Kay Crosby
@kaycrosby.bsky.social
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‘Are you impervious to everything?!’ - man who had just kicked me in the leg. ‘The Whore of Babylon’ - man who was about to shatter his cane against my arm. ‘Nice boobies’ - guess what it’s some man. My employer shares none of my views.
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kaycrosby.bsky.social
To be clear I am joking
kaycrosby.bsky.social
Sounds to me like we should only be allowed to transition between the ages of 25 and 30
kaycrosby.bsky.social
Tell that to Mara: she only can’t run faster than everyone else at her local parkrun because of thousands of trans women, and not because she is old and retired
kaycrosby.bsky.social
As I understand it, the ‘brains develop until they’re 25’ factoid simply means brains continue developing indefinitely, and 25 was the end point of the studies only because it was an age that everyone understood was well into adulthood. We need fewer credulous idiots giving credence to bigots.
clairestranstalks.bsky.social
Part 2 of the Gender Clinic Files is out, looking at the impact if Cass recommendations for adult services were introduced, affecting more than 32k young trans adults just from the current waiting list.

Huge thanks to @wearequeeraf.com & @whatthetrans.com for their work on this series.
Majority of adults waiting for Trans+ healthcare are under 25
Two-thirds of Trans+ people would lose care if all Cass Review recommendations implemented
www.wearequeeraf.com
kaycrosby.bsky.social
I find the idea of a coming out day so funny. Like yeah, sure, I’m queer, but I will confine my queerness to the appropriate forms and times, agreed upon in advance by people who are not me.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
I got an email from parkrun a couple of days ago like hey, it’s been a long time since you got a PB. And it’s like, I don’t think you appreciate what I have done to my body since then. This body will simply never run another 5k in 21:47, and that will remain my record until the day I die.
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eigenvectrix.myatproto.social
Cis people are perfectly capable of objecting to the current crop of Harry Potter fascist sympathisers with the same stridency as they did to Kimmel’s cancellation or the Riyadh Comedy Festival. They simply choose not to, because they agree with Rowling that we must be kept down at heel.
philmcandrew.bsky.social
I haven't seen a single article about how Matt Berry or Kit Harrington or John Lithgow or Keira Knightley or fucking Nick Frost AND Simon Pegg have very publicly made it clear that they value a big blood soaked paycheck over human rights
kaycrosby.bsky.social
You know what? I’m not sure you’re a very nice person
kaycrosby.bsky.social
Yeah it definitely wasn’t great, and it didn’t have the confidence to quite know what to do with its own ideas; but I did think it was worth watching
kaycrosby.bsky.social
Fat redistribution is a wonderful thing. My weight is basically the same as it was last winter when I last wore this skirt, but it’s gone on noticeably easier.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
Don’t be a trans legal academic I guess. It’s not a good time.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
A little anecdote. I was stood next to one of the authors of one of these articles a few months ago, and was like ‘Ah great I’ve never met [] irl. Must have a proper chat.’ Unfortunately within about ten seconds of saying hello one of my colleagues had misgendered me so much I just had to peace out.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
It’s in the nature of things that some of these articles demonstrate a better understanding than others; but this special issue on FWS in feminists@law is really good to see.
Vol. 14 No. 2 (2025) | feminists@law
journals.kent.ac.uk
kaycrosby.bsky.social
I observed over the summer that one of the best acts of allyship you can do for the trans people in your life is to take something off their plates. Having the state relentlessly grind you into dust does deplete your mental reserves.

I am currently so busy that I want to crawl out of my own skull.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
The one silver lining to this timeline is that Keir Starmer clearly agrees that the Labour Party must be destroyed
kaycrosby.bsky.social
Real moment of ambiguity there, as car man screams YOU’RE FUCKING DISGUSTING. There were three adults at the lights: two cis women holding hands, one of whom had blue hair, and me. I’m afraid this is what will happen if you drive through my neighbourhood, car man.
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keithwdickinson.bsky.social
Today is a day when arts degrees are worthless, but the product of those degrees is so valuable it would kill an entire industry if they were made to pay for it.
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bonnefyre.bsky.social
This is one of the first things I mention when I talk to anyone about transition. Anyone who thinks people are being rushed through and pushed into decisions they might later regret is absolutely incorrect. Even going privately was a whole, long ordeal. Not to mention incredibly expensive.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
But I understand you to be describing an ideal healthcare model. That necessarily means describing something hypothetical. And I also think ‘shift money from unnecessary psychiatric control to money for more endocrinologist time’ is a fairly practical idea.
kaycrosby.bsky.social
If we’re designing ideal hypothetical healthcare systems I think I’m allowed to imagine that the NHS has trained and hired an adequate number of endocrinologists