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When cuddling.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
December 30, 2025 at 6:56 AM
When cuddling.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
Husband: how do you let your toes get this cold?
Me: what am I supposed to do?
Him: idk, let the blood flow to them.
I honestly believe I will never be as accepted or valued as others.
December 27, 2025 at 1:56 PM
I honestly believe I will never be as accepted or valued as others.
7 years. My progess has seriously stalled. I haven't progressed like others have. I feel like a failure.
December 19, 2025 at 7:31 PM
7 years. My progess has seriously stalled. I haven't progressed like others have. I feel like a failure.
I need ffs and hair restoration surgery.
December 17, 2025 at 4:31 PM
I need ffs and hair restoration surgery.
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Transmeds did not focus their ire solely on "non-transitioning" NBs, "tucutes", and "transtrenders"
They absolutely shit on trans women they thought couldn't pass or were butch or were lesbian or weren't feminine enough and believed they should have been gatekept from HRT, and they still do that!
They absolutely shit on trans women they thought couldn't pass or were butch or were lesbian or weren't feminine enough and believed they should have been gatekept from HRT, and they still do that!
December 11, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Transmeds did not focus their ire solely on "non-transitioning" NBs, "tucutes", and "transtrenders"
They absolutely shit on trans women they thought couldn't pass or were butch or were lesbian or weren't feminine enough and believed they should have been gatekept from HRT, and they still do that!
They absolutely shit on trans women they thought couldn't pass or were butch or were lesbian or weren't feminine enough and believed they should have been gatekept from HRT, and they still do that!
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All of this, & also the same with "ugly / beautiful".
Not everyone is beautiful, and that's totally fine.
Please fight the urge to say "everyone is beautiful in their own way!", it gaslights the existence of social beauty standards.
And nobody owes us beauty to be treated with kindness and respect.
Not everyone is beautiful, and that's totally fine.
Please fight the urge to say "everyone is beautiful in their own way!", it gaslights the existence of social beauty standards.
And nobody owes us beauty to be treated with kindness and respect.
August 15, 2025 at 1:42 PM
All of this, & also the same with "ugly / beautiful".
Not everyone is beautiful, and that's totally fine.
Please fight the urge to say "everyone is beautiful in their own way!", it gaslights the existence of social beauty standards.
And nobody owes us beauty to be treated with kindness and respect.
Not everyone is beautiful, and that's totally fine.
Please fight the urge to say "everyone is beautiful in their own way!", it gaslights the existence of social beauty standards.
And nobody owes us beauty to be treated with kindness and respect.
The regret of not transitioning sooner sometimes makes me low key suicidal.
December 13, 2025 at 7:44 AM
The regret of not transitioning sooner sometimes makes me low key suicidal.
I'm feeling better today.
December 9, 2025 at 2:52 AM
I'm feeling better today.
I learned that I am susceptible to pre migraine depression.
I feel more " normal " today.
I feel more " normal " today.
December 8, 2025 at 10:18 PM
I learned that I am susceptible to pre migraine depression.
I feel more " normal " today.
I feel more " normal " today.
I wish I had the guts to castrate myself in my teens. I tried to bring myself to do it but couldn't.
Testosterone wrecked my body. I feel so disgusting and ugly.
Testosterone wrecked my body. I feel so disgusting and ugly.
December 7, 2025 at 3:36 PM
I wish I had the guts to castrate myself in my teens. I tried to bring myself to do it but couldn't.
Testosterone wrecked my body. I feel so disgusting and ugly.
Testosterone wrecked my body. I feel so disgusting and ugly.
I have personally encountered this.
a vast majority of cis 'allies' would feel genuinely hurt or gravely insulted if anyone confused them for a trans person
because being us
is being lesser, to them
because being us
is being lesser, to them
December 4, 2025 at 4:25 AM
I have personally encountered this.
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You absolutely, unequivocally belong.
Anyone who draws lines in the trans community based on attractiveness or passability is a coward and needs to address their internalized misogyny and transphobia.
I won't pretend those folks don't exist and cause problems, but please know they're wrong.
Anyone who draws lines in the trans community based on attractiveness or passability is a coward and needs to address their internalized misogyny and transphobia.
I won't pretend those folks don't exist and cause problems, but please know they're wrong.
December 4, 2025 at 2:55 AM
You absolutely, unequivocally belong.
Anyone who draws lines in the trans community based on attractiveness or passability is a coward and needs to address their internalized misogyny and transphobia.
I won't pretend those folks don't exist and cause problems, but please know they're wrong.
Anyone who draws lines in the trans community based on attractiveness or passability is a coward and needs to address their internalized misogyny and transphobia.
I won't pretend those folks don't exist and cause problems, but please know they're wrong.
I hate being an inverted triangle.
November 30, 2025 at 9:25 PM
I hate being an inverted triangle.
Is there a woman that people don't consider clocky now?
November 27, 2025 at 1:29 AM
Is there a woman that people don't consider clocky now?
I have seriously stagnated. I have to remind myself of how far I have come.
November 23, 2025 at 12:21 AM
I have seriously stagnated. I have to remind myself of how far I have come.
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You know i can see it when you make fun of horrible women who get breast implants by using the implants as a putdown, right? You know that i got implants, right? Do you think I'm a plastic silicone woman, too?
November 18, 2025 at 11:22 PM
You know i can see it when you make fun of horrible women who get breast implants by using the implants as a putdown, right? You know that i got implants, right? Do you think I'm a plastic silicone woman, too?
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Transmedicalist need to fix their hearts or die.
November 19, 2025 at 1:10 AM
Transmedicalist need to fix their hearts or die.
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Here are my thoughts on the matter.
October 31, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Here are my thoughts on the matter.
It is really hard to feel beautiful when our experiences tell us that we aren't.
November 19, 2025 at 7:51 AM
It is really hard to feel beautiful when our experiences tell us that we aren't.
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_sleepily hangs a, "stop rhetorically tying measures of 'successful' transitions to physical attractiveness" sign on the door, then goes back inside_
November 8, 2025 at 6:55 PM
_sleepily hangs a, "stop rhetorically tying measures of 'successful' transitions to physical attractiveness" sign on the door, then goes back inside_
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It kinda rubs me the wrong way sometimes when people constantly associate [bad or morally corrupt position] with conventionally unattractive features
There's a very good amount of people you're gonna be hurting with those jabs and none of them are the people you're trying to get to
There's a very good amount of people you're gonna be hurting with those jabs and none of them are the people you're trying to get to
November 2, 2025 at 7:51 AM
It kinda rubs me the wrong way sometimes when people constantly associate [bad or morally corrupt position] with conventionally unattractive features
There's a very good amount of people you're gonna be hurting with those jabs and none of them are the people you're trying to get to
There's a very good amount of people you're gonna be hurting with those jabs and none of them are the people you're trying to get to
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it would be so cool and radical if trans women as a group believed we were all women
November 10, 2025 at 5:42 AM
it would be so cool and radical if trans women as a group believed we were all women
I guess I should get the ffs estimate over with and try a crowd fund. At least then I will have a better idea of what I'm shooting for.
November 9, 2025 at 2:11 AM
I guess I should get the ffs estimate over with and try a crowd fund. At least then I will have a better idea of what I'm shooting for.
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Even if I bought into the "all trans women are dolls" thing, which I don't, I could never call myself one because I know as soon as I did I'd get a 4tranner saying "um actually you're a gigahon brick"
November 3, 2025 at 1:23 PM
Even if I bought into the "all trans women are dolls" thing, which I don't, I could never call myself one because I know as soon as I did I'd get a 4tranner saying "um actually you're a gigahon brick"