It is an interview with my friend, a senior rheumatologist, about my brush with chronic pain/fatigue a couple of years ago and the advice he gave me to help me get through it
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It is an interview with my friend, a senior rheumatologist, about my brush with chronic pain/fatigue a couple of years ago and the advice he gave me to help me get through it
naomialderman.substack.com/p/conversati...
The composition and detail are exquisite with the band of white snow/ice creating a perfect frame around the two people and the ship in the distance
Iconic imo
The composition and detail are exquisite with the band of white snow/ice creating a perfect frame around the two people and the ship in the distance
Iconic imo
you can see lots of lovely images of Anne Hathaway from her work, which she consented to and was paid for. but that does not fulfil the need because assault is about the desire to assert power, not sexual gratification.
you can see lots of lovely images of Anne Hathaway from her work, which she consented to and was paid for. but that does not fulfil the need because assault is about the desire to assert power, not sexual gratification.
you have to allow yourself to be whole.
in the *1980s* respected female-sexual-fantasy researcher Nancy Friday could still say she was not aware of *any* women who fantasised about two men together
you have to allow yourself to be whole.
but the internet was what meant that slash could be read and enjoyed by women who would never have gone to a con or keep printed material like this in their homes.
I learned that the library contained zines with Kirk / Spock slash in 1982-ish.
but the internet was what meant that slash could be read and enjoyed by women who would never have gone to a con or keep printed material like this in their homes.
in the *1980s* respected female-sexual-fantasy researcher Nancy Friday could still say she was not aware of *any* women who fantasised about two men together
I very much perceive Heated Rivalry as the apotheosis of slash fiction, that I was into in my teens and 20s. I think this is what we wanted it to do.
in the *1980s* respected female-sexual-fantasy researcher Nancy Friday could still say she was not aware of *any* women who fantasised about two men together
I very much perceive Heated Rivalry as the apotheosis of slash fiction, that I was into in my teens and 20s. I think this is what we wanted it to do.
I very much perceive Heated Rivalry as the apotheosis of slash fiction, that I was into in my teens and 20s. I think this is what we wanted it to do.
it is interesting. seeking out brand new people is *also* delightful but you'll get a long way in life by going: sad? listen to Bach, look at Leonardo's notebooks/sketches, read Jane Austen
it is interesting. seeking out brand new people is *also* delightful but you'll get a long way in life by going: sad? listen to Bach, look at Leonardo's notebooks/sketches, read Jane Austen
(I'm obsessed with Ida Pfeiffer now, which is this one:)
www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/...
(I'm obsessed with Ida Pfeiffer now, which is this one:)
www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/...
janefriedman.com/writers-and-...
www.tiktok.com/@poetmalone/...
janefriedman.com/writers-and-...
www.tiktok.com/@poetmalone/...
(Just fielded 3 separate 'are you OK?' messages...)
(Just fielded 3 separate 'are you OK?' messages...)
how the existence of nuclear weapons - designed to destroy fascism - has mandated a softly-softly approach with the US and Russia
The Swedish prime minister just announced that a pan-European force is arriving in #Greenland as we speak.
No word yet on whether UK forces are among them.
how the existence of nuclear weapons - designed to destroy fascism - has mandated a softly-softly approach with the US and Russia
But they never really cover that the Montagues were fighting for their lives as Jewish people.
www.nytimes.com/2026/01/11/m...
But it does still strike me as so British that they paint Ewan Montague as “self-satisfied aristo” & don’t mention that he was Jewish.
www.nytimes.com/2026/01/11/m...
But it does still strike me as so British that they paint Ewan Montague as “self-satisfied aristo” & don’t mention that he was Jewish.
www.nytimes.com/2026/01/11/m...
But it does still strike me as so British that they paint Ewan Montague as “self-satisfied aristo” & don’t mention that he was Jewish.
(In many cases not a preview but what is already happening. It is the same exact logic.)
I am SUPER aware that there is a rapid escalation ramp. In so many culture wars, whatever ”they” do to ”us” becomes the new low bar of what “we” can do to “them”.
(In many cases not a preview but what is already happening. It is the same exact logic.)
I am SUPER aware that there is a rapid escalation ramp. In so many culture wars, whatever ”they” do to ”us” becomes the new low bar of what “we” can do to “them”.
(In many cases not a preview but what is already happening. It is the same exact logic.)
The arts are about hearing from more voices. Just commission/programme more work/speakers
The arts are about hearing from more voices. Just commission/programme more work/speakers
Here are the reasons ‘AI child abuse images’ are not like ‘going to a nightclub’.
open.substack.com/pub/naomiald...
Here are the reasons ‘AI child abuse images’ are not like ‘going to a nightclub’.
open.substack.com/pub/naomiald...