Becky, Writer of Sexy Bad Decisions
@beckycunningham.bsky.social
She/they. Game dev, singer, cat-loving Canuck. Personal account. No AI, yes sexy fan art. Tricksy_Hobbitses on AO3. Adults-only account.
Company account: https://bsky.app/profile/velvetcupcakegames.bsky.social
Company account: https://bsky.app/profile/velvetcupcakegames.bsky.social
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OK, ground rules:
I am a US expat in Canada. Been here 20+ years, have renounced my US citizenship and consider myself primarily Canadian.
I do post occasionally about US stuff but am mainly concerned with Canada. If you don't know me, please don't bring US politics to my posts. Trying to be sane.
I am a US expat in Canada. Been here 20+ years, have renounced my US citizenship and consider myself primarily Canadian.
I do post occasionally about US stuff but am mainly concerned with Canada. If you don't know me, please don't bring US politics to my posts. Trying to be sane.
Age verification? I was traumatized in the theatre!
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
February 10, 2026 at 2:43 PM
Age verification? I was traumatized in the theatre!
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
(Actual traumatic scene not shown, y'all know if you know, you're welcome.)
Dorian, sir, you are a married man! (To my Inquisitor, heh heh.)
February 10, 2026 at 2:37 PM
Dorian, sir, you are a married man! (To my Inquisitor, heh heh.)
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you also need to unmute this for the perfect song / visual combo
Everybody knows that Pupper just won Downhill Gold
February 10, 2026 at 1:59 PM
you also need to unmute this for the perfect song / visual combo
This is mega hottttt I love them
February 10, 2026 at 1:31 AM
This is mega hottttt I love them
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February 10, 2026 at 12:03 AM
Who would want to fight this clearly superior opinion? Uncultured dweebs.
February 10, 2026 at 1:23 AM
Who would want to fight this clearly superior opinion? Uncultured dweebs.
Not my ID pics. If it goes through I shall be borrowing the visage of Lucanis Dellamorte.
He won't mind.
He won't mind.
February 9, 2026 at 11:03 PM
Not my ID pics. If it goes through I shall be borrowing the visage of Lucanis Dellamorte.
He won't mind.
He won't mind.
My problem is the massive, massive security flaws and the fact that they're lying when they say the data is deleted immediately/only located on the local drive.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
February 9, 2026 at 10:55 PM
My problem is the massive, massive security flaws and the fact that they're lying when they say the data is deleted immediately/only located on the local drive.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
And the AI making decisions about how old you are in ways that work against disabled and ND people.
Of course people are going to be unhappy if they are not partnered and if having a sexual partner is the only way they're able to have an enduring social bond due to the way our society is structured.
February 9, 2026 at 9:20 PM
Of course people are going to be unhappy if they are not partnered and if having a sexual partner is the only way they're able to have an enduring social bond due to the way our society is structured.
It doesn't discuss how modern Western capitalism secludes people into the nuclear family unit and makes alternative social structures next to impossible to maintain.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
February 9, 2026 at 9:17 PM
It doesn't discuss how modern Western capitalism secludes people into the nuclear family unit and makes alternative social structures next to impossible to maintain.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
It doesn't discuss the social and psychological harms of the isolation inherent in this social structure.
To add a sociological perspective to the excellent critique already here:
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
February 9, 2026 at 9:15 PM
To add a sociological perspective to the excellent critique already here:
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
The study correctly notes that for many people, their primary romantic/sexual relationship is their most important one. However, it doesn't ask solid sociological questions about WHY that is.
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Sorry to vent on main but I'm just so sick of being a grown-ass adult online who can't openly enjoy talking about or drawing sex stuff even in completely adult spaces where all minors are completely banned just because everyone has gotta be such fascist controlling fucking babies about it
February 9, 2026 at 3:19 PM
Sorry to vent on main but I'm just so sick of being a grown-ass adult online who can't openly enjoy talking about or drawing sex stuff even in completely adult spaces where all minors are completely banned just because everyone has gotta be such fascist controlling fucking babies about it
Sooooo... Discord actively tries to insulate itself from feedback, so the best way to make your displeasure known is to cancel Nitro if you have it. Let's make this Cancel Nitro Day.
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month
Age verification for all.
www.theverge.com
February 9, 2026 at 7:14 PM
Sooooo... Discord actively tries to insulate itself from feedback, so the best way to make your displeasure known is to cancel Nitro if you have it. Let's make this Cancel Nitro Day.
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
Right? Every time I consider getting Nitro they do some boneheaded thing with AI and I end up not getting it in the first place, so I can't cancel. :-p
February 9, 2026 at 7:13 PM
Right? Every time I consider getting Nitro they do some boneheaded thing with AI and I end up not getting it in the first place, so I can't cancel. :-p
February 9, 2026 at 6:49 PM
I mean...
February 9, 2026 at 4:06 PM
I mean...
I'm gonna use Lucanis. The thinning hair should help!
February 9, 2026 at 3:55 PM
I'm gonna use Lucanis. The thinning hair should help!
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🎵 If they ask you to pay money it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 If they ask you to pay money it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 that is not your favorite author or a stunning book club offer
🎵 They are asking you for money=it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 If they ask you to pay money it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 that is not your favorite author or a stunning book club offer
🎵 They are asking you for money=it's a scam 👏👏
February 9, 2026 at 4:47 AM
🎵 If they ask you to pay money it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 If they ask you to pay money it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 that is not your favorite author or a stunning book club offer
🎵 They are asking you for money=it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 If they ask you to pay money it's a scam 👏👏
🎵 that is not your favorite author or a stunning book club offer
🎵 They are asking you for money=it's a scam 👏👏
B - I started Inquisition as a dwarf rogue, but abandoned that playthrough and restarted as a human mage because a) I didn't like how melee rogue played in the game and b) I had a mighty need to romance Dorian and thus had to reroll as a man.
Inquisition was my only non-rogue DA playthrough.
Inquisition was my only non-rogue DA playthrough.
February 9, 2026 at 7:44 AM
B - I started Inquisition as a dwarf rogue, but abandoned that playthrough and restarted as a human mage because a) I didn't like how melee rogue played in the game and b) I had a mighty need to romance Dorian and thus had to reroll as a man.
Inquisition was my only non-rogue DA playthrough.
Inquisition was my only non-rogue DA playthrough.
Aww, the birthday message!
And I love love love that he's so aware of Lucanis' snobby side, it's perfect. I laughed like crazy.
And I love love love that he's so aware of Lucanis' snobby side, it's perfect. I laughed like crazy.
February 9, 2026 at 2:49 AM
Aww, the birthday message!
And I love love love that he's so aware of Lucanis' snobby side, it's perfect. I laughed like crazy.
And I love love love that he's so aware of Lucanis' snobby side, it's perfect. I laughed like crazy.
Teiago Week is here on Tumblr! I'm writing a three-chapter fic of my little HC of how Viago and Teia might have met. I haven't seen the topic done much yet. #TeiagoWeek2026 #ViagoDeRiva #AndarateiaCantori #DragonAge
www.tumblr.com/tricksy-hobb...
(Or on AO3: archiveofourown.org/works/791638...)
www.tumblr.com/tricksy-hobb...
(Or on AO3: archiveofourown.org/works/791638...)
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💬 0 🔁 2 ❤️ 2 · The Casino Job · Cover Art by Nanacchi_Art.
Chapter 1: A Suspicious Hostess
For @teiagoweek 2026. Prompts: Meetings, Undercover.
Happy Teiago Week! This is my little headcanon o…
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February 9, 2026 at 2:16 AM
Teiago Week is here on Tumblr! I'm writing a three-chapter fic of my little HC of how Viago and Teia might have met. I haven't seen the topic done much yet. #TeiagoWeek2026 #ViagoDeRiva #AndarateiaCantori #DragonAge
www.tumblr.com/tricksy-hobb...
(Or on AO3: archiveofourown.org/works/791638...)
www.tumblr.com/tricksy-hobb...
(Or on AO3: archiveofourown.org/works/791638...)
My refusal to use AI has not negatively affected my life in any way. In fact, it's been positive, as a number of players have said they specifically bought my game after noticing my strong anti-AI stance.
I'd probably be good at prompting. I'm good at search engines. I don't care.
I'd probably be good at prompting. I'm good at search engines. I don't care.
I actually agree that there is going to be a skill gap between people who regularly use AI vs those who refuse to use it, and it's that after the bubble pops the refusers will be fine while the AI-dependent will be missing or have let atrophy basic skills
February 8, 2026 at 8:43 PM
My refusal to use AI has not negatively affected my life in any way. In fact, it's been positive, as a number of players have said they specifically bought my game after noticing my strong anti-AI stance.
I'd probably be good at prompting. I'm good at search engines. I don't care.
I'd probably be good at prompting. I'm good at search engines. I don't care.
WE aren't going to (not actual writers... we WANT to WRITE). The question is how much publishers think they can get away with using AI to replace people. I suspect the greater threat is AI "editors."
this article’s a psyop, its sole purpose is to convince all writers they have to use AI or else
fuck this lady, fuck the nyt reporter, fuck all of this. fuck amazon for introducing the KU page read model that makes this possible, fuck our tech overlords.
www.nytimes.com/2026/02/08/b...
www.nytimes.com/2026/02/08/b...
February 8, 2026 at 8:18 PM
WE aren't going to (not actual writers... we WANT to WRITE). The question is how much publishers think they can get away with using AI to replace people. I suspect the greater threat is AI "editors."
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Hamilton, Canada
#hamont, #hamilton, #nationalist13, #ns-13, #neverletthenazishavegorepark, #nohamontfornazis
#hamont, #hamilton, #nationalist13, #ns-13, #neverletthenazishavegorepark, #nohamontfornazis
February 7, 2026 at 2:10 PM
Hamilton, Canada
#hamont, #hamilton, #nationalist13, #ns-13, #neverletthenazishavegorepark, #nohamontfornazis
#hamont, #hamilton, #nationalist13, #ns-13, #neverletthenazishavegorepark, #nohamontfornazis
I found it helpful to learn the signs of him withdrawing, to stop a sec, give a hug. "Hey, it's ok, I love you,"
February 8, 2026 at 2:57 PM
I found it helpful to learn the signs of him withdrawing, to stop a sec, give a hug. "Hey, it's ok, I love you,"