many who will now be even more worried about being attacked for their faith.
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Ah, October, time for my annual share of this piece about how breast cancer is not pink, not pretty, & not helped by infantilising or anthropomorphising the disease. Be aware, raise funds (check where you're sending them!), but ffs, please stop pretending it's cute. stelladuffy.blog/2017/10/01/t...
The Pinking of October
Oh dear. I just realised it’s October, aka breast cancer awareness month.  A whole month of pinking up something that is neither pretty nor pink. Sigh. Here’s what I hate about it …
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This Wednesday 24th evening I'll be joining Welldoing to share some research and thinking and perhaps a creative writing exercise or two on finding the value and possibility in #postmenopause (that's right, #menopause is definitely NOT the end!)
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What Stella Duffy's research reveals about post-menopausal life
Join us for a deep dive into Stella Duffy's enlightening doctoral research into life after menopause
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kamalaharris.com
What we are witnessing is an outright abuse of power.

This administration is attacking critics and using fear as a weapon to silence anyone who would speak out. Media corporations — from television networks to newspapers — are capitulating to these threats.
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naomialderman.bsky.social
I love London so much. So much.

Did you know that London has the lowest level of ethnic violence of any city of comparable size in the world?

Multiculturalism has in fact worked here. They just don’t want it to be true because we happen to have a Muslim mayor.
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In London, hate will never win.
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jackdunc1.bsky.social
The media making out like the Robinson Rally was huge. 150,000 is tiny!

Compare it to the 'Free Palestine' march (up to 800,000), the anti-Brexit march (650,000) or the Iraq war demo (1.5 Million)

Disproportionate attention given to the gammon, as always.
stellduffy.bsky.social
dear god, AI 'restoration' is such a curse.
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happy pub day to you, xxx
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A working class hero is something to be. But NOT if you’re a working class woman. Yes the whole Rayner thing is messy and yes Starmer’s tenure so far has been very disappointing but ffs, after the absolute SHITSHOW of Tory lies and cronyism for years sure, the working class woman has to go. Aaargh.
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jamellebouie.net
trump can issue as many executive orders as he wants, perhaps coverage should reflect the fact that a lot of these have the legal force of a child's wishlist for santa
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sifill.bsky.social
So I imagine that folks who insisted it wasn’t ethnic cleansing, land theft, forced removal are lined up to apologize for insisting that this was just about defeating Hamas fighters and the return of the hostages.
chadbourn.bsky.social
The Trump plan for Gaza includes the relocation of the entire population - 2 million people - a US “trusteeship” and the creation of a tourism and tech hub.

Landowners get digital tokens worth $5,000 and rent subsidies. Investors are promised 4x return on $100 billion.
Gaza postwar plan envisions ‘voluntary’ relocation of entire population
President Donald Trump and international partners are discussing plans to build a “Riviera of the Middle East” on the rubble of Gaza. One would establish U.S. control and pay Palestinians to leave.
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For anyone who loves reading, loves books, loves INDEPENDENT bookshops (whether you're in south London or not), if you have a book you plan to buy this weekend - you might want to buy it via @booksellercrow.bsky.social - see this thread and support an indy that needs your love and custom just now. x
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Poss not in the 1950s?
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labourlewis.bsky.social
Deeply concerned that changes to trans rights could be approved without MPs or the public seeing details. This risks undermining accountability on issues affecting lives and freedoms. Proposals must face scrutiny before approval. Everyone deserves to know what’s being decided in their name.
Letter from Clive Lewis MP to the Minister for Women and Equalities, dated 29 July 2025, raising concern that the Equality and Human Rights Commission’s revised Code of Practice may receive ministerial approval before being seen by MPs or the public. The letter calls for parliamentary scrutiny and asks whether the Government will present the changes to Parliament before approval
stellduffy.bsky.social
nope. women aren't allowed to be smelly, sad, unkempt and angry.
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I think so. Trixie Belden, Nancy Drew, girl sleuths. Trixie has a gang, girls & boys, is 'hot-headed'. Nancy is solo, posher, fancier.
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Quick question - Trixie or Nancy?
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It won’t be. It will have that single plot point in common. That’s all.
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If you can’t find it, maybe you’re meant to write it?
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newseye.bsky.social
Take a moment to appreciate Harry Truman‘s negotiating skills. He got Hitler to surrender everything, agree to Germany’s occupation and then shoot himself in the head.
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JD Vance: "This is how wars ultimately get settled. If you go back to World War 2, if you go back to every major conflict in human history, they all end with some kind of negotiation."
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This was a great listen, especially re problems with the relentlessly negative #menopause narrative contributing to #genderedageism in the workplace. Also v helpful thinking on ACE & socioeconomic factors contribution to difficulties in the menopause transition.
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Understanding the female brain at midlife with Dr Sarah McKay
Podcast Episode · Magnificent Midlife · 05/08/2025 · 48m
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#RWC2025 loving the #England team 🌹 🌹 beautiful passing, great tries. Obviously I’ll be shouting for #BlackFerns on Sunday. It’s only right.
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amybrown.xyz
this iconic advertising copywriter named Kathy Hepinstall Parks died over the weekend and I wanted to share something from her website I thought Bluesky would like
Why should I write better when a machine can do it for me?
Because actually no one can do it for you, because your voice is unique among all the people on earth. Siri never petted a horse's neck. Alexa has never been ghosted by the captain of the football team. But you have lived, your heart is beating, you have suffered, and you have something important to say. It's a human's job, to use words, and whatever job you give to a machine, that part of your brain goes dark. Maybe it's worth it when it comes to remembering phone numbers and directions, but when that part of your brain that uses words goes dark, that's a vast area that's very close to your soul. Don't let some internet platform convince you that what you have to say and create isn't worthwhile. Words are the echo of your soul. Honing that echo matters.