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alexxaye.bsky.social
Looking straight out of a Black 2000s rom com. 🙂‍↕️
A Bladk woman in a blue bandana print tube top and blue sunglasses, taking a selfie A Black woman wearing a blue tube top and jeans, taking a mirror selfie in a bedroom
alexxaye.bsky.social
I’ve been holding off buying coupe glasses. Any time I came across some, they seemed plain & like I was settling. I just knew the right glasses would find me.

And I was right. 🥹 these glasses are absolutely STUNNING. I can’t wait to get a pic in natural light. They were on sale! And I found 4!
A woman’s hand holding a coupe glass
alexxaye.bsky.social
Me: *buys things to have a decent dinner tonight*

Me: *makes a bowl of cereal for dinner*
alexxaye.bsky.social
I’ve made amazing strides with my home this week. I’m so happy
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bask-inrobyn.bsky.social
Go to brunch, get drunk, make bad decisions!
pablostjohn.bsky.social
1. Be honest — are you more of a “let’s make bad decisions” or “let’s make brunch” kind of person?
pablostjohn.bsky.social
It’s kinda quiet 🤫 tonight !!
Here’s some questions
alexxaye.bsky.social
The upside of tonight is that I found some gorgeous new coupe glasses on sale at TJ Maxx. The downside of tonight is that I didn’t realize til I already paid and locked the washer machine that I hadn’t put the blankets in the washer. I paid $2.50 to watch scent beads dissolve.
alexxaye.bsky.social
OH MY GOEOWIWUAUAJA
A box of the Clue “murder at the winery” board game
alexxaye.bsky.social
I DONT NEED AN ORNAMENT SHAPED PUNCH BOWL AND YET —
alexxaye.bsky.social
No please I am about to start crying in this store. I love the holiday season so much. I’m actually kinda excited for it this year and want to buy all the things
alexxaye.bsky.social
Omg world market has their Christmas stuff out. Get me outta here! 🥹
alexxaye.bsky.social
So anyway, any wanna brainstorm with me on how to turn this thread into a marketing research topic?
alexxaye.bsky.social
Been seeing lots of discourse around how subscription & convenience services have stripped away so much of what contributes to community. Dutch on TT made a video about how often his mom is at the bank & post office. Whole time those errands provide social interaction stripped by modern convenience.
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deerene.bsky.social
You’ll look up and realize someone has merely been responsive — but not reciprocal. There is a difference & u gotta slow down enough to see it.

And also stop. The “fuck it I’ll just do it myself” does not apply here!
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deerene.bsky.social
This thread! All the magic is you and your effort. You do have to step back and see if a person is building with you or merely along for the ride.
biensur-jetaime.blacksky.app
One of the things I said I wanted to change about my love life (and yes yall finna get these tidbits as I make a real concerted attempt to find what I want now) was taking the lead. I realized a lot of the great experiences I had were great bc I was designing and curating them.
alexxaye.bsky.social
And now that I’m clearly an expert at this, I can finally hang my macabre plant hanger. I just need to get a plant for it. ☺️
alexxaye.bsky.social
I fixed it! It’s perfect & my pendant light is hanging beautifully!

Did I break two anchors & end up with multiple holes? Yes! Will I need to move one of the hooks bc I don’t like where it’s hanging? Also yes!

But I learned how to do a new thing! I’m just a girl, but I’m just a girl who can! 😃
alexxaye.bsky.social
Is this right? Not sure! But it’s in there (and I already broke one anchor trying to get it in)! 😃
Close up of a drywall anchor and a c hook in a ceiling
alexxaye.bsky.social
Feels sturdy idk! Gonna test it!
alexxaye.bsky.social
Is this right? Not sure! But it’s in there (and I already broke one anchor trying to get it in)! 😃
Close up of a drywall anchor and a c hook in a ceiling
alexxaye.bsky.social
Currently YouTubing how to install a drywall anchor. This is going great! 😃
alexxaye.bsky.social
About to attempt to put up a pendant light myself. Wish me luck! 😃
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asdoseofreality.blacksky.app
I don’t talk to my earthly Father every day and he still lights up when I call and runs to help me when I need him. Can’t imagine my Heavenly Father, whose image my earthly Father is made in, would be any different.
alexxaye.bsky.social
Do I want to walk to Einstein for a bagel sammich? 🤔
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bask-inrobyn.bsky.social
I prolly been on at least 15 first dates in the past couple years. I have shown up to every single one with flowers. Only one person has shown up with flowers for me. These niggas is not romancing like they say they are on the innanet. And that’s low hanging fruit.
alexxaye.bsky.social
Last night I kept lucid dreaming that there was a bird in my bedroom. Then I had an actual dream about finding blue birds living in my apartment. I hope this is a good omen.
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mminthecity.bsky.social
music is suffering because of the purposeful defunding of arts education specifically and defunding of education in general. it’s suffering because of lack of access. it’s suffering because artists are catering to algorithms vs. living, breathing people or even themselves.