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Sacha B
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Insistence on perfection is a tool of oppression used by the white supremacist patriarchy. Philly inside, Indy outside. Quilter. Scientist.
(she/her, cis)
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I liked your tilted tip. 😁
December 27, 2025 at 12:21 AM
The machine info is in the alt text, turns out.
December 26, 2025 at 6:23 PM
This kind of shit is so hard. Good luck, stranger.
December 26, 2025 at 6:21 PM
Thanks! I'm a jovial quilt witch.
December 26, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Take good care of yourself. <hug>
December 26, 2025 at 5:52 PM
I quilted the layers of the brim together and it did get much stiffer. I'm going to bind the edge—I already sewed up the seam on the point lining, plus I also quilted that, so I figured I'd try bias binding for the first time.
December 26, 2025 at 5:50 PM
I grew up casually Catholic and never understood that Protestants said they were Christian. We're also Christian, I thought. Then I moved to the Midwest, became familiar with Evangelical/apocalypse etc. Christians, and learned that Catholics are fucking *hated*.
December 26, 2025 at 2:14 PM
This is a great idea.

I was in a smaller guild that had one winner but not enough blocks submitted to make a quilt, and a larger guild that choose so many winners that no one got enough blocks to make a quilt. When I mentioned it, the chair said, "Just make more blocks." 🤦🏻 THAT DEFEATS THE POINT.
December 26, 2025 at 2:11 PM
What happened to feeling attacked by people saying "happy holidays"? Is Santa anti-Jesus? None of it makes sense...unless maybe it's no more complicated than LOOK TOUGH + CHRISTMASTIME + USE AI + CONSERVATIVE TALKING POINT in a mental cocktail mixer.
December 26, 2025 at 2:08 PM
Connections
Puzzle #929
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December 26, 2025 at 2:04 PM
I've worked this book twice, each time with a different group, and found it valuable. I thought it might be easier to find a therapist who knows IFS than the LPG, hence that exploration.
Loving Parent Guidebook (Spiral Bound)
The Solution in the Adult Children of Alcoholics / Dysfunctional Families (ACA and ACoA) program is to become your own loving parent. The Loving Parent Guidebook explores, in practical terms, how to b...
shop.adultchildren.org
December 26, 2025 at 2:03 PM
I bought it but I haven't worked it. Yesterday I read this and decided to go more carefully, but I also recognize (1) there are bad actors in that story and (2) I'm considering exploring IFS as backup for learning to become my own loving parent.
The Truth About IFS, the Therapy That Can Break You
Internal Family Systems is a widely popular trauma treatment. Some patients say it’s destroyed their lives.
www.thecut.com
December 26, 2025 at 2:00 PM
Holy hell.
December 26, 2025 at 1:56 PM
Santa Claus Is a Black Man
YouTube video by Akim & Teddy Vann - Topic
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December 26, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Bill and I cooked together last night. He is new to planning and making a full meal and it was so delightful. I operated as assistant—chopping, mincing, dicing, shredding, and some mise en place—and his timing turned out better than mine usually is!
December 26, 2025 at 12:51 AM
DYK Hugh Jackman is moving to Muncie? Also, thanks for the warning about the emotional devastation—I do want to see it and now I'll be ready.
December 26, 2025 at 12:48 AM
Reposted by Sacha B
every time I see a headline framing this as being primarily an issue of the student having controversial opinions, and not the student being an asshole with a right wing podcaster mom who wanted to ruin a trans person’s career for the clicks, I age another ten years
December 25, 2025 at 8:22 PM
SEND THEM BACK!
December 25, 2025 at 9:42 PM