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Handy Dani Dyke
@sharpdresseddyke.bsky.social
If women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy.

Spinster, T4T polyamorous & polysaturated lesbian, dyke on a bike.
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One of the worst Transfem Takes I hear is "there are rules to transition."

My sister in HRT, kill the gatekeeper in your head. There are no rules. Make your transition be yours, high femme pin-up model, butch diesel mechanic, or anything in between. Do it because it's what you want for your life.
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cannot stress this enough that if you’re NOT someone who saves posts from sex workers without consent, you CAN still make bsky a safer environment for sex workers by tipping & buying content to help offset the bad behavior of others, so that we still feel like posting (if you wanna see us, that is).
December 8, 2025 at 9:29 PM
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Join us this Thursday for the QMC social at Gold Lion Community Cafe.

Ride: Meet at Oregon Hill Overlook at 6 PM, KSU 6:30 (FIRM)

Can't ride but want to hang out with us? Meet us at Gold Lion, 1012 Hull St, at 7 PM.

Find a member!
Look for our patch!
December 10, 2025 at 12:20 AM
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Getting ready for 2026 like
December 9, 2025 at 3:26 PM
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This Thursday's social is THIRSTY! 7 PM at Thirsty's. Group ride meetup at Oregon Hill Overlook at 6:00 PM, Kickstands Up 6:30 PM (FIRM.)
December 3, 2025 at 1:14 AM
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BREAKING: PATHA has filed an urgent injunction in the high court seeking to prevent the puberty blocker ban from coming into force, as part of an urgent judicial review we are seeking to overturn the ban entirely.
November 30, 2025 at 11:27 PM
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A reminder: there is nothing feminist about enforcing a static biological definition of sex and insisting on gender policing based on how “manly” or “womanly” a person appears. These are logics of fascism. Just saying.
November 20, 2025 at 9:55 PM
"I am not on the right kind of drugs for this..." - @redpuppygirl.bsky.social about the Art of Noise "Paranomia" music video
November 29, 2025 at 4:15 PM
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#UK #US #Canada: Those in our community who are opposed-to self-medding gender affirming care are going to have-to get on the same page as the rest of us *real* quick if they ever want to transition.
November 27, 2025 at 10:49 PM
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Yes, I have a job and don't have $80 for a decent bed.

My paycheck goes straight to rent, food, utilities and paying off credit card debt that I ran up when I became homeless a few years ago.
Can any one spot me $80 to buy a bedframe please?

It's almost half off & I've been sleeping on a shitty mattress for a year.

I know there are so many others who have bigger needs, but if there's someone who has an abundance of resources, I could really do with a new bed 💜

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November 28, 2025 at 9:07 PM
When you wake up next to her and start kissing her shoulder and inhale her intoxicating scent....
November 27, 2025 at 3:41 PM
"Did she do a fusion dance with Gumby?"

- my wife, about a 2019 photo of my boobs vs. now.
November 27, 2025 at 2:07 AM
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QMC Friendsgiving this Thursday from 2pm-6pm.

Bring a dish to share if you can and share a meal among friends.

This is being hosted at a members’ home - check our discord (link is in our bio) or send a message to get the address and a link to the sign up sheet for food & drinks.
November 25, 2025 at 5:26 PM
Without downloading any new pics describe your gender.
November 24, 2025 at 5:58 PM
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From PostSecret on Facebook:
November 22, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Howdy Pilgrim!
November 22, 2025 at 9:31 PM
I remember this building but it wasn't this business then. It used to be a dive bar and concert venue called 25 WATT RVA and I saw Doomstress perform there over a decade ago.
November 22, 2025 at 8:34 PM
Heading out on Friday night.
November 22, 2025 at 12:46 AM
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Join us tonight!
QMC group ride and social at Eazzy Burger, this Thursday, November 20.
November 20, 2025 at 8:04 PM
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Today is the Transgender Day of Remembrance. Trans people have literally always been here; every time I see someone sneering "oh but there were no trans people when I was in high school," well. I dated a trans girl in high school, and was close friends with a trans guy.
November 20, 2025 at 4:04 PM
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This is the day we remember a hell of a lot more of us should be alive. Do not forgive. Do not forget.
November 20, 2025 at 3:37 PM
This part did not surprise me. One day around 1990 there was a news story that a Penn State football player was accused or charged with rape. My father, who attended said University, immediately launched into a tirade in defense of the football player and blaming the then anonymous victim.
Not to mention the hundreds of men who saw the advertisements for those 🍇 events and told no one
If I’m being entirely honest my view of how many men are abusers shifted dramatically when that 70 yr old French woman in a small town realized her husband was drugging her and like 50+ men within a 15 mile radius had assaulted her w/o her knowledge and this was just happening in the open on the web
November 19, 2025 at 5:33 AM
Regarding bathroom bans as "distraction" - that's been a weirdly long running theme for her. She said exactly that about the 2016 North Carolina "Bathroom Bill" at the time, doing so only after getting praise for posting a bathroom selfie at a rest area in the state, of course.
I dearly wish Sarah Mcbride hadn't called banning all trans people from public bathrooms in federal buildings "a distraction," but I appreciate that even she can draw a line somewhere. At least now that a series of progressive victories by openly trans supporting candidates have that polling well.
This is the hardest I have seen any member of Congress work to try and address transphobia in Congress, and her ability to get nearly all Democratic lawmakers to sign onto this letter is something any first would applaud
November 19, 2025 at 5:21 AM
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QMC group ride and social at Eazzy Burger, this Thursday, November 20.
November 18, 2025 at 1:17 AM
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I’ve been a FreeTaxUSA proselytizer for years and years and I strongly encourage everyone to make the switch. same kind of step by step “for dummies” interface, even for my complicated freelancer taxes, and you don’t have to give your money to one of our most evil lobbyists
TurboTax is about to be integrated into ChatGPT, where customers will be guided through tasks tied to their tax filings or financial profile by the AI chatbot.

TurboTax owner Intuit is also paying OpenAI more than $100 million a year to power AI agents.
November 19, 2025 at 3:41 AM