Intimacy Nerds
@intimacynerds.bsky.social
A home for the experiences of intersectional neurodivergent folx.
We explore trauma-informed strategies for building safe, fulfilling relationships.
QTBIPOC-owned / Poly-friendly / Kink-friendly
www.intimacynerds.com
We explore trauma-informed strategies for building safe, fulfilling relationships.
QTBIPOC-owned / Poly-friendly / Kink-friendly
www.intimacynerds.com
For any marginalized folx who feel helpless rn:
1. Your survival is precious. We need you alive and well. Protect yourself from burnout.
2. Your neighbors and loved ones are community. Share resources & care for your locale.
3. Emotional resilience is key. And mental health thrives with support.
1. Your survival is precious. We need you alive and well. Protect yourself from burnout.
2. Your neighbors and loved ones are community. Share resources & care for your locale.
3. Emotional resilience is key. And mental health thrives with support.
Fascism is, demonstrably now more than ever, not only or uniquely in the US contained to "red" or "purple" geographies, and everyone is better off if people anywhere and everywhere have strong community-based leftist activism and mutual aid networks. You can build solutions and platforms. Do it.
January 22, 2026 at 12:04 AM
For any marginalized folx who feel helpless rn:
1. Your survival is precious. We need you alive and well. Protect yourself from burnout.
2. Your neighbors and loved ones are community. Share resources & care for your locale.
3. Emotional resilience is key. And mental health thrives with support.
1. Your survival is precious. We need you alive and well. Protect yourself from burnout.
2. Your neighbors and loved ones are community. Share resources & care for your locale.
3. Emotional resilience is key. And mental health thrives with support.
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I love this so hard for us.
“Love is an act of resistance, and our community is so brave and resilient.”
For @thebarbedwire.com and the @19thnews.org: Welcome to the Big Queer Wedding Party, a joyous and defiant glitter-soaked party where ten couples from around Texas (& Oklahoma!) got married or renewed their vows.
For @thebarbedwire.com and the @19thnews.org: Welcome to the Big Queer Wedding Party, a joyous and defiant glitter-soaked party where ten couples from around Texas (& Oklahoma!) got married or renewed their vows.
‘Love is the Only Motherf****** Way’: Big Queer Wedding Party Celebrates LGBTQ+ Joy and Resilience in Texas
the flower-filled Austin event honored the queer community’s commitment to “hold each other up” in dark times.
thebarbedwire.com
January 21, 2026 at 6:43 PM
I love this so hard for us.
New podcast launching Feb. 4!
I'm Milo, a mixed, ND, transmasc, queer, and I'm tired of mental health advice excluding intersectional folx.
As a trauma recovery coach (me), and a sex therapist (Dylan), we speak beyond the mainstream.
Tell us: what's the #1 way trauma hurts your relationships?
I'm Milo, a mixed, ND, transmasc, queer, and I'm tired of mental health advice excluding intersectional folx.
As a trauma recovery coach (me), and a sex therapist (Dylan), we speak beyond the mainstream.
Tell us: what's the #1 way trauma hurts your relationships?
January 21, 2026 at 11:19 PM
New podcast launching Feb. 4!
I'm Milo, a mixed, ND, transmasc, queer, and I'm tired of mental health advice excluding intersectional folx.
As a trauma recovery coach (me), and a sex therapist (Dylan), we speak beyond the mainstream.
Tell us: what's the #1 way trauma hurts your relationships?
I'm Milo, a mixed, ND, transmasc, queer, and I'm tired of mental health advice excluding intersectional folx.
As a trauma recovery coach (me), and a sex therapist (Dylan), we speak beyond the mainstream.
Tell us: what's the #1 way trauma hurts your relationships?
This is so relatable because our culture normalizes suffering in silence.
We're conditioned to believe that expressing pain is "weak," "attention-seeking," or "fake."
Never forget that asking for help is one of humanity's strongest evolutionary skills. You deserve to be heard, seen, and supported.
We're conditioned to believe that expressing pain is "weak," "attention-seeking," or "fake."
Never forget that asking for help is one of humanity's strongest evolutionary skills. You deserve to be heard, seen, and supported.
January 20, 2026 at 10:52 PM
This is so relatable because our culture normalizes suffering in silence.
We're conditioned to believe that expressing pain is "weak," "attention-seeking," or "fake."
Never forget that asking for help is one of humanity's strongest evolutionary skills. You deserve to be heard, seen, and supported.
We're conditioned to believe that expressing pain is "weak," "attention-seeking," or "fake."
Never forget that asking for help is one of humanity's strongest evolutionary skills. You deserve to be heard, seen, and supported.
Us neurospicy intersectional folx can have a lot of trauma around emotional intimacy. It's so common to avoid conflict and suppress feelings until we've forgotten how to connect, even when we mutually desire connection. What's your biggest challenge with communicating in relationships? Let's talk.
January 19, 2026 at 2:32 PM
Us neurospicy intersectional folx can have a lot of trauma around emotional intimacy. It's so common to avoid conflict and suppress feelings until we've forgotten how to connect, even when we mutually desire connection. What's your biggest challenge with communicating in relationships? Let's talk.