Handy Dani Dyke
@sharpdresseddyke.bsky.social
If women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy.
Spinster, T4T polyamorous & polysaturated lesbian, dyke on a bike.
Spinster, T4T polyamorous & polysaturated lesbian, dyke on a bike.
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One of the worst Transfem Takes I hear is "there are rules to transition."
My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
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Hey all. Are you pissed about the Hampton inn anti homeless policy and wish you could do something to help someone avoid risking being homeless with no place to go? Juno really needs financial help before the new year kicks in to stay out of homelessness. Please share and spread the word.
It’s December 28th and I’m still $2,000 short on my December monthly bills. Cell phone, car payment , rent !!! , electric bill and internet and water like this month been hard fr
December 29, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Hey all. Are you pissed about the Hampton inn anti homeless policy and wish you could do something to help someone avoid risking being homeless with no place to go? Juno really needs financial help before the new year kicks in to stay out of homelessness. Please share and spread the word.
My wifey woke up and chose violence this weekend in a group chat with my girlfriend: "Got a 20 year old in Gloucester hitting me up on grindr.. who does she think I am? My wife?"
Background: I'm 51, she's 41 and my girlfriend is 31. That said, 30 was my lower limit after I divorced at 42.
Background: I'm 51, she's 41 and my girlfriend is 31. That said, 30 was my lower limit after I divorced at 42.
December 29, 2025 at 3:37 PM
My wifey woke up and chose violence this weekend in a group chat with my girlfriend: "Got a 20 year old in Gloucester hitting me up on grindr.. who does she think I am? My wife?"
Background: I'm 51, she's 41 and my girlfriend is 31. That said, 30 was my lower limit after I divorced at 42.
Background: I'm 51, she's 41 and my girlfriend is 31. That said, 30 was my lower limit after I divorced at 42.
Season's Greetings.
December 28, 2025 at 12:48 AM
Season's Greetings.
A lovely gift from my girlfriend: heated grips for my motorcycle. She said that is partially a gift for her so that my hands are warm after a cold ride across town to her house and I touch her sooner.
December 27, 2025 at 3:33 PM
A lovely gift from my girlfriend: heated grips for my motorcycle. She said that is partially a gift for her so that my hands are warm after a cold ride across town to her house and I touch her sooner.
Being on the other side of effective treatment for PTSD, this isn't as emotionally fraught as it used to be. Instead, it's much more feeling disconnected from part of my body, that is foreign and doesn't belong there.
It's kind of like if my vulva were a facehugger.
It's kind of like if my vulva were a facehugger.
Apparently it's a bottom dysphoria day. Woke up to the random memory of an ex who envied that I had vaginoplasty and ran right over me asking her to not express that to me because it's a part of my body that I dislike.
Plus the "needle in my labia" pains are back so that doesn't help anything.
Plus the "needle in my labia" pains are back so that doesn't help anything.
December 24, 2025 at 4:24 PM
Being on the other side of effective treatment for PTSD, this isn't as emotionally fraught as it used to be. Instead, it's much more feeling disconnected from part of my body, that is foreign and doesn't belong there.
It's kind of like if my vulva were a facehugger.
It's kind of like if my vulva were a facehugger.
Apparently it's a bottom dysphoria day. Woke up to the random memory of an ex who envied that I had vaginoplasty and ran right over me asking her to not express that to me because it's a part of my body that I dislike.
Plus the "needle in my labia" pains are back so that doesn't help anything.
Plus the "needle in my labia" pains are back so that doesn't help anything.
December 24, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Apparently it's a bottom dysphoria day. Woke up to the random memory of an ex who envied that I had vaginoplasty and ran right over me asking her to not express that to me because it's a part of my body that I dislike.
Plus the "needle in my labia" pains are back so that doesn't help anything.
Plus the "needle in my labia" pains are back so that doesn't help anything.
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I started at 59k/year when I was at NYLAG as a staff attorney representing trans asylum seekers. This kind of money to target a community like this is unimaginable to me. It's infinitely more profitable to sow hate than it is to help people.
Anti-trans demagogue and fifth place swimmer Riley Gaines earned $470,000+ last year from a conservative non-profit.
Notably, $420k was incentive-based.
A neat little window into the way the transphobic grift is being compensated.
I wonder what the per-post rate is?
Notably, $420k was incentive-based.
A neat little window into the way the transphobic grift is being compensated.
I wonder what the per-post rate is?
December 24, 2025 at 1:46 PM
I started at 59k/year when I was at NYLAG as a staff attorney representing trans asylum seekers. This kind of money to target a community like this is unimaginable to me. It's infinitely more profitable to sow hate than it is to help people.
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So I am sorry that it has come to this, but with my mother struggling with massive overtime to help us, I feel I must ask for help from others, to help us prepare to retreat back home to Sweden with our cats and without going homeless.
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December 22, 2025 at 5:16 AM
So I am sorry that it has come to this, but with my mother struggling with massive overtime to help us, I feel I must ask for help from others, to help us prepare to retreat back home to Sweden with our cats and without going homeless.
www.gofundme.com/f/help-keep-...
www.gofundme.com/f/help-keep-...
Robot shaming: uneven surface. It's perfectly flat. This isn't the first time in this spot but it's also not every time.
December 22, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Robot shaming: uneven surface. It's perfectly flat. This isn't the first time in this spot but it's also not every time.
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Have your transition. Don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't want. Pin-up model, diesel dyke, or anywhere between. Have only the surgeries you want, if any, and never feel that you have to have anything you don't. Not being true to yourself here is a good way to end up with regret.
May 5, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Have your transition. Don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't want. Pin-up model, diesel dyke, or anywhere between. Have only the surgeries you want, if any, and never feel that you have to have anything you don't. Not being true to yourself here is a good way to end up with regret.
I want a girl with a short skirt and a loooooooooooooooooooooooooong DX!
December 19, 2025 at 2:04 AM
I want a girl with a short skirt and a loooooooooooooooooooooooooong DX!
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One of the worst Transfem Takes I hear is "there are rules to transition."
My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
March 27, 2025 at 7:19 PM
One of the worst Transfem Takes I hear is "there are rules to transition."
My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
Today I graduated out of therapy for PTSD.
Obviously it isn't cured in the sense that it's as if it never happened, but I'm on the other side of "it won't always be like this. It will always be there but it won't always hurt so bad."
Obviously it isn't cured in the sense that it's as if it never happened, but I'm on the other side of "it won't always be like this. It will always be there but it won't always hurt so bad."
December 17, 2025 at 11:36 PM
Today I graduated out of therapy for PTSD.
Obviously it isn't cured in the sense that it's as if it never happened, but I'm on the other side of "it won't always be like this. It will always be there but it won't always hurt so bad."
Obviously it isn't cured in the sense that it's as if it never happened, but I'm on the other side of "it won't always be like this. It will always be there but it won't always hurt so bad."
This is one of the most variable things: sometimes driving vs public transit is roughly even. For me it's always been that public transit would involve significantly more time. When I lived in Raleigh, NC US, and worked in Cary the 7 mile commute was 15 minutes on my motorcycle and 75 or 105 by bus.
And there is a fallacy here about transit time. I may spend 3 hours a day riding/walking as transportation, but that is time I don't have to spend at a gym. It's often social time as well, not to mention someone who drives often spends the same if not more time in their car per day.
December 17, 2025 at 7:03 PM
This is one of the most variable things: sometimes driving vs public transit is roughly even. For me it's always been that public transit would involve significantly more time. When I lived in Raleigh, NC US, and worked in Cary the 7 mile commute was 15 minutes on my motorcycle and 75 or 105 by bus.
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I know it's too much to read the words that many of us write, but what we are actually mad about are systems that force people into car dependency and policy choices that mean living somewhere walkable and bikeable with robust public transit is ridiculously expensive. We want to fix this!
December 17, 2025 at 2:00 PM
I know it's too much to read the words that many of us write, but what we are actually mad about are systems that force people into car dependency and policy choices that mean living somewhere walkable and bikeable with robust public transit is ridiculously expensive. We want to fix this!
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A huge problem right now is the only thing our government agrees on is fascism.
December 17, 2025 at 1:37 PM
A huge problem right now is the only thing our government agrees on is fascism.
Wifey: "Sorry about the weird taste of the soup."
Me: "Well now that you said it. I wasn't going to say anything."
Wifey: "Smart woman."
Me: "Well now that you said it. I wasn't going to say anything."
Wifey: "Smart woman."
December 17, 2025 at 2:02 PM
Wifey: "Sorry about the weird taste of the soup."
Me: "Well now that you said it. I wasn't going to say anything."
Wifey: "Smart woman."
Me: "Well now that you said it. I wasn't going to say anything."
Wifey: "Smart woman."
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Let's get social this Thursday at The Veil Forrest Hill RVA!
December 16, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Let's get social this Thursday at The Veil Forrest Hill RVA!
I showed this skeet to my wife who after reading it looked at me and started batting her eyes at me. I then showed it to my girlfriend who had the same response.
Femmes want one thing and it's disgusting, which is why you bat your eyes until your butch does it.
December 14, 2025 at 6:04 PM
I showed this skeet to my wife who after reading it looked at me and started batting her eyes at me. I then showed it to my girlfriend who had the same response.
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I'm struggling to find work due to multiple disabilities including long covid, I'm broke, my fridge is empty, and I don't know how I'm going to pay my bills.
If you feel like making an old trans lesbian's life a little better, my Paypal/cashapp/venmo info is in my bio.
If you feel like making an old trans lesbian's life a little better, my Paypal/cashapp/venmo info is in my bio.
December 13, 2025 at 5:10 PM
I'm struggling to find work due to multiple disabilities including long covid, I'm broke, my fridge is empty, and I don't know how I'm going to pay my bills.
If you feel like making an old trans lesbian's life a little better, my Paypal/cashapp/venmo info is in my bio.
If you feel like making an old trans lesbian's life a little better, my Paypal/cashapp/venmo info is in my bio.
I do so love v-neck halter tops. My neck, however, appreciates them a bit less
December 11, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I do so love v-neck halter tops. My neck, however, appreciates them a bit less
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cannot stress this enough that if you’re NOT someone who saves posts from sex workers without consent, you CAN still make bsky a safer environment for sex workers by tipping & buying content to help offset the bad behavior of others, so that we still feel like posting (if you wanna see us, that is).
December 8, 2025 at 9:29 PM
cannot stress this enough that if you’re NOT someone who saves posts from sex workers without consent, you CAN still make bsky a safer environment for sex workers by tipping & buying content to help offset the bad behavior of others, so that we still feel like posting (if you wanna see us, that is).