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lately: o11y and street dance and wtfff is going on
honestly i probably shouldn't be here 🫠
she/her/hers
lately: o11y and street dance and wtfff is going on
honestly i probably shouldn't be here 🫠
she/her/hers
In this clip from a longer interview, she says while she was in detention, agents called Renee Good a “lesbian b*tch.”
This video belongs to @statuscoupnews.bsky.social and I’ll take it down if they want me to.
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This video belongs to @statuscoupnews.bsky.social and I’ll take it down if they want me to.
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January 12, 2026 at 6:11 PM
ICE: “Have you not learned from the past few days?”
Woman: “Learned what? What’s our lesson?”
Every domestic violence survivor knows what those words means.
The misogyny on display by ICE is terrifying & escalating.
There’s no lesson we need to learn.
Filming is legal. Murder is not.
Woman: “Learned what? What’s our lesson?”
Every domestic violence survivor knows what those words means.
The misogyny on display by ICE is terrifying & escalating.
There’s no lesson we need to learn.
Filming is legal. Murder is not.
January 12, 2026 at 2:39 AM
also, nice to see you 😊 we were loosely acquainted in our past internet lives, and met briefly when I was hanging at a PAX AnyKey table
January 10, 2026 at 1:16 AM
also, nice to see you 😊 we were loosely acquainted in our past internet lives, and met briefly when I was hanging at a PAX AnyKey table
I always get a bit suspicious when I find a new theoretical framework Very Compelling / Convincing 😉 but turns out I had seen a vid of Emily Nagoski before on orgasm neuroscience and it had been rattling around in my head ever since
January 10, 2026 at 1:14 AM
I always get a bit suspicious when I find a new theoretical framework Very Compelling / Convincing 😉 but turns out I had seen a vid of Emily Nagoski before on orgasm neuroscience and it had been rattling around in my head ever since
Moving Your Body / raising heart rate is the most effective thing to do. I went to two dance classes last night, came home, and my spouse instantly noticed the difference in my mood. it lasted the whole rest of the night. no denying that the movement & connection with others really helped
January 10, 2026 at 1:12 AM
Moving Your Body / raising heart rate is the most effective thing to do. I went to two dance classes last night, came home, and my spouse instantly noticed the difference in my mood. it lasted the whole rest of the night. no denying that the movement & connection with others really helped
my therapist recommended the book Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski
after experiencing stress, YOU MUST DO SOMETHING to tell your body that it is safe, otherwise you’re still soaked in stress juice
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after experiencing stress, YOU MUST DO SOMETHING to tell your body that it is safe, otherwise you’re still soaked in stress juice
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January 10, 2026 at 1:09 AM
this is very “guy who has only seen boss baby movie” of me because I’m reading the Nagoski book on burnout, but uh: everyone is chronically bathed in stress juice
January 7, 2026 at 5:26 AM
this is very “guy who has only seen boss baby movie” of me because I’m reading the Nagoski book on burnout, but uh: everyone is chronically bathed in stress juice
there’s two eves and two fulls and a weekend in an eight day period. (full overlaps observed in lieu) that week is cooked. there’s no fucking point. just do the right thing. add three more christmases, whatever.
December 30, 2025 at 3:21 AM
there’s two eves and two fulls and a weekend in an eight day period. (full overlaps observed in lieu) that week is cooked. there’s no fucking point. just do the right thing. add three more christmases, whatever.
you deserve one fucking week off
December 30, 2025 at 3:10 AM
you deserve one fucking week off
my burnout journey has not been a great part of 2025, tho it’s been illuminating to learn what my dignity cannot tolerate. I’m starting 2026 with fresh tracking ideas but also bc I’ll need data on what recovery methods work for me. but goddamn I cannot read that cute mood-tracking molecule lol #o11y
December 30, 2025 at 2:43 AM
my burnout journey has not been a great part of 2025, tho it’s been illuminating to learn what my dignity cannot tolerate. I’m starting 2026 with fresh tracking ideas but also bc I’ll need data on what recovery methods work for me. but goddamn I cannot read that cute mood-tracking molecule lol #o11y
it’s good to sit down with some paper and markers to draw and colour. an art teacher said to set up a permanent art desk in your house. so you can sit down even for 10min. yeah okay a what where? in this economy? lol
December 30, 2025 at 2:36 AM
it’s good to sit down with some paper and markers to draw and colour. an art teacher said to set up a permanent art desk in your house. so you can sit down even for 10min. yeah okay a what where? in this economy? lol
again this feels like a min/maxing mindset. every campaign? every city? every state? probably not, or at least not today. but everyone is suffering. if more campaigns become authentically inspired to engage with community resilience, it matters AND it might work sometimes
December 27, 2025 at 3:56 PM
again this feels like a min/maxing mindset. every campaign? every city? every state? probably not, or at least not today. but everyone is suffering. if more campaigns become authentically inspired to engage with community resilience, it matters AND it might work sometimes
not everyone has a competitive mindset when engaging in acts of community strength and support. there is something MORE here than only numbers, or Best Most Efficient Perfect Method, which people recognize as authentic
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And one last thing. As a true outsider, I said she was going to win early on and no one believed me. It's a mountain of stress. You know that. You wonder if it's worth it.
I no longer wondered if it was worth it when I saw her hand out 100 or so backpacks one day. Regardless now, it was worth it.
I no longer wondered if it was worth it when I saw her hand out 100 or so backpacks one day. Regardless now, it was worth it.
December 27, 2025 at 2:34 PM
not everyone has a competitive mindset when engaging in acts of community strength and support. there is something MORE here than only numbers, or Best Most Efficient Perfect Method, which people recognize as authentic
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maybe the thing that struck me as odd about seeing others frame mutual aid as cost / benefit is that we desperately need to sustainably practice community over individuality. it’s about more than vote counting
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December 27, 2025 at 2:53 AM
maybe the thing that struck me as odd about seeing others frame mutual aid as cost / benefit is that we desperately need to sustainably practice community over individuality. it’s about more than vote counting
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also something strikes me as odd about viewing mutual aid in terms of the payback-value of one category of people (today’s recipients). hmm
December 27, 2025 at 2:38 AM
also something strikes me as odd about viewing mutual aid in terms of the payback-value of one category of people (today’s recipients). hmm
these fuck ass adults. champions of their fields. the brilliants. looking with their own eyes and pretending not to see
December 20, 2025 at 3:39 AM
these fuck ass adults. champions of their fields. the brilliants. looking with their own eyes and pretending not to see