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Too weird to live, too rare to die
Is there a term for a white person lying about being white and pretending to be indigenous? I know of someone in an online space who’s pretending to be First Nations in order to safeguard themselves due to being an insufferable bully.
November 18, 2025 at 1:06 PM
I went through and deleted a bunch of messages on my Insta—some 10+ years old—and filled with the hauntings of people who saw me as a burden in their lives.
November 16, 2025 at 8:57 PM
The funniest joke ever is that the majority of ppl who don’t actually need glp-1s will be prescribed it.

And those that do need it will have to fight several gods and reshape reality to be considered at all for a prescription.
November 14, 2025 at 3:53 AM
Anyway. The woman who cleans our offices at night has been missing all week, and when I asked after her, no one can tell me where she is. Praying she’s just on vacation and that she hasn’t been taken.
November 7, 2025 at 4:53 PM
I’ll never tell those that act as shadows in my presence that their obsessive thoughts and conversation about me give me great power. Please keep doing it to benefit me.
November 7, 2025 at 3:33 PM
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this headline hums with ancient autumnal dread
October 23, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Saved a bunch of rp from a retired server over the last 2 weeks. Going through it was maddening bcuz while others said heinously stupid shit abt my oc—the male canon I wrote has more dms & threads by several fucking thousand messages. More than all my other charas combined. Wish I was exaggerating.
September 25, 2025 at 10:38 PM
I don’t refuse to give grounds to those unwilling to challenge their parents on the evil shit they do and say.

You say you believe in freedom and equity but remain silent when your momma or your daddy start reciting mein kampf?? Get real or get bent.
September 16, 2025 at 6:15 PM
I love that we’ll soon be totally severed from the rest of the world. 🥴
Beginning to get emails like this from small overseas businesses I've ordered products from in the past.

I guess this is freedom.
August 27, 2025 at 6:34 PM
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Andor teaches us that rebellion doesn’t have to be big feats of heroism. Sometimes it can just be doing your job really poorly.
August 27, 2025 at 4:33 PM
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I am following the shooting at Annunciation Catholic School. I am horrified by the act of violence not only at a school meant to be a safe learning environment but also at a place of faith. Violence targeting our children and places of worship must end. Residents deserve safety.
August 27, 2025 at 4:02 PM
A friend and I reconnected this morning after yonks, and it made me simultaneously feel more normal than I have in a while and aware that they, outside of my boyfriend and one one other, have been the only person to ask me about last September, and how I was managing.
August 27, 2025 at 2:51 PM
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What level of parasocial do you need to be at to believe a real person’s real life is “queerbaiting” you.
August 27, 2025 at 2:43 AM
Because pumpkin is delicious, as are cloves, cinnamon, and nutmeg.
August 26, 2025 at 7:39 PM
I’ve always held those that enjoyed this, and other media like it, at arms length to my benefit. The mask comes off sooner or later and you get a full-frontal of their rotting, hateful heart.
It was the cruel and heavily eroticized desire to see fat people tortured on live TV that got us here, and now we're not just validating that power she held as some form of expertise, we're covering her pivot to sociopathic Nazism.
Jillian Michaels has transformed from an apolitical wellness authority to an unfiltered political commentator and a defining voice of the MAHA era. She spoke to The New York Times about her transformation.
August 26, 2025 at 7:04 PM
In more boring adult news: the best thing you can put in your purse is a sachet with deodorant wipes, antiperspirant, hand sanitizer, and small toiletries in general. It’s gen saved me stress/time being able to use them at work in event that I’m running behind.
August 26, 2025 at 4:57 PM
A promise to myself: if someone admits to having bullied someone in the past, if they’ve admitted to sending anon hate to someone, if the only time they are present is during a dramatic spectacle, I end the relationship there. It’s kinder to myself, and to them, to say “NO!” to the bullshit.
August 26, 2025 at 4:30 PM
Being a Cassandra, gotta love it.
August 25, 2025 at 4:21 PM
I hope to get an eReader next year so I can begin reading in earnest again. To get back in the habit as I know it's one of the secrets to improving my own writing.
August 24, 2025 at 5:14 PM
I miss being able to garden. I miss life before 2019. I miss undamaged brains.
August 24, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Finding out that someone was spying on you in an enclosed fandom space, relaying information back to someone who stole your art and ideas and then instigated a weird flurry of bullying, harassment, and death threats is always a real treat.
August 24, 2025 at 12:40 PM
If someone tells you they joined a space because they were jealous of you, end it there. Full stop. It’ll save you a lot of time.
August 24, 2025 at 12:23 PM