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Are you tired of being repressed? Don't you just want to reaffirm the urge to life?
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Spoonboy | I Am A Dog
YouTube video by DIY Music Archive
youtu.be
Reminds me of the time I was telling my former therapist that at our previous session I had dissociated so hard I felt like I was sitting next to my own body and could see myself out of the corner of my eye and he (a zen buddhist convert) just said "Woah that's some mystical stuff"
oh dawg are you derealized and/or dissociative? in any case—you are not far off from the basic premise of sunyata, emptiness. things have no essence to be found in phenomena, neither do you, everything arises and perishes in accordance with causes and conditions, providing such for further happening
February 11, 2026 at 10:05 AM
February 1, 2026 at 5:23 AM
Got some new books
February 1, 2026 at 3:43 AM
When I was younger about a half dozen different music teachers drilled into me that constructive criticism was the most valuable thing a person could give you. Hard to overstate how impactful this has been on my personal development
We need to reintroduce the necessity of error in the development, reproduction, and transmission of understanding. you know, learning by doing hot girl shit and being cute when you have to hold an L. if you can’t anticipate how you can be wrong & how you need to be wrong to become right—you’re blind
a woman in a police uniform with glasses is holding her hands together
Alt: anime girl blep bleeeee :p
media.tenor.com
January 31, 2026 at 3:04 AM
Reposted by pat
I wrote this song on Saturday, recorded it yesterday and released it to you today in response to the state terror being visited on the city of Minneapolis. It’s dedicated to the people of Minneapolis, our innocent immigrant neighbors and in memory of Alex Pretti and Renee Good.

Stay free
Bruce Springsteen - Streets Of Minneapolis (Official Audio)
YouTube video by Bruce Springsteen
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January 28, 2026 at 5:02 PM
Back when I read Hacker News regularly I had a rule for myself that whenever someone corrected another commenter's metaphor I would collapse the whole comment tree because nothing of value ever happened after that point
really really really need ppl to recognize that metaphors are not a 1:1 thing and are not going to map with absolute cartographic accuracy to the thing you are describing. the coastline will be approximated, it's fine. that's how metaphors work
January 28, 2026 at 5:17 AM
We are all sidemen to the music
January 22, 2026 at 6:17 AM
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Once again reminding everyone that my mother used to tell me when I was small:

If someone does bad to others, they'll probably do it to you eventually!!!
January 18, 2026 at 10:59 PM
At some point maybe we will all grow up enough to realize that when a trans woman victimizes another trans woman the perpetrator's identity is not actually salient. Being a trans woman doesn't make you nice, it makes you vulnerable
"well EVERY trans woman has allegations against her"

there is an ocean of difference between fascists calling every trans person a groomer and *other trans women* credibly alleging harm who rarely receive the justice that they deserve that are often punished for even speaking out in the first place
January 18, 2026 at 10:45 PM
I'm beginning to suspect that existing as a person in the world is actually all performance
one of my biggest insecurities is that much of my post-transition identity is artificial as a result of deciding what kind of woman I wanted to be and trying to become her but the reality is that my pre-transition identity was just as, if not more artificial and informed by societal demands than now
it's important to not let your post-transition self be defined by preconceived notions of your pre-transition self whose identity was largely built up of coping mechanisms for the gender supplanted on it by society
January 18, 2026 at 7:27 PM
I feel like a lot of people fail to appreciate the degree to which our entire society is structured to make the stupidest thoughts of evil powerful people into reality. They don't need to be competent and that's by design
we cant say this wont happen because “they arent smart enough” or “they dont have the popular backing for this or that” because weve been saying that for my whole adult life and he’s been rolling us.
January 17, 2026 at 7:44 PM
January 16, 2026 at 8:40 PM
Hm everything sucks and my life is a mess... the perfect time to start writing a prolog interpreter that no one will ever use for no particular reason
January 16, 2026 at 8:36 PM
Hm
January 16, 2026 at 7:05 PM
Hard to tell if "woke is back" is more wishcasting or denialism. I think mostly people have internalized fascist propaganda so much they don't really know what woke even looks like
"woke is back" is beyond incorrect at the moment. the planet has never been more nationalist in its history. for this aspirational future to come about it basically requires the construction of a political form beyond "everything-is-a-nationalism" that can be truly postnationalist
January 9, 2026 at 11:52 PM
Logging onto bluesky for the first time in days
January 7, 2026 at 12:04 AM
Who's a good girl? Who's a good girl?? You are!! YES YOU ARE !!! Such a good doggie 🫳🐕 ^_^
December 27, 2025 at 7:55 PM
Notably the latter was the dynamic in basically every lesbian-feminist community that banned trans women. Outright TERFs were always a minority but almost always got what they wanted because apathetic cisfem bystanders reliably broke with them when pressed
tbh what's the actual difference between "most cis people fucking despise trans people" and "most cis people tolerate us, its just the small minority dominating the system rn that despise trans people" when in the latter those cis people tolerating us do nothing to stop the sword coming down on us
December 18, 2025 at 7:59 PM
December 18, 2025 at 10:45 AM
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I don't care that Musk does drugs. I care that he gets to have a life, a career, not have to piss in cup, not have to worry about the police breaking his bones or ending his life while saying "THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DO DRUG" to bystanders, have a family, have good publicity, and be respected
December 17, 2025 at 2:17 AM
The crusty linux men can be pretty shitty sometimes but people are often just mad they got "RTFM" as their troubleshooting advice (it's good advice, sorry)
you are a silkworm grub suckling on the bosom of American advertisement if crusty linux men keep you from giving up the adolf hitler reality technology
December 17, 2025 at 12:16 AM
When I was 3 years old I figured out how to use the VCR just so that I could watch Yellow Submarine on VHS. Having rewatched it (the VHS cut specifically) recently I found it really striking what a beautiful work of art that whole movie is
I know it’s fun to hate on the Beatles but that stuff is good sorry.
December 13, 2025 at 2:04 AM
Desire is self-justifying. Make peace with what you want
i should care less than i do about whether or not my kinks are cringe
November 16, 2025 at 11:44 PM
Oh so this has been a known thing for at least 6 years 🙂
November 16, 2025 at 10:52 PM
So cool how the wikipedia article for "repressed memory" is like 90% child abuse apologism and the talk page is just wikipedia editors reacting with total obtuseness to people pointing this out
November 16, 2025 at 9:04 PM