Dan Savage
@dansavage.bsky.social
Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Caller
Happy trauma-informed Thanksgiving! We know you're struggling. So we brought in Therapy Jeff to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with your nasty family. Find the new episode at buff.ly/SIiu4t3
November 25, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Happy trauma-informed Thanksgiving! We know you're struggling. So we brought in Therapy Jeff to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with your nasty family. Find the new episode at buff.ly/SIiu4t3
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Serious question: Does Donald Trump continually tow the Putin line because he is a) a strongman fanboy? b) a bought-and-paid-for Russian asset? c) merely stupid? d) a would-be tyrant who hates freedom both at home AND abroad? or e) all of the above?
It's gotta be "e," right?
It's gotta be "e," right?
November 25, 2025 at 1:14 AM
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Gramma, a Galápagos Tortoise at the San Diego Zoo, Dies at About 141
www.nytimes.com
November 25, 2025 at 12:45 PM
This is brutal. (The subscription notice.)
November 22, 2025 at 7:03 PM
This is brutal. (The subscription notice.)
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Sometimes news breaks and you know immediately that @dansavage.bsky.social will use it for the intro to the next week’s Savage Lovecast.
November 22, 2025 at 1:50 PM
Sometimes news breaks and you know immediately that @dansavage.bsky.social will use it for the intro to the next week’s Savage Lovecast.
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This sounds like the country’s worst minor league team
November 22, 2025 at 3:05 AM
This sounds like the country’s worst minor league team
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You deserve great abortion care. carafem offers personalized abortion care to meet people where they are and in ways that matter most to them. Always compassionate. Always non judgemental. Always supportive.
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Big thanks to @dansavage.bsky.social for helping spread the word!
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Big thanks to @dansavage.bsky.social for helping spread the word!
November 20, 2025 at 8:38 PM
You deserve great abortion care. carafem offers personalized abortion care to meet people where they are and in ways that matter most to them. Always compassionate. Always non judgemental. Always supportive.
Learn more at carafem.org
Big thanks to @dansavage.bsky.social for helping spread the word!
Learn more at carafem.org
Big thanks to @dansavage.bsky.social for helping spread the word!
The caller dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy s*x with him because his giant p was too big for her. Now that she is starting to date other men, should she tell them the history of her friendly neighbor? Listen to answer at 9min mark: savage.love/lovecast
November 19, 2025 at 6:19 PM
The caller dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy s*x with him because his giant p was too big for her. Now that she is starting to date other men, should she tell them the history of her friendly neighbor? Listen to answer at 9min mark: savage.love/lovecast
It's a Complicated Issue: A Qualitative Study Investigating the Decision to Enter Sex Work in the United States and the Meaning Behind It is the best title ever for a new study! Listen to our interview with the study author, marriage and family therapist Ashley Bloomberg. savage.love/lovecast.
November 18, 2025 at 5:50 PM
It's a Complicated Issue: A Qualitative Study Investigating the Decision to Enter Sex Work in the United States and the Meaning Behind It is the best title ever for a new study! Listen to our interview with the study author, marriage and family therapist Ashley Bloomberg. savage.love/lovecast.
They’re just making up pop stars to fuck with us, right?
November 17, 2025 at 6:38 PM
They’re just making up pop stars to fuck with us, right?
Are we still arresting youth pastors for fucking 15 year olds? Huh. Looks like we are.
www.joemygod.com/2025/11/miss...
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Missouri Youth Pastor Arrested On Child Sex Charges - Joe.My.God.
Kansas City’s ABC affiliate reports: An associate youth pastor in Clay County, Missouri, is facing several charges for sex crimes involving a teenager. Donald Aaron Axtell has been charged with felony...
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November 15, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Are we still arresting youth pastors for fucking 15 year olds? Huh. Looks like we are.
www.joemygod.com/2025/11/miss...
www.joemygod.com/2025/11/miss...
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I got an actual "Your silence on this subject is deafening" message this AM, so, super-quick: Nobody here owes anyone commentary about anything. This is a public park. It's full of interesting people. We hang out here, make friends, and chat, and then we leave to do whatever it is we do. That's it!
November 15, 2025 at 3:22 PM
I got an actual "Your silence on this subject is deafening" message this AM, so, super-quick: Nobody here owes anyone commentary about anything. This is a public park. It's full of interesting people. We hang out here, make friends, and chat, and then we leave to do whatever it is we do. That's it!
No more big city mayors who hate big cities.
After failing to stop a major state housing bill from becoming law, Los Angeles leaders are turning to plan B: Delaying Senate Bill 79's implementation and pushing for unspecified legislative changes next year. My dispatch for @politico.com Pro subscribers subscriber.politicopro.com/article/2025...
POLITICO Pro: Los Angeles failed to defeat a major housing law, so it's turning to Plan B: Delay, delay, delay
A report from the city planning department outlines strategies for pushing off many of the effects of SB 79 through 2030.
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November 15, 2025 at 2:59 PM
No more big city mayors who hate big cities.
This alone would've gotten a previous president laughed out of office so fast there wasn't time to impeach him.
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Trump Fragrances
Trump Fragrances
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November 15, 2025 at 1:14 PM
This alone would've gotten a previous president laughed out of office so fast there wasn't time to impeach him.
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Sometimes on a sex advice podcast, you have to call a veterinarian. A man’s new girlfriend lets the cat hump her leg to completion. He thinks this is kind of gross. We bring on a veterinarian from Seattle’s Urban Animal to confirm if it is indeed “gross.” Listen at savage.love/lovecast
November 13, 2025 at 8:16 PM
Sometimes on a sex advice podcast, you have to call a veterinarian. A man’s new girlfriend lets the cat hump her leg to completion. He thinks this is kind of gross. We bring on a veterinarian from Seattle’s Urban Animal to confirm if it is indeed “gross.” Listen at savage.love/lovecast
If kids got raped by clowns as often as they get raped by preachers it would be against the law to take your kids to the circus.
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Colorado Pastor Charged With Sexual Assault Of Minor - Joe.My.God.
Denver’s CBS affiliate reports: Fort Collins police have arrested Matthew McGinley, 30, accusing the former worship pastor and teacher of sexual assault of a minor by a person in a position of trust. ...
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November 13, 2025 at 4:53 PM
If kids got raped by clowns as often as they get raped by preachers it would be against the law to take your kids to the circus.
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I've been sitting on this and trying not to leak but...
It's us. We were one of the 80+ :)
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It's us. We were one of the 80+ :)
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More than 80 nonprofits receive $250M for global women's health from Melinda French Gates
More than 80 organizations that provide health care for women all over the world received grants Wednesday totaling $250 million from Melinda French Gates after a y…
financialpost.com
November 12, 2025 at 3:26 PM
I've been sitting on this and trying not to leak but...
It's us. We were one of the 80+ :)
financialpost.com/pmn/more-tha...
It's us. We were one of the 80+ :)
financialpost.com/pmn/more-tha...
He would make history as our first gay-baiting member of Congress. (And our 11th or 12th Kennedy.)
November 12, 2025 at 2:13 PM
He would make history as our first gay-baiting member of Congress. (And our 11th or 12th Kennedy.)
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I used "pegging" in a zoom marketing meeting today, thinking it meant targeting a donor group. I've never seen so many heads snap up at once at the use of a word.
November 11, 2025 at 9:10 PM
I used "pegging" in a zoom marketing meeting today, thinking it meant targeting a donor group. I've never seen so many heads snap up at once at the use of a word.
But what about… girth? Sex researcher Dr. Debby Herbenick is on the Lovecast today to talk about the physiology of female pleasure and the continuing popularity of choking.
Listen at savage.love/lovecast
Listen at savage.love/lovecast
November 11, 2025 at 6:05 PM
But what about… girth? Sex researcher Dr. Debby Herbenick is on the Lovecast today to talk about the physiology of female pleasure and the continuing popularity of choking.
Listen at savage.love/lovecast
Listen at savage.love/lovecast
Take that, coastal elites!
November 8, 2025 at 3:34 PM
Take that, coastal elites!
I hope someone, somewhere is writing on opera based on this story.
Defense begins, “This case, ladies and gentlemen, is about a sandwich. A sandwich that according to Agent Lairmore somehow both exploded on his chest in a spray of mustard and onions but also landed intact on the ground still in its Subway wrapper.”
November 6, 2025 at 9:39 PM
I hope someone, somewhere is writing on opera based on this story.
If kids got raped by clowns as often as they get raped by preachers it would be against the law to take your kids to the circus.
joemygod.com/2025/11/mo-y...
joemygod.com/2025/11/mo-y...
MO Youth Pastor Gets 35 Years On Child Sex Charges - Joe.My.God.
Fort Smith’s Fox affiliate reports: A Missouri man has been convicted of trafficking minors in Benton County and sentenced to more than three decades in prison, according to authorities. A jury found ...
joemygod.com
November 6, 2025 at 9:34 PM
If kids got raped by clowns as often as they get raped by preachers it would be against the law to take your kids to the circus.
joemygod.com/2025/11/mo-y...
joemygod.com/2025/11/mo-y...
Are there any straight leather daddies out there who aren’t misogynistic creeps? This caller is NOT HAPPY. Hear the answer at savage.love/lovecast (33min mark).
November 5, 2025 at 6:46 PM
Are there any straight leather daddies out there who aren’t misogynistic creeps? This caller is NOT HAPPY. Hear the answer at savage.love/lovecast (33min mark).