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🆗🆒🔚🔜 resist!

she/her 🏳️‍🌈

fix your heart or die 🏳️‍⚧️

I'm completely disengaged from politics due to a preference for not being traumatized 🙈🙉🙊

proud graduate of the "sucidally unhappy, abused egg" to "absurdly happy trans woman" pipeline 🚇❤️

DMs on for moots
new year, new insurance, and as a direct result, I'm no longer getting vocal feminization surgery. the denial is especially egregious because my previous insurer was going to cover it, as they had all my previous trans medical stuff. 😭

sooooo, I booked voice lessons with Olivia Flanigan instead.
January 30, 2026 at 4:26 PM
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Hey I just wanna say: trans folk, we’ve spent most of our lives being terrified for one reason or another. But we survived. And now the government is targeting us.

So. YOU ARE NOT A COWARD if you don’t go to the front lines of protests. We need to survive first. That’s our job right now.
January 29, 2026 at 3:07 PM
I am in love with this beautiful album lately ❤️
Arlo Parks - My Soft Machine
Explore songs, recommendations, and other album details for My Soft Machine by Arlo Parks. Compare different versions and buy them all on Discogs.
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January 27, 2026 at 11:26 PM
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January 16, 2026 at 3:25 PM
O, it me! a lifetime of hypervigilance has made me completely unable to relax. I'm not sure i even know how to relax, and i can't really understand how people fall asleep during massages or movies or in a car or on a plane or on a train with Sam-I-Am
Robert Noot, 40, was gifted the Ultra Relaxation Spa Day gift package for his 40th birthday by partner Mary Walker, 41, but spent the run-up to the day in an ever-increasing state of anxiety about not being able to relax well enough.
AuDHD man at spa retreat worries about relaxing wrong
An AuDHD man taken on a "relaxing" spa day by his partner as a birthday treat has never been less relaxed in his life, sources have revealed.  Robert Noot, 40, was gifted the Ultra Relaxation Spa Day…
thedailytism.com
January 24, 2026 at 6:52 PM
I'm 49

I started at 46 (and I'm having the time of my life!)

DO IT. You still have time. You can do it!
I’m 39

I started at 37.

You still have time.
I’m 36.

I started at 28.

It’s never too late.
January 24, 2026 at 2:44 PM
please command me, Captain Tendi 😍
captain tendi you say
January 21, 2026 at 2:09 AM
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🖤
January 20, 2026 at 3:25 PM
how are we (well, I) supposed to function when everything is traumatizing, like it is now?
January 3, 2026 at 9:41 PM
In this season of tradition, i say to you:

fuck tradition!
January 1, 2026 at 1:54 AM
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sorry for being autistic it will happen again
December 31, 2025 at 10:47 PM
I live by this phrase
December 31, 2025 at 11:32 PM
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Don't kiss boys at midnight. It's New Year's Eve not New Years Steve

Be a lesbian

#newyearseve #nye #newyears
December 31, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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Reminder that they are YOUR breasts, you grew them intentionally despite everything society did to prevent you from taking that step, so don’t forget to grab them, wiggle the around and scream to the heavens “PRETTY TITTY BOUNCY BOOBS”!

It is your RIGHT and RESPONSIBILITY!
December 31, 2025 at 6:57 PM
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my favorite is a series 😄
Guns N' Roses - The Trilogy (Don't Cry, November Rain, Estranged)
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December 31, 2025 at 7:10 PM
i don't normally do new years resolutions, but since I finally quit smoking #cannabis in December, i think that qualifies as a fulfilled resolution. i'll still have the occasional edible or infused beverage, but i'm dead sick of smoking and vaping, so i'm just not doing it anymore. 🫡
December 31, 2025 at 5:20 PM
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exposure to a single, modern trans woman would have killed freud instantly
December 31, 2025 at 11:18 AM
tonight's #girldinner

farfalle with bacon, chicken and asparagus in a chili creme sauce, with fresh baked ciabatta for dipping. we normally add mushrooms but forgot this time 🍄
December 28, 2025 at 11:15 PM
Oh no 😭
December 27, 2025 at 2:19 AM
Got bottom surgery; became much closer to my wife's daughters and got their assent for me to be their step-mother; finally got my autism diagnosed; finally medicated properly after 1/4 century of doctors getting it wrong; been super busy all year but never been this happy

Lots of good cries too

❤️
Quote this with what you have accomplished in 2025, no matter how big or small
Reading & writing has kept me alive this year.

Somehow, it’s been my most productive year as an author.

Here’s a guide to what I’ve published in 2025, in case you’ve lost track.

Individual links below but it’s all on itch: danifinn.itch.io

And elsewhere: books2read.com/ap/nAApPp/Da...

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December 27, 2025 at 12:42 AM
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I got asked about “the surgery”

as always if you enjoy my videos likes are wonderful but reposts are greatly appreciated and support a good cause (inflating my ego)
December 23, 2025 at 8:29 AM
The Further (Queer) Adventures of Yukon Cornelius — Jerome Stueart Art jeromestueartart.squarespace.com/work/yukonco...
The Further (Queer) Adventures of Yukon Cornelius — Jerome Stueart Art
jeromestueartart.squarespace.com
December 25, 2025 at 1:30 AM
@www.zoeblade.com wow hi! I remember you from Everything2 a long time ago 😊
December 24, 2025 at 4:59 PM