Butter Almond Bunny
@itsbumblebear.bsky.social
Baby of '95
🌞 Aquarius
🌚 Virgo
⬆️ Gemini
‼️Don't follow if you get mad at titties‼️
Solo poly ✨️ relationship anarchist ✨️ operate under the asexual umbrella ☂️ ✨️ rooting for everybody black✨️ unless you are any kind of -phobic, then kiss my ass 🫡
🌞 Aquarius
🌚 Virgo
⬆️ Gemini
‼️Don't follow if you get mad at titties‼️
Solo poly ✨️ relationship anarchist ✨️ operate under the asexual umbrella ☂️ ✨️ rooting for everybody black✨️ unless you are any kind of -phobic, then kiss my ass 🫡
Pinned
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When y’all ready to discuss “when your biggest hater is your mother” I’ll be here. ☝🏽
November 25, 2025 at 1:54 PM
When y’all ready to discuss “when your biggest hater is your mother” I’ll be here. ☝🏽
See my thing about this is...get both. If you think I may like something more than what I asked for, you're more than welcome to get that IN ADDITION to what I told you I wanted.
November 25, 2025 at 1:22 PM
See my thing about this is...get both. If you think I may like something more than what I asked for, you're more than welcome to get that IN ADDITION to what I told you I wanted.
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Let's talk about the people who literally ask you what you want and then get something else because they *thought* you would like it more 😭😭😭😭 I remember pretending to be grateful to my ex-bff when she did this and I was actually sooo sad
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
November 25, 2025 at 1:09 PM
Let's talk about the people who literally ask you what you want and then get something else because they *thought* you would like it more 😭😭😭😭 I remember pretending to be grateful to my ex-bff when she did this and I was actually sooo sad
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It's an entire manipulation technique.
My (ex)husband bought his side chick an edible arrangement and told her I cursed him out the time he bought me one. I did not curse him out, however, I wasn't grateful because it was full of melons and he knows I hate melons. He said it was the cheaper option
My (ex)husband bought his side chick an edible arrangement and told her I cursed him out the time he bought me one. I did not curse him out, however, I wasn't grateful because it was full of melons and he knows I hate melons. He said it was the cheaper option
Yes I would rather get nothing than some shit you put zero thought or effort into because I should "just be happy I got ✨️something✨️."
I'm convinced "it's the thought that counts" is what made people okay with settling.
I'm convinced "it's the thought that counts" is what made people okay with settling.
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
November 25, 2025 at 1:07 PM
It's an entire manipulation technique.
My (ex)husband bought his side chick an edible arrangement and told her I cursed him out the time he bought me one. I did not curse him out, however, I wasn't grateful because it was full of melons and he knows I hate melons. He said it was the cheaper option
My (ex)husband bought his side chick an edible arrangement and told her I cursed him out the time he bought me one. I did not curse him out, however, I wasn't grateful because it was full of melons and he knows I hate melons. He said it was the cheaper option
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yep, people weaponize "the thought that counts" to try and silence people with a legit grievance, just like with "forgiveness" and other concepts of giving grace and being grateful. it only applies *when appropriate* and people want it to be universal!
(imo mostly to absolve them of guilt!)
(imo mostly to absolve them of guilt!)
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
November 25, 2025 at 12:56 PM
yep, people weaponize "the thought that counts" to try and silence people with a legit grievance, just like with "forgiveness" and other concepts of giving grace and being grateful. it only applies *when appropriate* and people want it to be universal!
(imo mostly to absolve them of guilt!)
(imo mostly to absolve them of guilt!)
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Not about to guilt us for their lack of consideration!
November 25, 2025 at 12:53 PM
Not about to guilt us for their lack of consideration!
I had someone get me a coach bag. He'd never seen me use a purse a day in his life. Not only that, he KNEW I collect those little loungefly backpacks. He could've gotten me 4 of those for the price he paid for that bag that's buried somewhere in my closet cause I never used it 💀 your bad 🤷🏽♀️
This!!! I have an ex that got me a charger for Christmas the last Christmas we were together and I can’t think of a better sign that we were doomed than that
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
November 25, 2025 at 12:55 PM
I had someone get me a coach bag. He'd never seen me use a purse a day in his life. Not only that, he KNEW I collect those little loungefly backpacks. He could've gotten me 4 of those for the price he paid for that bag that's buried somewhere in my closet cause I never used it 💀 your bad 🤷🏽♀️
BINGO 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
“Be grateful they even spent money on you” well if spending money meant that much to them, they should’ve made it worthwhile.
November 25, 2025 at 12:38 PM
BINGO 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Yes I would rather get nothing than some shit you put zero thought or effort into because I should "just be happy I got ✨️something✨️."
I'm convinced "it's the thought that counts" is what made people okay with settling.
I'm convinced "it's the thought that counts" is what made people okay with settling.
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
November 25, 2025 at 12:33 PM
Yes I would rather get nothing than some shit you put zero thought or effort into because I should "just be happy I got ✨️something✨️."
I'm convinced "it's the thought that counts" is what made people okay with settling.
I'm convinced "it's the thought that counts" is what made people okay with settling.
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Whew! Say it again! Get folks what they actually want and not what you want them to have. Simple shit
November 25, 2025 at 12:30 PM
Whew! Say it again! Get folks what they actually want and not what you want them to have. Simple shit
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
November 25, 2025 at 12:28 PM
You do not have to be grateful for things you didn't want. "It's the thought that counts." If you were thinking, you wouldn't have got me some bullshit. Foh. Y'all want people to be appreciative after you showed a clear lack of consideration for them and you can 100% miss me with that 😒
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So basically, men are in trouble —- let’s give them more victims to torment.
November 24, 2025 at 7:16 PM
So basically, men are in trouble —- let’s give them more victims to torment.
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Every cishet male centric podcast in under 3 minutes.
November 24, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Every cishet male centric podcast in under 3 minutes.
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“You don’t have to be ready, you just have to take the first step.”
Being ready has nothing to do with timing. It will never feel like the right moment. You have to make it the right moment with a decision.
November 24, 2025 at 9:32 AM
“You don’t have to be ready, you just have to take the first step.”
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Best decision. I get to roll over into different zip codes undisturbed.
As a single person, would you get a KING sized bed? 🤔
November 24, 2025 at 5:33 AM
Best decision. I get to roll over into different zip codes undisturbed.
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Hell nah. Once you cross me, consider yourself dead to me.
Question for the skyline…. Have you ever recovered a friendship after trust was broken?
November 24, 2025 at 2:44 AM
Hell nah. Once you cross me, consider yourself dead to me.
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i very much live a “you’re dead to me” life style
Question for the skyline…. Have you ever recovered a friendship after trust was broken?
November 24, 2025 at 3:01 AM
i very much live a “you’re dead to me” life style
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New Derry tonight. 🤡🎈✨
November 23, 2025 at 1:13 PM
New Derry tonight. 🤡🎈✨
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I love micro-intimacy:
Interlocking pinkies
Footsies in bed
Gentle graze of the back as you walk by
Mindlessly tracing the shape of the ear
Parallel play
Interlocking pinkies
Footsies in bed
Gentle graze of the back as you walk by
Mindlessly tracing the shape of the ear
Parallel play
November 23, 2025 at 1:14 PM
I love micro-intimacy:
Interlocking pinkies
Footsies in bed
Gentle graze of the back as you walk by
Mindlessly tracing the shape of the ear
Parallel play
Interlocking pinkies
Footsies in bed
Gentle graze of the back as you walk by
Mindlessly tracing the shape of the ear
Parallel play
When I say no, it doesn't mean "Ask me later"
When I say no, it doesn't mean "Convince me to say yes"
When I say no, it's not a negotiation.
No means the end of the fuckin conversation
When I say no, it doesn't mean "Convince me to say yes"
When I say no, it's not a negotiation.
No means the end of the fuckin conversation
November 23, 2025 at 6:02 AM
When I say no, it doesn't mean "Ask me later"
When I say no, it doesn't mean "Convince me to say yes"
When I say no, it's not a negotiation.
No means the end of the fuckin conversation
When I say no, it doesn't mean "Convince me to say yes"
When I say no, it's not a negotiation.
No means the end of the fuckin conversation
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I absolutely love the way she explained this because sex is FAR more about the journey than the destination!
A lot of people fail and limit themselves because they are so focused on the destination and not completely into the person they are traveling with.
A lot of people fail and limit themselves because they are so focused on the destination and not completely into the person they are traveling with.
November 22, 2025 at 10:34 PM
I absolutely love the way she explained this because sex is FAR more about the journey than the destination!
A lot of people fail and limit themselves because they are so focused on the destination and not completely into the person they are traveling with.
A lot of people fail and limit themselves because they are so focused on the destination and not completely into the person they are traveling with.
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Are you talking about this?
November 22, 2025 at 11:07 PM
Are you talking about this?
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This is why I don’t care when people complain about oversharing. My transparency is what helps me find and build community, which helps me heal in various ways, helps me maintain my mental, and it’s actually something I get complimented on a lot.
I hate when people get on sm and tell others that they should get a journal…ok well first off, who’s to say that they don’t? Second, did you ever stop to think that maybe they’re looking for people with shared experiences?? Or maybe just someone to say “hey that sucks, but you made it through”?
November 22, 2025 at 11:36 PM
This is why I don’t care when people complain about oversharing. My transparency is what helps me find and build community, which helps me heal in various ways, helps me maintain my mental, and it’s actually something I get complimented on a lot.
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I would just stay down an act like I died. Can't speak ill of the dead, that's the law.
November 22, 2025 at 11:54 PM
I would just stay down an act like I died. Can't speak ill of the dead, that's the law.
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Libraries are SO important 🥹
November 22, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Libraries are SO important 🥹