Violet Grey
@violetgreywriter.bsky.social
Sex blogger, erotica writer, tea drinker, theology nerd, Anglo-Catholic, book hoarder. 30s. 🏳️🌈 All opinions my own. STRICTLY 18+ ONLY. MDNI
Blog on indefinite hiatus.
Website: becomingvioletgrey.com
Blog on indefinite hiatus.
Website: becomingvioletgrey.com
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Violet Grey
@violetgreywriter.bsky.social
· Oct 21
One for the algorithm. I'm a sex blogger and spicy writer. I write and enjoy:
❤️ Spicy romance
❤️ Erotica (primarily D/s fiction).
❤️ HEAs
❤️ Grumpy x Sunshine
❤️ "He's a bad guy, but not a bad GUY" trope.
❤️ Warm and fuzzy romance.
❤️ Diet dark romance (morally grey but good guy MMC).
Strictly 18+.
❤️ Spicy romance
❤️ Erotica (primarily D/s fiction).
❤️ HEAs
❤️ Grumpy x Sunshine
❤️ "He's a bad guy, but not a bad GUY" trope.
❤️ Warm and fuzzy romance.
❤️ Diet dark romance (morally grey but good guy MMC).
Strictly 18+.
From my Instagram. If you're the praying type, please remember those where Christmas can be a difficult time ❤️
For anyone having a tough day today: You are enough. You are loved. You matter ❤️ Keep going ❤️
For anyone having a tough day today: You are enough. You are loved. You matter ❤️ Keep going ❤️
December 25, 2025 at 7:44 PM
From my Instagram. If you're the praying type, please remember those where Christmas can be a difficult time ❤️
For anyone having a tough day today: You are enough. You are loved. You matter ❤️ Keep going ❤️
For anyone having a tough day today: You are enough. You are loved. You matter ❤️ Keep going ❤️
Happy Birthday Jesus! 🥳🎉🎁
a man with a beard is carrying another man on his shoulders
ALT: a man with a beard is carrying another man on his shoulders
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December 25, 2025 at 12:41 AM
Happy Birthday Jesus! 🥳🎉🎁
Deeply saddened to hear of James Ransone's passing by suicide. May he rest in peace and my deepest sympathies to his loved ones. He was a gem of talent, gone too soon 💔
If you're struggling, please reach out for help. The world needs you ❤️
If you're struggling, please reach out for help. The world needs you ❤️
December 23, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Deeply saddened to hear of James Ransone's passing by suicide. May he rest in peace and my deepest sympathies to his loved ones. He was a gem of talent, gone too soon 💔
If you're struggling, please reach out for help. The world needs you ❤️
If you're struggling, please reach out for help. The world needs you ❤️
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BREAKING: WATCH the full 60 Minutes CECOT segment here. This was sent to me anonymously. It appears to be the segment CBS' Bari Weiss killed. www.muellershewrote.com/p/watch-the-...
WATCH: The 60 Minutes CECOT Segment
I was sent the CECOT segment anonymously in a group chat.
www.muellershewrote.com
December 22, 2025 at 10:46 PM
BREAKING: WATCH the full 60 Minutes CECOT segment here. This was sent to me anonymously. It appears to be the segment CBS' Bari Weiss killed. www.muellershewrote.com/p/watch-the-...
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I love my two blackout drunk Minnesota sons
December 18, 2025 at 2:17 PM
I love my two blackout drunk Minnesota sons
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Rob Reiner either made your favorite movie, or made somebody you know’s favorite movie. If you’re a Californian, he’s also part of the reason you or your friends can get married. He has changed more lives for the better than this asshole commenting on him ever did.
December 15, 2025 at 7:36 PM
Rob Reiner either made your favorite movie, or made somebody you know’s favorite movie. If you’re a Californian, he’s also part of the reason you or your friends can get married. He has changed more lives for the better than this asshole commenting on him ever did.
Hey guys, I'm putting my blog on hiatus for a while to focus more on regular life and work 🫶 Still writing, just not currently on the blog.
December 14, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Hey guys, I'm putting my blog on hiatus for a while to focus more on regular life and work 🫶 Still writing, just not currently on the blog.
Horrific news.
Absolutely horrifying news. Stay safe, Sydney.
Live: Police responding to reports of active shooter at Bondi Beach
The public is being urged to avoid the area and two people are in custody. Follow live.
www.abc.net.au
December 14, 2025 at 9:37 AM
Horrific news.
#ICYMI My 5 year update after switching to sustainable period products 🩸 #reusableperiodproducts #ecofriendly #clothpads #periodcup
In 2020, I switched to sustainable period products. 5 years later, here are my thoughts 🩸 #sexblogger #reusableperiodproducts #ecofriendly #sustainableperiodproducts
becomingvioletgrey.com/2025/12/09/5...
becomingvioletgrey.com/2025/12/09/5...
5 Years Using Sustainable Period Products. Here Are My Thoughts
This post does not contain affiliate links. Just before the pandemic started, after some debate about whether to make the change, I took the plunge and invested in more sustainable period products.…
becomingvioletgrey.com
December 10, 2025 at 11:38 AM
#ICYMI My 5 year update after switching to sustainable period products 🩸 #reusableperiodproducts #ecofriendly #clothpads #periodcup
In 2020, I switched to sustainable period products. 5 years later, here are my thoughts 🩸 #sexblogger #reusableperiodproducts #ecofriendly #sustainableperiodproducts
becomingvioletgrey.com/2025/12/09/5...
becomingvioletgrey.com/2025/12/09/5...
5 Years Using Sustainable Period Products. Here Are My Thoughts
This post does not contain affiliate links. Just before the pandemic started, after some debate about whether to make the change, I took the plunge and invested in more sustainable period products.…
becomingvioletgrey.com
December 9, 2025 at 6:43 PM
In 2020, I switched to sustainable period products. 5 years later, here are my thoughts 🩸 #sexblogger #reusableperiodproducts #ecofriendly #sustainableperiodproducts
becomingvioletgrey.com/2025/12/09/5...
becomingvioletgrey.com/2025/12/09/5...
Not being facetious here, this is exactly how people with dementia and Alzheimer's talk. Often called a word salad and it heightens when a person is sundowning.
Trump: "Under Boot Edge Edge - another grossly incompetent. Get on his bicycle, ride to work. What they do is they take the fiber optics & they take fiber, try to hook it into copper. And fiber and copper don't mix. You can't do it...you saw that by the helicopter crash. You saw that into the plane"
December 2, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Not being facetious here, this is exactly how people with dementia and Alzheimer's talk. Often called a word salad and it heightens when a person is sundowning.
"You attract what you fear."
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
"you attract what you fear."
OH GOD. OH MY GOD NOOOO!! A SENSE OF VALIDATION AND BELONGING... AND UNLIMITED FREE TIME TO WRITE?? GET AWAAAAAY FROM MEEEEE!
OH GOD. OH MY GOD NOOOO!! A SENSE OF VALIDATION AND BELONGING... AND UNLIMITED FREE TIME TO WRITE?? GET AWAAAAAY FROM MEEEEE!
December 2, 2025 at 5:17 PM
"You attract what you fear."
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
December 1st marks World AIDS Day.
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
a candle is lit up in the dark and the flame is visible
ALT: a candle is lit up in the dark and the flame is visible
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December 1, 2025 at 9:13 PM
December 1st marks World AIDS Day.
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
Friendly reminder that you don't have to partake in any sexual activity you don't want to. And if you do, between consenting adults (obviously, that goes without saying), that's between you and your partner(s). Whatever anyone else thinks, it's not their business.
Stay safe, folks ❤️
Stay safe, folks ❤️
a pink heart shaped candy with the word consent on it
ALT: a pink heart shaped candy with the word consent on it
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November 26, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Friendly reminder that you don't have to partake in any sexual activity you don't want to. And if you do, between consenting adults (obviously, that goes without saying), that's between you and your partner(s). Whatever anyone else thinks, it's not their business.
Stay safe, folks ❤️
Stay safe, folks ❤️
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3/ ✍️ Writers:
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
November 11, 2025 at 2:46 PM
3/ ✍️ Writers:
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
Always remember to read the room before you ejaculate 🤣
November 25, 2025 at 1:46 PM
Always remember to read the room before you ejaculate 🤣
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The UK is a strongly pro-choice country with 86% of Britons wanting abortion to be legal in all or most cases. But the US anti-choice movement has been investing heavily into campaigns in Britain, and Nigel Farage’s Reform UK party seems to be support the interference.
The worrying rise of US anti-abortion rhetoric is in full force - how deep is Reform UK's involvement?
Money is pouring into anti-abortion campaigns in Britain, and it seems Nigel Farage’s party isn’t pushing back…
www.cosmopolitan.com
November 23, 2025 at 3:11 AM
The UK is a strongly pro-choice country with 86% of Britons wanting abortion to be legal in all or most cases. But the US anti-choice movement has been investing heavily into campaigns in Britain, and Nigel Farage’s Reform UK party seems to be support the interference.
Okay folks, question time: What posts do you want to see more of on my blog?
November 22, 2025 at 2:56 PM
Okay folks, question time: What posts do you want to see more of on my blog?
Die Hard has now been replaced from the "Is it a Christmas movie?" discourse 😂
A time for us all to gather for a meal, a celebration of the birth of a very special child, born miraculously through immaculate conception. Reminding us that what truly matters is what's inside... 🎄
November 22, 2025 at 2:54 PM
Die Hard has now been replaced from the "Is it a Christmas movie?" discourse 😂
Happy International Men's Day to all the wonderful men in my life 🫶 You're all awesome, you're all handsome and I'm sending you all the hugs in the world 🤗
November 19, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Happy International Men's Day to all the wonderful men in my life 🫶 You're all awesome, you're all handsome and I'm sending you all the hugs in the world 🤗
So the same folks who talked about "protecting the children" via book bans, losing their minds at drag queens etc, are defending a man with links to one of the most prolific child sex traffickers in modern history, and when a journalist asks him about it, says "Quiet, piggy"?
Right...
Right...
a woman in a purple jacket is sitting in a chair with a glass of wine in her hand .
ALT: a woman in a purple jacket is sitting in a chair with a glass of wine in her hand .
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November 19, 2025 at 1:38 PM
So the same folks who talked about "protecting the children" via book bans, losing their minds at drag queens etc, are defending a man with links to one of the most prolific child sex traffickers in modern history, and when a journalist asks him about it, says "Quiet, piggy"?
Right...
Right...
"You can't call someone a Nazi because you disagree with them."
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
November 17, 2025 at 11:11 PM
"You can't call someone a Nazi because you disagree with them."
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
Not going to lie, the thought crossed my mind too once he said to release them. That there might be scrambling to burn, shred, wipe, any trace of some of his most depraved involvement.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
He knows they have the votes to filibuster in the Senate.
Or they have successfully destroyed everything showing he knew all about what Epstein was doing.
Or they have successfully destroyed everything showing he knew all about what Epstein was doing.
November 17, 2025 at 6:36 PM
Not going to lie, the thought crossed my mind too once he said to release them. That there might be scrambling to burn, shred, wipe, any trace of some of his most depraved involvement.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
Sacha is absolutely right here. From my experience as a sex blogger, and speaking from the POV of a convert, never in my life have I come across a demographic so obsessed with sex and other's sex lives as I have purity-culture obsessed religious folks.
Those who scream 'think of the children', who beg for a return to purity and traditional family values... don't half obsess about other people's sex lives.
November 17, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Sacha is absolutely right here. From my experience as a sex blogger, and speaking from the POV of a convert, never in my life have I come across a demographic so obsessed with sex and other's sex lives as I have purity-culture obsessed religious folks.
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This is Benjamin. He was found as a stray with torn CCLs and a significant bone infection, making walking very painful. He needs multiple surgeries to feel better and ongoing care to ensure the infection doesn't spread. You can help him below ❤️🩹
15outof10.org/benjamin/
15outof10.org/benjamin/
November 14, 2025 at 5:03 PM
This is Benjamin. He was found as a stray with torn CCLs and a significant bone infection, making walking very painful. He needs multiple surgeries to feel better and ongoing care to ensure the infection doesn't spread. You can help him below ❤️🩹
15outof10.org/benjamin/
15outof10.org/benjamin/