Holly Owlet (She/They)
@hlyann.bsky.social
#AuDHD - EUPD/CPTSD, #mecfs . Gen-Y old soul| Artist of Creativity|photography/Introvert, A Queer Owlet - Survivor! Pet lover 2 cats & Family Doggies.
Survival , mixed with contradiction
= contrast dynamic
mostly venting.
Survival , mixed with contradiction
= contrast dynamic
mostly venting.
Pinned
I know this platform is still pretty much new in terms of gathering comfortability and safety. But I just wanted to point out that if I block you its because I am uncertain about your intentions. Of course when and hopefully @bsky.app add a lock option. I will find some security.
Thank you!
Thank you!
Having a break to reset, mind is on a warpath at the moment. Paranoia eating at me with great desire to unsettle everything around me. RSD on a louder speaker! Grief holding out its heavy weighted reminder. Bad Memories , to many flashbacks.
Thinking of you All , Much Love!
Please take care!
Thinking of you All , Much Love!
Please take care!
November 17, 2025 at 4:49 PM
Having a break to reset, mind is on a warpath at the moment. Paranoia eating at me with great desire to unsettle everything around me. RSD on a louder speaker! Grief holding out its heavy weighted reminder. Bad Memories , to many flashbacks.
Thinking of you All , Much Love!
Please take care!
Thinking of you All , Much Love!
Please take care!
What does it mean to live? I was raised on the verb "survive," its grammar etched deeply into my being. As a child, I learned to conserve light, stashing fragments of dawn for the heavy hours that stretched ahead.
November 15, 2025 at 6:33 PM
What does it mean to live? I was raised on the verb "survive," its grammar etched deeply into my being. As a child, I learned to conserve light, stashing fragments of dawn for the heavy hours that stretched ahead.
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My body and I are fighting again
November 15, 2025 at 12:27 PM
My body and I are fighting again
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Serial killers stay home, avoid friends, and keep to themselves.
Me: OMG. Same.
Me: OMG. Same.
November 15, 2025 at 12:32 PM
Serial killers stay home, avoid friends, and keep to themselves.
Me: OMG. Same.
Me: OMG. Same.
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I think the reason autistic people struggle with unwritten social "rules" is that those "rules" are never universally applied.
Because they are not actually rules, they're more like standards that most people seem to align with. But not all... never all...
Because they are not actually rules, they're more like standards that most people seem to align with. But not all... never all...
November 15, 2025 at 12:23 AM
I think the reason autistic people struggle with unwritten social "rules" is that those "rules" are never universally applied.
Because they are not actually rules, they're more like standards that most people seem to align with. But not all... never all...
Because they are not actually rules, they're more like standards that most people seem to align with. But not all... never all...
Ghost without a haunt
Which best matches your mood?
1. bird in a storm
2. slowly sinking sailboat
3. ghost without a haunt
4. weird potato
1. bird in a storm
2. slowly sinking sailboat
3. ghost without a haunt
4. weird potato
November 15, 2025 at 12:47 AM
Ghost without a haunt
Im trying to stay safe in myself!
November 14, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Im trying to stay safe in myself!
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Survivors of gaslighting can get fixated on how we "know" what's true & what isn't. That reaction makes sense-- & one of the hardest things about recovery can be learning to handle ambiguity or situations where we can't "know" things for sure.
You're not "crazy." You'e injured.
You're not "crazy." You'e injured.
November 14, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Survivors of gaslighting can get fixated on how we "know" what's true & what isn't. That reaction makes sense-- & one of the hardest things about recovery can be learning to handle ambiguity or situations where we can't "know" things for sure.
You're not "crazy." You'e injured.
You're not "crazy." You'e injured.
Want you so back so badly! Its already been a month and a half since you crossed the rainbow bridge and my heart continues to ache for you. I love you Winkie woos! My beautiful beautiful girl.
i’m not ready to let go yet but i feel the moment creeping closer. you are my best friend, my dearest love. the thought of you leaving this world feels unbearable. yet in the midst of heartache, i hold the gift of being a mother to your daughter , a piece of you that remains forever. I love you T!
November 14, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Want you so back so badly! Its already been a month and a half since you crossed the rainbow bridge and my heart continues to ache for you. I love you Winkie woos! My beautiful beautiful girl.
@charlrwalker.bsky.social just letting u know your in thought! Hoping all is well! Love Holly.
November 14, 2025 at 4:57 PM
@charlrwalker.bsky.social just letting u know your in thought! Hoping all is well! Love Holly.
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Your afternoon weather:
- heavy brain fog incoming
- followed by a hailstorm of indecision
- expect scattered showers of wistfulness & existential dread
- 75% chance of heavy sighing and ennui will continue into tomorrow
- heavy brain fog incoming
- followed by a hailstorm of indecision
- expect scattered showers of wistfulness & existential dread
- 75% chance of heavy sighing and ennui will continue into tomorrow
November 13, 2025 at 7:38 PM
Your afternoon weather:
- heavy brain fog incoming
- followed by a hailstorm of indecision
- expect scattered showers of wistfulness & existential dread
- 75% chance of heavy sighing and ennui will continue into tomorrow
- heavy brain fog incoming
- followed by a hailstorm of indecision
- expect scattered showers of wistfulness & existential dread
- 75% chance of heavy sighing and ennui will continue into tomorrow
Im finding it hard to follow conversations or be long in depth. I’m so boring
November 13, 2025 at 6:47 PM
Im finding it hard to follow conversations or be long in depth. I’m so boring
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DBT: Your feelings are wrong.
CBT: Your thinking is wrong.
CBT: Your thinking is wrong.
November 13, 2025 at 6:32 PM
DBT: Your feelings are wrong.
CBT: Your thinking is wrong.
CBT: Your thinking is wrong.
Sometimes or most the heaviest of my thoughts , carry me deeply weary.
November 13, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Sometimes or most the heaviest of my thoughts , carry me deeply weary.
My total lovage over agegap queer relationships
November 13, 2025 at 12:13 AM
My total lovage over agegap queer relationships
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I swear, I also write books when I’m not babying my cat child.
Salem has taken to hanging out by my feet today.
Salem has taken to hanging out by my feet today.
November 12, 2025 at 9:53 PM
I swear, I also write books when I’m not babying my cat child.
Salem has taken to hanging out by my feet today.
Salem has taken to hanging out by my feet today.
I mean I won’t say no!
November 12, 2025 at 9:34 PM
I mean I won’t say no!
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People are in denial about how quickly they could become disabled, unhoused or food insecure
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
November 12, 2025 at 8:12 AM
People are in denial about how quickly they could become disabled, unhoused or food insecure
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
A body that has tried to return to the earth before its time is a fragile thing. It needs tending like a blighted plant, with careful hands and gentle water. But so often, the professionals, the doctors, they come with shears and stern pronouncements.
November 12, 2025 at 9:05 PM
A body that has tried to return to the earth before its time is a fragile thing. It needs tending like a blighted plant, with careful hands and gentle water. But so often, the professionals, the doctors, they come with shears and stern pronouncements.
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Hi everyone. It’s Wednesday, #MadSkyChat day. We chat tonight at 8pm GMT for an hour.
All mad and/or Neurodivergent people welcome.
Just use the hashtag to join in in every response.
All mad and/or Neurodivergent people welcome.
Just use the hashtag to join in in every response.
November 12, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Hi everyone. It’s Wednesday, #MadSkyChat day. We chat tonight at 8pm GMT for an hour.
All mad and/or Neurodivergent people welcome.
Just use the hashtag to join in in every response.
All mad and/or Neurodivergent people welcome.
Just use the hashtag to join in in every response.
Not everyone gets a built-in cheer squad, a spare parachute, or a golden ticket , some of us weren’t handed a leg-up, a Plan B, or an open door to stroll through.
November 12, 2025 at 5:00 PM
Not everyone gets a built-in cheer squad, a spare parachute, or a golden ticket , some of us weren’t handed a leg-up, a Plan B, or an open door to stroll through.
Total ceramic validation came in post!
November 12, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Total ceramic validation came in post!
I keep surviving, but it is the timid survival of something that has learned to fold itself into the margins , an obstinate little breathing that changes nothing. Days go by like rooms I pass through without entering ,
November 12, 2025 at 1:31 PM
I keep surviving, but it is the timid survival of something that has learned to fold itself into the margins , an obstinate little breathing that changes nothing. Days go by like rooms I pass through without entering ,
NHS , They send you an appointment an hour away, as if distance were a mere footnote on a form, as if nobody in this city keeps time by bus schedules or by the slow arithmetic of saved coins , they seem never to account for the tired hands that cannot steer a car,
November 12, 2025 at 12:56 PM
NHS , They send you an appointment an hour away, as if distance were a mere footnote on a form, as if nobody in this city keeps time by bus schedules or by the slow arithmetic of saved coins , they seem never to account for the tired hands that cannot steer a car,