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she/her, 30+ disabled queer fem. ttrpg and podcast sicko (f@tt and friends, ranged touch, etc); collects gay little nail polishes; dyes own hair; steward of a deeply neglected tbr. 1/3 of Three of Hearts podcast.
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Have been doing my nails but haven't had energy to post. Happy with how these turned out!
Morning affirmations:
I love being awake
Getting out of bed is good
All the coolest and and sexiest people get out of bed
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(also skin: allergicly reacting so after Abigail gets home with groceries I will be putting myself back to bed)
✅ Laundry: washing and drying
✅ Bathroom sink: soaking (faucet, drain, and stopper)
✅ Papers: shredding

Not so bad for waking up at 9:40 feeling like I needed another 20 hours of sleep
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watched the "Beverly Crusher Fucks A Ghost (Who Also Fucked Her Grandma And Great-Grandma And Great-Great-Grandma Etc. Etc.)" episode of Star Trek: TNG with some friends for Hallowe'en. 10/10 viewing experience, heartily recommend
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best trick-or-treaters of the night was a trio of teen girls who told me they were dressed as "white teen boys who put in minimal effort for halloween." one was like "this leather jacket makes me Danny Zuko" and another was like "this plaid shirt and suspenders make me a lumberjack."
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Today is the last day of queer history month, which also happens to be Halloween… so what better time is there to read The Woods All Black?

An historical Appalachian gothic about queer-trans bodily autonomy and resistance ft. bash-back revenge, monsterfucking—
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Hey, a cute picture of me from my first bouldering comp last weekend!
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My Apocalypse World Heartbreaker lives...

(It's basically Burned Over with a custom set of basic moves and sex moves back in the game.)
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Re-upping this until someone claims these!
Something's come up so I will be unable to attend Jukebox The Ghost's HalloQueen in Williamsburg on Friday! If you want two free tickets, hmu.

(Warning: you will have to download the stupid AXS app for me to transfer the tickets, but you can delete after the show's over)
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I recommend signing up for our Patreon to hear this episode because I think I should be compensated monetarily for watching this.
I bet what you want to do on a tuesday afternoon is watch The Last Airbender movie along with the Media Club Plus crew and @austinwalker.bsky.social . The usual MCP ep (of The Happening, along with @notquitereal.bsky.social) will be out tonight or tomorrow afternoon! www.patreon.com/posts/mcp-st...
MCP Stands For M Night Cinema Party: The Last Airbender Watchalong | Friends at the Table
Get more from Friends at the Table on Patreon
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i knitted an over the garden wall scarf!!! heheh 🎃🍂🐸💗
I haven't been able to stop thinking about it
Hey so did we all know Manamana was Italian song about Swedish sex or
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not disagreeing but i want to say there are plenty of actual plays with trans women involved but its a lot harder to get traction when you're not doing video AP (and in turn means less of us end up joining in with those) when the barrier to entry for audio only or audio first productions is lighter
The actual play scene is disgustingly risk adverse and it shows in ways of almost a desert of trans women in the scene, a lack of darkly serious actual plays that deal with more serious real life themes and systems of violence and power, and cliques that perpetuate the status quo.
Think the TTRPG space needs to come together and everyone post 99 Hot Takes and then cause a schism.
Broke the shit out of my pinkie nail 😔 Left hand still going strong for comparison
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having my typical evening of quieting the internal anguish by watching horror, when this commercial came on tubi, and i thought i had entered some sort of psychotic fugue.

sound on.
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10/25 nail check: doing skittles with all new polishes
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I played this with my group including @spratt.bsky.social @polliecromatic.bsky.social and laughed so hard I physically doubled over
Probably the game that I wrote that I most want to play more. Free PDF here: erinking.itch.io/four-hour-ho...
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Many trauma survivors who value high achievement-- including me-- struggle w/ self-compassion because it feels like "making excuses" or "letting ourselves off the hook." But what if self-compassion actually represents a higher, tougher standard than our default?

(It does, btw.)
I just made a lemony white bean soup last night so I have a full tupperware to push into the computer for you
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[Food]

Tried a new-to-me method of keeping greens fresh in the fridge for longer, and I am a FAN

1. wrap base of greens in damp paper towel
2. put in vase, mason jar, etc
3. cover loosely with a plastic bag to create a mini greenhouse
4. refrigerate