Becky, Writer of Sexy Bad Decisions
@beckycunningham.bsky.social
She/they. Game dev, singer, cat-loving Canuck. Personal account. No AI, yes sexy fan art. Tricksy_Hobbitses on AO3. Adults-only account.
Company account: https://bsky.app/profile/velvetcupcakegames.bsky.social
Company account: https://bsky.app/profile/velvetcupcakegames.bsky.social
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OK, ground rules:
I am a US expat in Canada. Been here 20+ years, have renounced my US citizenship and consider myself primarily Canadian.
I do post occasionally about US stuff but am mainly concerned with Canada. If you don't know me, please don't bring US politics to my posts. Trying to be sane.
I am a US expat in Canada. Been here 20+ years, have renounced my US citizenship and consider myself primarily Canadian.
I do post occasionally about US stuff but am mainly concerned with Canada. If you don't know me, please don't bring US politics to my posts. Trying to be sane.
That's an adorable con name!
February 11, 2026 at 3:56 AM
That's an adorable con name!
Just whipped up a basalmic vinaigrette because spouse forgot to watch the Wendy's staff like a hawk and they gave us Caesar dressing for our apple pecan salad.
Spouse: It'll taste FINE.
Me: Don't make me go Lucanis Dellamorte on your ass, Caesar dressing is NOT appropriate for a fruit-based salad!
Spouse: It'll taste FINE.
Me: Don't make me go Lucanis Dellamorte on your ass, Caesar dressing is NOT appropriate for a fruit-based salad!
February 11, 2026 at 3:55 AM
Just whipped up a basalmic vinaigrette because spouse forgot to watch the Wendy's staff like a hawk and they gave us Caesar dressing for our apple pecan salad.
Spouse: It'll taste FINE.
Me: Don't make me go Lucanis Dellamorte on your ass, Caesar dressing is NOT appropriate for a fruit-based salad!
Spouse: It'll taste FINE.
Me: Don't make me go Lucanis Dellamorte on your ass, Caesar dressing is NOT appropriate for a fruit-based salad!
But do you have Vacouver FanExpo I think not! ;)
February 11, 2026 at 3:51 AM
But do you have Vacouver FanExpo I think not! ;)
I'm going for the first time on Sunday, gonna get a photo op with the fabulous Catherine Tate!
a woman is talking to a man with her mouth open and says `` oy ! ''
Alt: a woman is talking to a man with her mouth open and says `` oy ! ''
media.tenor.com
February 11, 2026 at 3:50 AM
I'm going for the first time on Sunday, gonna get a photo op with the fabulous Catherine Tate!
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Like 75% of the US Olympic curlers are from Minnesota. A lot of them curl out of two clubs in Saint Paul, one club is in Frogtown, a neighborhood that has been very heavily targeted by ICE. These curlers are good neighbors.
US Olympic Curling Team member speaks out against ICE:
"I'm proud to represent Team USA. But we'd be remiss if we didn't mention what's going on in Minnesota and what a tough time it's been. What's happening is wrong. There's no shades of gray."
"I'm proud to represent Team USA. But we'd be remiss if we didn't mention what's going on in Minnesota and what a tough time it's been. What's happening is wrong. There's no shades of gray."
February 10, 2026 at 10:03 PM
Like 75% of the US Olympic curlers are from Minnesota. A lot of them curl out of two clubs in Saint Paul, one club is in Frogtown, a neighborhood that has been very heavily targeted by ICE. These curlers are good neighbors.
Ugh, I'm sorry, what bullshit.
I really wish people didn't have to rent.
I really wish people didn't have to rent.
February 11, 2026 at 3:32 AM
Ugh, I'm sorry, what bullshit.
I really wish people didn't have to rent.
I really wish people didn't have to rent.
We have poutine in Vancouver.
It could be had by, perhaps, attending Vancouver FanExpo.
Hint, hint, Mr. Mendez.
It could be had by, perhaps, attending Vancouver FanExpo.
Hint, hint, Mr. Mendez.
February 11, 2026 at 3:27 AM
We have poutine in Vancouver.
It could be had by, perhaps, attending Vancouver FanExpo.
Hint, hint, Mr. Mendez.
It could be had by, perhaps, attending Vancouver FanExpo.
Hint, hint, Mr. Mendez.
This is a man who knows *exactly* what he's doing (please never stop, Zach).
February 11, 2026 at 3:25 AM
This is a man who knows *exactly* what he's doing (please never stop, Zach).
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February 10, 2026 at 1:51 PM
Age verification? I was traumatized in the theatre!
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
February 10, 2026 at 2:43 PM
Age verification? I was traumatized in the theatre!
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
Dorian, sir, you are a married man! (To my Inquisitor, heh heh.)
February 10, 2026 at 2:37 PM
Dorian, sir, you are a married man! (To my Inquisitor, heh heh.)
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you also need to unmute this for the perfect song / visual combo
Everybody knows that Pupper just won Downhill Gold
February 10, 2026 at 1:59 PM
you also need to unmute this for the perfect song / visual combo
This is mega hottttt I love them
February 10, 2026 at 1:31 AM
This is mega hottttt I love them
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February 10, 2026 at 12:03 AM
Who would want to fight this clearly superior opinion? Uncultured dweebs.
February 10, 2026 at 1:23 AM
Who would want to fight this clearly superior opinion? Uncultured dweebs.
Not my ID pics. If it goes through I shall be borrowing the visage of Lucanis Dellamorte.
He won't mind.
He won't mind.
February 9, 2026 at 11:03 PM
Not my ID pics. If it goes through I shall be borrowing the visage of Lucanis Dellamorte.
He won't mind.
He won't mind.
My problem is the massive, massive security flaws and the fact that they're lying when they say the data is deleted immediately/only located on the local drive.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
February 9, 2026 at 10:55 PM
My problem is the massive, massive security flaws and the fact that they're lying when they say the data is deleted immediately/only located on the local drive.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
Of course people are going to be unhappy if they are not partnered and if having a sexual partner is the only way they're able to have an enduring social bond due to the way our society is structured.
February 9, 2026 at 9:20 PM
Of course people are going to be unhappy if they are not partnered and if having a sexual partner is the only way they're able to have an enduring social bond due to the way our society is structured.
It doesn't discuss how modern Western capitalism secludes people into the nuclear family unit and makes alternative social structures next to impossible to maintain.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
February 9, 2026 at 9:17 PM
It doesn't discuss how modern Western capitalism secludes people into the nuclear family unit and makes alternative social structures next to impossible to maintain.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
To add a sociological perspective to the excellent critique already here:
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
February 9, 2026 at 9:15 PM
To add a sociological perspective to the excellent critique already here:
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
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Sorry to vent on main but I'm just so sick of being a grown-ass adult online who can't openly enjoy talking about or drawing sex stuff even in completely adult spaces where all minors are completely banned just because everyone has gotta be such fascist controlling fucking babies about it
February 9, 2026 at 3:19 PM
Sorry to vent on main but I'm just so sick of being a grown-ass adult online who can't openly enjoy talking about or drawing sex stuff even in completely adult spaces where all minors are completely banned just because everyone has gotta be such fascist controlling fucking babies about it
Sooooo... Discord actively tries to insulate itself from feedback, so the best way to make your displeasure known is to cancel Nitro if you have it. Let's make this Cancel Nitro Day.
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month
Age verification for all.
www.theverge.com
February 9, 2026 at 7:14 PM
Sooooo... Discord actively tries to insulate itself from feedback, so the best way to make your displeasure known is to cancel Nitro if you have it. Let's make this Cancel Nitro Day.
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
Right? Every time I consider getting Nitro they do some boneheaded thing with AI and I end up not getting it in the first place, so I can't cancel. :-p
February 9, 2026 at 7:13 PM
Right? Every time I consider getting Nitro they do some boneheaded thing with AI and I end up not getting it in the first place, so I can't cancel. :-p
February 9, 2026 at 6:49 PM
I mean...
February 9, 2026 at 4:06 PM
I mean...