Pinned
We shouldn't let our appearance stop us from being ourselves.
Of course she is pushing Zucker's idea of desistence. People like her don't care how many people they hurt. It was never about wellbeing. They want conformityeven at the cost of wellbeing.
February 16, 2026 at 10:03 AM
Of course she is pushing Zucker's idea of desistence. People like her don't care how many people they hurt. It was never about wellbeing. They want conformityeven at the cost of wellbeing.
Diablo,Diablo 2,Doom 2, Minecraft, fallout 3,Fallout New Vegas,Fallout 4,Oblivion.
Name a videogame you've put 500 hours into.
February 15, 2026 at 12:20 AM
Diablo,Diablo 2,Doom 2, Minecraft, fallout 3,Fallout New Vegas,Fallout 4,Oblivion.
The reliance on surgery that I can't afford is heartbreaking.
February 12, 2026 at 11:11 AM
The reliance on surgery that I can't afford is heartbreaking.
Sometimes it feels like there are only a few acceptable body types in the trans community. I have been told that I shouldn't be a visible advocate for trans people because of my appearance.
February 7, 2026 at 9:28 PM
Sometimes it feels like there are only a few acceptable body types in the trans community. I have been told that I shouldn't be a visible advocate for trans people because of my appearance.
I can't say that hrt is magic. I'm reliant on surgery. Hrt made me a bit softer but couldn't make up for what testosterone did to me.
February 7, 2026 at 9:56 AM
I can't say that hrt is magic. I'm reliant on surgery. Hrt made me a bit softer but couldn't make up for what testosterone did to me.
Reposted
Struggling a bit tonight with the "post a hotty who thought they'd be ugly if they transitioned" thing, because I did think I'd probably be ugly after transitioning, and I *am* but also I still think transitioning was worth it. Like not all women are hot. The point was to be a woman.
February 6, 2026 at 3:12 AM
Struggling a bit tonight with the "post a hotty who thought they'd be ugly if they transitioned" thing, because I did think I'd probably be ugly after transitioning, and I *am* but also I still think transitioning was worth it. Like not all women are hot. The point was to be a woman.
I need to find a support group where I can talk about dysphoria.
February 5, 2026 at 8:30 PM
I need to find a support group where I can talk about dysphoria.
As someone who has been pushed out of trans spaces before and told " dolls only,no bricks",do I belong?
Am I worth protecting?
#protectthedolls
Am I worth protecting?
#protectthedolls
February 4, 2026 at 9:42 AM
As someone who has been pushed out of trans spaces before and told " dolls only,no bricks",do I belong?
Am I worth protecting?
#protectthedolls
Am I worth protecting?
#protectthedolls
Sorry,the halo effect and pretty privilege are real.
February 4, 2026 at 7:10 AM
Sorry,the halo effect and pretty privilege are real.
It is harmful when the trans community treats us as lesser for being what they call a brick. It is harmful when we are denied community being told " dolls only. No bricks".
There's like a fake brick/doll dichotomy that a lot of trans women view as harmful when the reality is just like... There's all kinds of women and there isn't a right kind...
February 3, 2026 at 5:01 PM
It is harmful when the trans community treats us as lesser for being what they call a brick. It is harmful when we are denied community being told " dolls only. No bricks".
I hate what testosterone did to my body. I have to work harder for less.
January 29, 2026 at 9:39 AM
I hate what testosterone did to my body. I have to work harder for less.
I hate having narrow hips.
January 29, 2026 at 7:52 AM
I hate having narrow hips.
Reposted
If you think the only people who are 'worthy' of being trans are trans people who 'pass' insofar as being able to exist in society as apparently binary and apparently cisgender then you don't support trans people, you support cisnormativity and you're a part of the problem.
January 27, 2026 at 8:59 PM
If you think the only people who are 'worthy' of being trans are trans people who 'pass' insofar as being able to exist in society as apparently binary and apparently cisgender then you don't support trans people, you support cisnormativity and you're a part of the problem.
Trying to move past negative body image feelings.
January 20, 2026 at 9:53 PM
Trying to move past negative body image feelings.
It is ok to be unattractive. That doesn't reflect on my worth as a person.
January 16, 2026 at 4:54 AM
It is ok to be unattractive. That doesn't reflect on my worth as a person.
I hate that my only option for my body type seems to be muscle girl. I just have to accept it. I have been called it for 7 years now. Hopefully at least fixing my face will help how I feel about it.
January 16, 2026 at 3:28 AM
I hate that my only option for my body type seems to be muscle girl. I just have to accept it. I have been called it for 7 years now. Hopefully at least fixing my face will help how I feel about it.
I have some of the hardest facial features of any trans women that I see. I need ffs.
January 14, 2026 at 9:32 PM
I have some of the hardest facial features of any trans women that I see. I need ffs.
Meow Meow Meow meow
January 8, 2026 at 7:44 AM
Meow Meow Meow meow
I'm not the problem or failure. It was the hateful Christian community that has caused me to suffer.
January 7, 2026 at 4:36 PM
I'm not the problem or failure. It was the hateful Christian community that has caused me to suffer.
Does anyone else feel like much of society, including Trans and general queer spaces don't care about us if we aren't attractive enough?
January 2, 2026 at 6:09 AM
Does anyone else feel like much of society, including Trans and general queer spaces don't care about us if we aren't attractive enough?
I was unfortunately in an area where people felt the need to let me know that they could tell I'm trans and make harsh comments about my appearance.
I look forward to the day when people stop caring if others are trans .
I look forward to the day when people stop caring if others are trans .
Advice for the 2026 batch of new girls:
When you first start presenting as a lady, you'll get a lot of looks. The jerk part of your brain might tell you they're clocking you, but it's just as likely you're hot & they're checking you out.
Decide the latter is true, and you'll be happier.
When you first start presenting as a lady, you'll get a lot of looks. The jerk part of your brain might tell you they're clocking you, but it's just as likely you're hot & they're checking you out.
Decide the latter is true, and you'll be happier.
January 1, 2026 at 5:48 AM
I was unfortunately in an area where people felt the need to let me know that they could tell I'm trans and make harsh comments about my appearance.
I look forward to the day when people stop caring if others are trans .
I look forward to the day when people stop caring if others are trans .
When cuddling.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
December 30, 2025 at 6:56 AM
When cuddling.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
I honestly believe I will never be as accepted or valued as others.
December 27, 2025 at 1:56 PM
I honestly believe I will never be as accepted or valued as others.
7 years. My progess has seriously stalled. I haven't progressed like others have. I feel like a failure.
December 19, 2025 at 7:31 PM
7 years. My progess has seriously stalled. I haven't progressed like others have. I feel like a failure.