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K. Blaho
@bluequestrian.bsky.social
Equestrian. Dreaming of adventure, travel, horses, while balancing the reality of caregiving. Hoping to make a difference for democracy, peace, justice, human rights, adoptee rights, and prosperity.
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I want ppl to know that adoptees have been yelling about this our whole damn lives and it wasn’t until the adoptive parents said something that ppl paid attention.

Imagine how that makes us feel. 🥚
The challenges faced by adopted children are often misunderstood or minimized. This article highlights the lack of support families face while showing how rarely adoptees are included in conversations about their own experiences. 🥚
Hundreds tell BBC of adopted children's struggles amid calls for lifelong support
A charity says the system is “under severe strain” as parents recount addiction and mental health battles.
www.bbc.com
December 14, 2025 at 4:05 AM
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Once again as an adoptee I am BEGGING people to read Relinquished by Gretchen Sisson. Being anti-adoption in its current form is actually an essential part of any leftist worldview. Human beings are not commodities and should not have their identities legally sealed off from them permanently. 🥚
The anti-abortion movement constantly tells us that women can "just choose adoption" if they don't want to have a baby. And to a lot of people that sounds reasonable. Except... adoption is often wrenching for birth mothers, and women are often coerced into it.
slate.com/news-and-pol...
I Used to Think Adoption Was a Win-Win-Win Scenario. Here’s What Changed My Mind.
The religious right is trying to impose its adoption ideology on the nation, to the detriment of women and their babies.
slate.com
August 19, 2025 at 2:03 PM
FINALIST, NONFICTION, NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE AWARDS, 2024 FINALIST, 2024 GODDARD RIVERSIDE STEPHAN RUSSO BOOK PRIZE FOR SOCIAL JUSTICE

Relinquished: The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood
by Gretchen Sisson

#adoption #adoptionawareness #birthmothers #adoptiontruths
July 26, 2025 at 9:41 PM
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#mothersday can be quite confusing painful complicated for #adoptees.

It is for me.

I 💜 my #birthmother Joy who was forced to #relinquish me, her child.

I 💜 my #adoptivemom who did the best she knew how to raise someone else's child.

#adoption IS #adoptiontrauma
listen to #adopteevoices
May 11, 2025 at 2:53 PM
July 26, 2025 at 12:12 AM
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Our talking points sheet in text and pdf. "Why We Oppose Safe Haven Baby Boxes" stopshbbnow.org/talking-poin...
Talking Points | Stop Safe Haven Baby Boxes Now!
Use these talking points to educate legislators, policy-makers, the public, and the media about all of the problems associated with baby boxes.
stopshbbnow.org
December 9, 2024 at 4:54 AM
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This International Womens Day, I speak up for the reproductive rights of women who are victimized by the human trafficking industry running a global child supply market. Women are groomed, recruited, coerced, dehumanized and exploited for their wombs, eggs, and children. This must stop.
March 9, 2025 at 4:18 AM
The fact that the suicide rate among adoptees is so high, should tell you something is very wrong with the industry.
Remembering Tam on the anniversary of her death. She was taken from everything she knew, her people, her language, her culture, her homeland. Imagine that pain left unacknowledged. Despite the controversy of how Tam took her life the fact is she ended her pain. This is her truth.
July 9, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Please sign. We should be helping mothers, not encouraging this.The lifelong trauma for both mother and child will be immense and who knows if the mother was coerced, forced, threatened to do this, or if she was even the one who placed her baby in the box. Stop celebrating the abandonment of a baby.
July 9, 2025 at 3:17 AM
Why are people celebrating the abandonment of a baby and not helping the birth mother? A lifetime of trauma for both will follow.
June 23, 2025 at 2:28 AM
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Chiefland’s vice mayor Lewissa Johns, juiced it up. Dressed in what we used to call pedal pushers (incidentally my favorite style of pant) she informed us that The Devil and his handiwork delayed the box opening for nearly 2 years. bit.ly/43wDwhA
Safe Haven Baby Boxes Inc and Their Problem with The Devil | Stop Baby Boxes Now!
...Chiefland's vice mayor Lewissa Johns, juiced it up. Dressed in what we used to call pedal pushers (incidentally my favorite style of pant) she informed us that The Devil and his handiwork delayed t...
bit.ly
April 3, 2025 at 2:40 AM
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"An American citizen cannot be jailed on American soil without due process. But couldn’t he be jailed on foreign soil without due process? Couldn’t the government just . . . do it?" You bet they could.

Today's Triad from @jvl.bsky.social: www.thebulwark.com/p/concentrat...
Concentration Camps and the Deportation of American Citizens
There is no limiting principle for disappearing people into the Bukele gulag.
www.thebulwark.com
April 9, 2025 at 4:47 PM
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It was not your fault you experienced abuse, neglect, or exploitation; it was not your fault you were vulnerable; it was not your fault you had & are having reactions; & it is not shameful that you're struggling to find your way out of it without support.

Breathe.
April 6, 2025 at 5:06 PM
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Traumaversaries are no joke. No matter how good or stable you feel, take their potential to trigger or derail you seriously.

Set realistic goals for traumaversaries & have a plan for not just the day, but the days leading up to & after the day as well.
April 10, 2025 at 7:14 PM
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We’ve been hearing that the federal workers purge has also hit the wild Mustang holding areas and adoption programs hard. Project 2025 calls for the euthanasia of all wild Mustangs. I can’t imagine this really happening, but I think we need answers now.

#sporthorses

wildhorsesonline.blm.gov
Wild Horse and Burro Online Corral - HomeLock
wildhorsesonline.blm.gov
March 7, 2025 at 9:48 AM
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How was he already 30??? 2hat a ho4se, RIP Authentic
#eqbsky
#sporthorses

www.chronofhorse.com/article/auth...
Authentic Dies At 30 - The Chronicle of the Horse
www.chronofhorse.com
April 11, 2025 at 11:45 PM
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✨ Tiny Plates, Big Impact! ✨

Ever find yourself at a fancy restaurant wondering, "Is this a meal or a piece of art?" 😅 Tiny food is a trend that's redefining fine dining. 🍽️

Which team are you on? Tiny, fancy plates or a feast that fills you up? Let us know! 👇 #TinyFood #FineDining
November 26, 2024 at 10:20 PM
I agree @karmabloo.bsky.social We love a feel good fairy-tale, but what about the voices of adoptees who have experienced trauma and don’t have a voice? Don’t their stories matter? Don’t they deserve to be heard? Why are suicide rates so high among adoptees? We need to talk about this.
If being placed for adoption makes a baby so lucky then why are adoptees 4x more likely to attempt suicide? Is life long trauma some sort of luck?
How could anyone want to deny this child such love. I see this and think, that’s the luckiest baby ever.
April 13, 2025 at 4:08 AM
Nobody wants to be abandoned with their histories erased and then trafficked to the highest bidder. Mothers should be helped & supported, not coerced and shamed into thinking she is not good enough. No one talks about the trauma of relinquishment and adoption. #adoptiontrauma #babyboxes
April 13, 2025 at 3:52 AM
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The Damage Has Been Done.

On Friday, the dollar fell by more than 1% relative to a basket of other currencies to reach its lowest level in three years, compounding an almost 10% slide ytd. In the space of a week, it has lost about 3 cents against the pound and 4 cents against the euro.
‘The damage is done’: Trump’s tariffs put the dollar’s safe haven status in jeopardy — Guardian US
Experts say fears about unpredictable policy are creating crisis of confidence in US bonds once seen as ‘risk free’
apple.news
April 11, 2025 at 11:59 PM
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April 12, 2025 at 12:54 AM
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Science matters. Never let them tell you otherwise.
Dr Peter Marks, "Vaccines have been studied very extensively for being potentially associated with autism"

"That theory has been debunked"

"One study in Denmark, over 600,000 children. It shows that if anything, children had a lower rate of autism than unvaccinated children"
April 12, 2025 at 3:53 AM
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So let's fight against family separation in any form.

It's all devastating and causes life-long trauma.

Get angry about all of it!

#adoption
#familypolicing
#immigrants
April 12, 2025 at 3:45 PM
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AKA:

If you're a kid with #cancer, it's highly possible you'll die from an infectious disease but we don't care about your health especially since it's your fault you got cancer because you didn't eat enough oranges or take fish oil or use moisturizer.

-An angry mom of a #childhoodcancer survivor
The U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services has repeatedly claimed: “If you’re healthy, it’s almost impossible to die from an infectious disease in modern times.”

That is dangerously false.

www.medscape.com/viewarticle/...
Experts Push Back on RFK Jr’s Infection Comments
The new Secretary of Health and Human Services has made claims about measles and other communicable diseases that could lead to sickness, and even death, his critics claim.
www.medscape.com
April 12, 2025 at 3:56 PM
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April 12, 2025 at 10:20 PM