Tigerfly 🍯🧊🫖
@tigerfly.bsky.social
🪷Fighting for a better world for *ALL* Idk about you but I’m OUTRAGED🤬 Chronic Health Stuff 〰️ TeaMe2HealMe🍵 Feminist & Amber Heard Supporter 4LIFE ask me why
👉ABUSE IS A PLAYBOOK 👀🚩
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoerciveControl
Let’s build our village 🦋🌈🦄
👉ABUSE IS A PLAYBOOK 👀🚩
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoerciveControl
Let’s build our village 🦋🌈🦄
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@tigerfly.bsky.social
· Nov 14
Most Abuse is not physical… but it’s still just as destructive as black eyes & bruises. Perhaps more so #DVawareness
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Preparing for civil war or suppression of legitimate protest? Both are chilling.
“.. A top US military official has ordered the national guards of all 50 US states .. to form ‘quick reaction forces’ trained in ‘riot control’, including use of batons, body shields, Tasers and pepper spray, according to an internal Pentagon directive ..”
www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025...
www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025...
October 29, 2025 at 6:44 PM
Preparing for civil war or suppression of legitimate protest? Both are chilling.
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Abuse is a deliberate blend of kindness and cruelty that keeps victims emotionally trapped. Survivors reveal how this confusing cycle of warmth and hostility left them feeling unable to leave.
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Intermittent Kindness: How Abusers Alternate Care and Cruelty to Keep You Trapped
Uncover the power of intermittent kindness in abusive relationships. Explore the psychological dynamic that keeps victims trapped.
shadowsofcontrol.com
October 29, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Abuse is a deliberate blend of kindness and cruelty that keeps victims emotionally trapped. Survivors reveal how this confusing cycle of warmth and hostility left them feeling unable to leave.
shadowsofcontrol.com/articl...
shadowsofcontrol.com/articl...
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Abusers will erode your identity until you don’t recognise yourself anymore.
#CoerciveControl
#CoerciveControl
October 29, 2025 at 11:32 PM
Abusers will erode your identity until you don’t recognise yourself anymore.
#CoerciveControl
#CoerciveControl
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Digital coercive control is on the rise. Cyberstalking, online manipulation, and surveillance are modern tools abusers use to trap their victims. Learn more and support my work on Substack. #CoerciveControl
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Understanding Cyberstalking and Online Manipulation in Coercive Control
The rise of digital technologies has transformed many aspects of our lives, offering new avenues for communication, learning, and engagement.
shadowsofcontrol.substack.com
October 18, 2025 at 2:10 AM
Digital coercive control is on the rise. Cyberstalking, online manipulation, and surveillance are modern tools abusers use to trap their victims. Learn more and support my work on Substack. #CoerciveControl
shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...
shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...
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Victims need understanding ..where there is disclosure.. respect.. trauma informed...understanding barriers in culture/language... No prejudice.... victim blaming.... minimising...and most of all...trauma informed practice with specialists if required.
April 1, 2025 at 8:34 AM
Victims need understanding ..where there is disclosure.. respect.. trauma informed...understanding barriers in culture/language... No prejudice.... victim blaming.... minimising...and most of all...trauma informed practice with specialists if required.
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Isolation, dependence, and total control—this is how coercive control erodes your identity piece by piece.
#domesticabuseawareness #emotionalabuse
#domesticabuseawareness #emotionalabuse
October 10, 2025 at 11:30 PM
Isolation, dependence, and total control—this is how coercive control erodes your identity piece by piece.
#domesticabuseawareness #emotionalabuse
#domesticabuseawareness #emotionalabuse
X is now one giant pileup of propagated hate they want to blame on everyone but themselves
a man is screaming and saying run em hard
ALT: a man is screaming and saying run em hard
media.tenor.com
September 26, 2025 at 7:15 PM
X is now one giant pileup of propagated hate they want to blame on everyone but themselves
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I have never, in hundreds & hundreds of sessions, met a trauma survivor who wanted to be "rescued."
I HAVE met hundreds of survivors who wanted to be seen & supported in rescuing themselves-- & caring for the past version of themselves who actually did need rescuing at one time.
I HAVE met hundreds of survivors who wanted to be seen & supported in rescuing themselves-- & caring for the past version of themselves who actually did need rescuing at one time.
September 26, 2025 at 3:17 PM
I have never, in hundreds & hundreds of sessions, met a trauma survivor who wanted to be "rescued."
I HAVE met hundreds of survivors who wanted to be seen & supported in rescuing themselves-- & caring for the past version of themselves who actually did need rescuing at one time.
I HAVE met hundreds of survivors who wanted to be seen & supported in rescuing themselves-- & caring for the past version of themselves who actually did need rescuing at one time.
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September 24, 2025 at 6:45 PM
This podcast is about so much more than celebrities. It’s about social engineering & manipulation of the masses
September 25, 2025 at 6:56 PM
This podcast is about so much more than celebrities. It’s about social engineering & manipulation of the masses
Heyyy checking in. Been a while. How’s everyone here holding up?
September 25, 2025 at 6:51 PM
Heyyy checking in. Been a while. How’s everyone here holding up?
It’s perhaps the most dangerous, because it’s “invisible” — coercive control is the abuser’s playbook. It’s your freedom, sense of self & independence they steal right out from underneath you
Coercive control is invisible abuse, stripping away freedom piece by piece. Survivors describe how silence, subtle punishments & relentless pressure grind them down until saying “yes” feels like the only way to survive. What looks like choice from the outside is, in reality, captivity in disguise.
The Abuse You Can’t See: How Abusers Control Without Ever Saying “No”
When people imagine abuse, they often picture a partner shouting orders, laying down rules, or forbidding certain behaviours outright.
shadowsofcontrol.substack.com
September 25, 2025 at 6:50 PM
It’s perhaps the most dangerous, because it’s “invisible” — coercive control is the abuser’s playbook. It’s your freedom, sense of self & independence they steal right out from underneath you
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Coercive control is invisible abuse, stripping away freedom piece by piece. Survivors describe how silence, subtle punishments & relentless pressure grind them down until saying “yes” feels like the only way to survive. What looks like choice from the outside is, in reality, captivity in disguise.
The Abuse You Can’t See: How Abusers Control Without Ever Saying “No”
When people imagine abuse, they often picture a partner shouting orders, laying down rules, or forbidding certain behaviours outright.
shadowsofcontrol.substack.com
September 25, 2025 at 5:12 PM
Coercive control is invisible abuse, stripping away freedom piece by piece. Survivors describe how silence, subtle punishments & relentless pressure grind them down until saying “yes” feels like the only way to survive. What looks like choice from the outside is, in reality, captivity in disguise.
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Who Trolled Amber?
shows.acast.com
November 15, 2024 at 1:22 PM
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Abuse isn’t always physical. Netflix’s Maid reveals the hidden damage of coercive control and emotional abuse — the invisible prison survivors fight to escape.
Read more on my Substack.
#DomesticAbuseAwareness
shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...
Read more on my Substack.
#DomesticAbuseAwareness
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In The Media: Netflix’s 'Maid' Illuminates the Shadows of Emotional Abuse
Netflix's groundbreaking series Maid brought the conversation about domestic abuse into the forefront of media discourse, challenging long-held misconceptions and illuminating the complex realities of emotional abuse and coercive control.
shadowsofcontrol.substack.com
August 26, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Abuse isn’t always physical. Netflix’s Maid reveals the hidden damage of coercive control and emotional abuse — the invisible prison survivors fight to escape.
Read more on my Substack.
#DomesticAbuseAwareness
shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...
Read more on my Substack.
#DomesticAbuseAwareness
shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...
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Propaganda I'm not falling for:
- Meghan Markle hate
- Amber Heard hate
- Halle Bailey hate
- Rachel Zegler hate
- Bella Ramsey hate
- Blake Lively hate
- Megan Thee Stallion hate
- Brie Larson hate
- Cassie Ventura hate
- Meghan Markle hate
- Amber Heard hate
- Halle Bailey hate
- Rachel Zegler hate
- Bella Ramsey hate
- Blake Lively hate
- Megan Thee Stallion hate
- Brie Larson hate
- Cassie Ventura hate
August 9, 2025 at 11:45 PM
Propaganda I'm not falling for:
- Meghan Markle hate
- Amber Heard hate
- Halle Bailey hate
- Rachel Zegler hate
- Bella Ramsey hate
- Blake Lively hate
- Megan Thee Stallion hate
- Brie Larson hate
- Cassie Ventura hate
- Meghan Markle hate
- Amber Heard hate
- Halle Bailey hate
- Rachel Zegler hate
- Bella Ramsey hate
- Blake Lively hate
- Megan Thee Stallion hate
- Brie Larson hate
- Cassie Ventura hate
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One of the basic human rights a narcissist takes away from you is the right to be angry with them. No matter how badly they treated you, your voice shouldn't rise.
The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.
The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.
March 24, 2025 at 11:25 PM
One of the basic human rights a narcissist takes away from you is the right to be angry with them. No matter how badly they treated you, your voice shouldn't rise.
The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.
The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.
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I’m honored to be a part of the Love and Money Summit with 30 other speakers. I will speaking on the Cult in the Home: Children of Coercive Control. Thank you @tracycoenen for creating this opportunity going live on March 25th to March 27th. Sign up here: divorcemoneyguide.com/summit/
March 21, 2025 at 3:44 PM
I’m honored to be a part of the Love and Money Summit with 30 other speakers. I will speaking on the Cult in the Home: Children of Coercive Control. Thank you @tracycoenen for creating this opportunity going live on March 25th to March 27th. Sign up here: divorcemoneyguide.com/summit/
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Are you always the one apologizing? In healthy relationships, both people share accountability, but in abusive dynamics, abusers use blame-shifting to ensure you’re always the one feeling guilty—no matter who’s really at fault. #coercivecontrol
March 19, 2025 at 3:02 AM
Are you always the one apologizing? In healthy relationships, both people share accountability, but in abusive dynamics, abusers use blame-shifting to ensure you’re always the one feeling guilty—no matter who’s really at fault. #coercivecontrol
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wish he'd get on one of his own rockets some time
March 20, 2025 at 3:47 AM
wish he'd get on one of his own rockets some time
They will also up their game of sabotage while pointing to your failure
Abusers often intensify their harmful behavior when their partner starts gaining strength, independence, and social connections. 🚩
March 20, 2025 at 6:07 AM
They will also up their game of sabotage while pointing to your failure