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Unfriendly Black PhD Dropout | they/them
@lenadreamsingld.blacksky.app
🏳️‍🌈 36, they/them. Neurodivergent, Black pansexual femme. Artist. Educator. Art Historian. Museum Connoisseur. CLT to the Bay.

Profile ID: selfie of user from the neck up, in a burgundy halter turtleneck and green eyeshadow
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Happy #TransDayofVisibility! Shout out to all my trans and gender nonconforminig homies.

As a reminder:

My pronouns are they/them/sib (for Black folks only)
I am a femme genderfluid person. 🩷🤍💜🖤💙
I am on the asexual spectrum as a demi sexual and demi romantic person. 🖤💜🤍 🖤💚🤍
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Drop a pic you tryna recreate this year.
January 12, 2026 at 1:54 PM
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When they ask why I be letting her do whatever:
January 12, 2026 at 1:51 PM
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Never
When your people pass away, how long do you wait before you delete their contact info? A year? Two? Never?
January 12, 2026 at 7:42 AM
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Men, if you wanna join in on the reading, here is the guide for the next 12 months. Each book also has a corresponding album with it. Jump in.
January 12, 2026 at 1:14 AM
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Drop a pic you tryna recreate this year.

I really need a freaky bestie 🫠
January 12, 2026 at 7:22 AM
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Drop a pic you tryna recreate this year.
January 12, 2026 at 6:42 AM
Let me cue my ring light up.
Send him a booty pic with the caption “I just took a shit” he’s gonna love it I promise.
January 12, 2026 at 6:58 AM
January 12, 2026 at 3:35 AM
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January 11, 2026 at 11:34 PM
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Systemic erasure of @sotreu.blacksky.app's work and legacy in regards to #YourSlipIsShowing is violence. Plain and simple. He deserves answers here
@bridgettodd.bsky.social Hi Bridgett, as the last living surviving co-creator of the #YourSlipIsShowing hashtag, who since the HT has come out as transmasculine, I'd like to know why you erased me and my work in your article, and why you are misgendering me by claiming YSIS was only ftom Black women
January 12, 2026 at 12:49 AM
I have no idea who any of the people are: the stud being fat-phobic for laughs. But I’m not surprised.
January 12, 2026 at 1:26 AM
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Nephew said don’t even worry. I got it.

I’m in tears 😂😂😂😂😂
January 12, 2026 at 1:02 AM
Today is my cousin’s 25th heavenly birthday. He died March 2023 at 22. 🥺
January 11, 2026 at 6:55 PM
Healing is scary and sometimes can be lonely. And it’s not one and done.
January 11, 2026 at 6:50 PM
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people forget that anger is apart of healing... Ive felt that more than anything else. this healing shit is not fun and it's not nice. it's scary, it's fucked up, it's draining.
Healing is glamorized as this transforming and restorative thing but the process can be so emotionally taxing.
January 11, 2026 at 6:42 PM
I’m so thankful I love me.
There’s 2 absolutely gorgeous women on tiktok fighting over a homeless man that’s 60k behind in child support. He had 2 kids with one, married the other, and had 2 more kids with the BM while married. The women are calling each other stupid

I want this to not be happening
January 11, 2026 at 6:47 PM
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one side is kidnapping and murdering people

the other side is holding signs and using harsh language

not exactly matching energy
July 10, 2025 at 9:20 AM
Yes - continue to work on this. This is why I’m working on my sobriety.
January 11, 2026 at 11:00 AM
Nclecta makes me wanna flip a table
January 11, 2026 at 9:45 AM
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The looks of a woman not buying your BS
January 10, 2026 at 7:55 PM
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NCLECTA…
January 11, 2026 at 4:29 AM
Back into hibernation I go. Being out and not drinking, everyone is annoying af.
January 11, 2026 at 9:14 AM
1:11
January 11, 2026 at 9:11 AM
And he lied for no reason.

He came up and said why you alone, I am too. Then he was like nah I came in when my cousin.

Yeah I saw that. Stop being goofy and weird. And get your braids redone.
January 11, 2026 at 9:09 AM
3rd man that has come up to me and asking about my name and why I’m alone.

I’m ignoring you why are you still talking.
Every time tonight I just wanted to chill, someone came up to me wanting to talk.

This must be how the guy felt when ol girl tried to talk to him about the mimosa while he had his headphones on.
January 11, 2026 at 9:07 AM