stef rose
@stefinitely.cool
she/her | loves 90s alternative, black hair dye, tattoos, live music, & @matty.wtf | bi 🩷💜💙| hates raw tomatoes & patriarchy | keeper of a tuxie cat, chickens, & Aussies | raising teenagers | googly-eyed goth | stefinitely.cool
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stef rose
@stefinitely.cool
· Aug 1
Time for a reintroduction. I’m Stef, newly married to @matty.wtf, my second chance that we got right. I’m a mom of teens & suburban goth at heart. I lift & I live for 90s alt & post-punk and tattoos. I hate raw tomatoes, bad policies, and the damn patriarchy.
I am 46 years old. This very day I decided to stop waiting until I finish a task to allow myself to go to the bathroom at work. I have been holding myself hostage my entire adult life 🤦🏻♀️
November 12, 2025 at 3:03 AM
I am 46 years old. This very day I decided to stop waiting until I finish a task to allow myself to go to the bathroom at work. I have been holding myself hostage my entire adult life 🤦🏻♀️
Coffee table upgrade! Retired the broken pine chest I’ve had since I was a kid and replaced it with the kind of “fancy” furniture you assemble yourself. Still an improvement! And only 2.5 more years until high school districts no longer mean Matty and I have to live apart half the time.
November 11, 2025 at 12:55 PM
Coffee table upgrade! Retired the broken pine chest I’ve had since I was a kid and replaced it with the kind of “fancy” furniture you assemble yourself. Still an improvement! And only 2.5 more years until high school districts no longer mean Matty and I have to live apart half the time.
Small potatoes problems, but I’m annoyed that I can’t watch the Packers game tonight because YouTubeTV and Disney are still fighting
November 10, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Small potatoes problems, but I’m annoyed that I can’t watch the Packers game tonight because YouTubeTV and Disney are still fighting
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Only the Democrats could watch a series of elections resoundingly go their way and then, less than a week later, loudly announce that they want to fold on the shutdown. Absolutely worthless party of cowards and hogs. Stupid, weak, useless.
November 9, 2025 at 9:18 PM
Only the Democrats could watch a series of elections resoundingly go their way and then, less than a week later, loudly announce that they want to fold on the shutdown. Absolutely worthless party of cowards and hogs. Stupid, weak, useless.
And here’s my insult. What’s yours?
November 9, 2025 at 12:27 AM
And here’s my insult. What’s yours?
Here’s my random compliment :) What’s yours?
November 9, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Here’s my random compliment :) What’s yours?
My fifteen-year-old son is downstairs playing Xbox and blasting The Smiths. My GenX heart is happy. youtu.be/3r-qDvD3F3c?...
There Is a Light That Never Goes Out (2011 Remaster)
YouTube video by The Smiths - Topic
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November 8, 2025 at 5:00 PM
My fifteen-year-old son is downstairs playing Xbox and blasting The Smiths. My GenX heart is happy. youtu.be/3r-qDvD3F3c?...
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It takes so little effort not to be a piece of shit, and yet so many still seem to fall short of even that.
Be kind. Try not to hurt people. Assume the best. And for fuck's sake, don't play with people's hearts.
Be kind. Try not to hurt people. Assume the best. And for fuck's sake, don't play with people's hearts.
November 8, 2025 at 2:35 AM
It takes so little effort not to be a piece of shit, and yet so many still seem to fall short of even that.
Be kind. Try not to hurt people. Assume the best. And for fuck's sake, don't play with people's hearts.
Be kind. Try not to hurt people. Assume the best. And for fuck's sake, don't play with people's hearts.
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At Parent’s Weekend, I said I wished there was a candle that smelled like the old books in the library. @matty.wtf went quiet, phone in hand. I pretended not to notice, but suspected I knew what he was up to because he’s thoughtful like that. The candle arrived yesterday. I love this man.
November 6, 2025 at 6:55 PM
At Parent’s Weekend, I said I wished there was a candle that smelled like the old books in the library. @matty.wtf went quiet, phone in hand. I pretended not to notice, but suspected I knew what he was up to because he’s thoughtful like that. The candle arrived yesterday. I love this man.
At Parent’s Weekend, I said I wished there was a candle that smelled like the old books in the library. @matty.wtf went quiet, phone in hand. I pretended not to notice, but suspected I knew what he was up to because he’s thoughtful like that. The candle arrived yesterday. I love this man.
November 6, 2025 at 6:55 PM
At Parent’s Weekend, I said I wished there was a candle that smelled like the old books in the library. @matty.wtf went quiet, phone in hand. I pretended not to notice, but suspected I knew what he was up to because he’s thoughtful like that. The candle arrived yesterday. I love this man.
This is awesome!!
I knew it would take less than a day for a tiktok dj to make something.
November 5, 2025 at 1:45 PM
This is awesome!!
After like 30 years of wishing women’s deodorant didn’t smell like lavender, baby powder, berries, or other such things - Secret makes a scent called Mountain Air that smells more like men’s deodorant. I dig it.
November 5, 2025 at 12:08 AM
After like 30 years of wishing women’s deodorant didn’t smell like lavender, baby powder, berries, or other such things - Secret makes a scent called Mountain Air that smells more like men’s deodorant. I dig it.
This Diet Cherry Coke will fix me. Hopefully 🤦🏻♀️
November 4, 2025 at 6:48 PM
This Diet Cherry Coke will fix me. Hopefully 🤦🏻♀️
Welcome to shopping with Stef. The game: guess which completely unnecessary object I’ll fall in love with next.
Today featured a Cheez-It gingerbread-style house kit and a blow mold hippo with a cup of cocoa. Scroll the thread for the hippo, it’s ridiculously amazing.
Today featured a Cheez-It gingerbread-style house kit and a blow mold hippo with a cup of cocoa. Scroll the thread for the hippo, it’s ridiculously amazing.
November 1, 2025 at 11:21 PM
Welcome to shopping with Stef. The game: guess which completely unnecessary object I’ll fall in love with next.
Today featured a Cheez-It gingerbread-style house kit and a blow mold hippo with a cup of cocoa. Scroll the thread for the hippo, it’s ridiculously amazing.
Today featured a Cheez-It gingerbread-style house kit and a blow mold hippo with a cup of cocoa. Scroll the thread for the hippo, it’s ridiculously amazing.
You can’t put someone in a role that asks them to think strategically, lead thoughtfully, and build trust, but then keep them in a system that only rewards obedience and control. That dissonance hits on every level.
October 28, 2025 at 10:36 PM
You can’t put someone in a role that asks them to think strategically, lead thoughtfully, and build trust, but then keep them in a system that only rewards obedience and control. That dissonance hits on every level.
Siri - I said play Wlbr St Tvrn by Winona Fighter, not shuffle songs by John Denver.
October 28, 2025 at 5:29 PM
Siri - I said play Wlbr St Tvrn by Winona Fighter, not shuffle songs by John Denver.
One of my ex’s nieces got married this weekend- the 1st adult milestone for the nieces & nephews I’ve missed since the divorce. I met her when she was a toddler & knew the rest from birth. I’m deeply happy in the life I have now, but every so often, something reminds me of what I didn’t get to keep.
October 28, 2025 at 12:03 AM
One of my ex’s nieces got married this weekend- the 1st adult milestone for the nieces & nephews I’ve missed since the divorce. I met her when she was a toddler & knew the rest from birth. I’m deeply happy in the life I have now, but every so often, something reminds me of what I didn’t get to keep.
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Riding the train at Six Flags with @stefinitely.cool
October 25, 2025 at 7:03 PM
Riding the train at Six Flags with @stefinitely.cool
What is it like inside your head?
Well I’m definitely going to start one story but finish a different one.
Well I’m definitely going to start one story but finish a different one.
October 25, 2025 at 6:14 PM
What is it like inside your head?
Well I’m definitely going to start one story but finish a different one.
Well I’m definitely going to start one story but finish a different one.
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REM was wrong. I do not feel fine.
October 24, 2025 at 11:37 PM
REM was wrong. I do not feel fine.
My favorite mug. It only comes out for spooky season, but maybe this is the year it gets a permanent spot.
October 25, 2025 at 1:23 PM
My favorite mug. It only comes out for spooky season, but maybe this is the year it gets a permanent spot.
Going to listen to a friend’s boyfriend’s band because I am apparently seventeen hahaha
October 25, 2025 at 1:47 AM
Going to listen to a friend’s boyfriend’s band because I am apparently seventeen hahaha
What the fuck
My god. Look at the “Major Events Timeline.“
We are living in hell.
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We are living in hell.
www.whitehouse.gov/about-the-wh...
The White House Building
Every president since John Adams has occupied the White House, and the history of this building extends far beyond the construction of its walls. From the Ground Floor Corridor rooms, transformed from...
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October 23, 2025 at 11:37 PM
What the fuck
I accidentally dropped part of a slice of turkey in that weird spot between the seat and the console in my car- can’t reach it. I guess I’m glad it’s October and not July 🤦🏻♀️
October 22, 2025 at 5:56 PM
I accidentally dropped part of a slice of turkey in that weird spot between the seat and the console in my car- can’t reach it. I guess I’m glad it’s October and not July 🤦🏻♀️