frumious bandersnatch | your friendly neighborhood menace
@elvella.bsky.social
DLDR, SALS, YKINMKATO. current occupation: getting men pregnant.
https://archiveofourown.org/users/ElrondsScribe/works
https://archiveofourown.org/users/ElrondsScribe/works
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Porn and erotica are important and societally valuable forms of speech, and the defense of them, in the face of state and church attempts at repression, is a necessary political act.
January 4, 2026 at 6:58 PM
Porn and erotica are important and societally valuable forms of speech, and the defense of them, in the face of state and church attempts at repression, is a necessary political act.
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see lots of folks saying asking why they should even post art at a time like this and I just wanna say like, as a person who does read a lot of theory and psychology stuff - and who explicitly does UX (making ppl do stuff)
Making art is important - but not for the purposes that we typically think
Making art is important - but not for the purposes that we typically think
January 9, 2026 at 1:39 AM
see lots of folks saying asking why they should even post art at a time like this and I just wanna say like, as a person who does read a lot of theory and psychology stuff - and who explicitly does UX (making ppl do stuff)
Making art is important - but not for the purposes that we typically think
Making art is important - but not for the purposes that we typically think
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i think american life would improve significantly and quickly if society was more encouraging of people to have Hobbies. the most perfect and serene state of mind that exists is when one is Doing one's Little Things
January 6, 2026 at 5:50 PM
i think american life would improve significantly and quickly if society was more encouraging of people to have Hobbies. the most perfect and serene state of mind that exists is when one is Doing one's Little Things
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Unsolicited writing advice, no. 132678:
You don't need to write every day: you just need to keep your imagination alight. Feed it with books, with art, with films and theatre. That way it will always be ready when you need it.
You don't need to write every day: you just need to keep your imagination alight. Feed it with books, with art, with films and theatre. That way it will always be ready when you need it.
January 4, 2026 at 10:58 AM
Unsolicited writing advice, no. 132678:
You don't need to write every day: you just need to keep your imagination alight. Feed it with books, with art, with films and theatre. That way it will always be ready when you need it.
You don't need to write every day: you just need to keep your imagination alight. Feed it with books, with art, with films and theatre. That way it will always be ready when you need it.
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EVERYONE GET MORE INSANE ABOUT YOUR OWN OCS NEXT YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
December 29, 2025 at 6:18 PM
EVERYONE GET MORE INSANE ABOUT YOUR OWN OCS NEXT YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oop, must be a new Knives Out movie, my ‘hehe i ship marta x ransom’ posts are getting liked again on Tumblr 🤷🏾♀️
December 27, 2025 at 11:45 AM
Oop, must be a new Knives Out movie, my ‘hehe i ship marta x ransom’ posts are getting liked again on Tumblr 🤷🏾♀️
As much as Kubrick’s The Shining permeates pop culture, and as much as it’s been referenced and analyzed and talked about, I hadn’t actually watched it until today
I’m like halfway thru and I didn’t expect it to feel so dreamlike! And so relatively understated, at least to this point.
I’m like halfway thru and I didn’t expect it to feel so dreamlike! And so relatively understated, at least to this point.
December 14, 2025 at 12:45 AM
As much as Kubrick’s The Shining permeates pop culture, and as much as it’s been referenced and analyzed and talked about, I hadn’t actually watched it until today
I’m like halfway thru and I didn’t expect it to feel so dreamlike! And so relatively understated, at least to this point.
I’m like halfway thru and I didn’t expect it to feel so dreamlike! And so relatively understated, at least to this point.
someone help me. i can’t stop gnawing on wen/zhao zhuliu like a chew toy. pls help
December 12, 2025 at 4:33 PM
someone help me. i can’t stop gnawing on wen/zhao zhuliu like a chew toy. pls help
geez why do all the ‘no one should need to justify what they’re into’ ppl always make exceptions for femdom m/f people? why does everyone always come for us so hard?what’d we ever do to y’all??
December 11, 2025 at 8:43 PM
geez why do all the ‘no one should need to justify what they’re into’ ppl always make exceptions for femdom m/f people? why does everyone always come for us so hard?what’d we ever do to y’all??
“look at me go, i’m subverting the genre of fantasy, my young protagonist has his life complicated rather than simplified by the existence of magic!” meanwhile that’s been a genre staple for like 75 years
"i find the tropes and conditions of this genre inherently boring or obnoxious" subversion is also prone to falling victim to thinking it's doing something unique when it is making the worse version of subversive art made, more thoughtfully, decades ago.
December 9, 2025 at 12:30 AM
“look at me go, i’m subverting the genre of fantasy, my young protagonist has his life complicated rather than simplified by the existence of magic!” meanwhile that’s been a genre staple for like 75 years
Am I going to make my deadline? Hell no. Doesn’t mean I’m not writing like a maniac anyway!
when u set urself a deadline of Thanksgiving to get a draft to ur FTH beta but then Thanksgiving is suddenly a week and a half away
November 27, 2025 at 12:47 AM
Am I going to make my deadline? Hell no. Doesn’t mean I’m not writing like a maniac anyway!
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"the writer's barely-disguised fetish" WRONG, all my fetishes are out in the open and actively make what i write even better
November 22, 2025 at 2:57 AM
"the writer's barely-disguised fetish" WRONG, all my fetishes are out in the open and actively make what i write even better
Idk if I currently have a ‘career’ per se but I am privileged enough to have a job at the moment (one of an apparent minority of black women who still do, at least in the US!), and the reason I’m in my current job is … well
November 23, 2025 at 4:15 AM
Idk if I currently have a ‘career’ per se but I am privileged enough to have a job at the moment (one of an apparent minority of black women who still do, at least in the US!), and the reason I’m in my current job is … well
when u set urself a deadline of Thanksgiving to get a draft to ur FTH beta but then Thanksgiving is suddenly a week and a half away
November 17, 2025 at 3:27 AM
when u set urself a deadline of Thanksgiving to get a draft to ur FTH beta but then Thanksgiving is suddenly a week and a half away
Now adding “Da-jie” and sqealing
Typing “Mingjue-jie” in doc, giggling and kicking my feet
Writer Me @ my fth fic: magically forcefemmed NMJ??
Sensible Me: but the political ramifications. the social consequences.
Writer Me: ok but have we considered. Magically forcefemmed NMJ.
Sensible Me: but the political ramifications. the social consequences.
Writer Me: ok but have we considered. Magically forcefemmed NMJ.
November 14, 2025 at 4:15 PM
Now adding “Da-jie” and sqealing
I’m thinking, too, of Age of Scorpius and Audra Winter. She’s 22, which means she’s also of the age to have likely been taught to read via 3 cues.
I’m thinking of the way her narrative prose got words and phrases straight up wrong on the sentence level. Like “that’s not what that word means” wrong.
I’m thinking of the way her narrative prose got words and phrases straight up wrong on the sentence level. Like “that’s not what that word means” wrong.
November 12, 2025 at 5:11 PM
I’m thinking, too, of Age of Scorpius and Audra Winter. She’s 22, which means she’s also of the age to have likely been taught to read via 3 cues.
I’m thinking of the way her narrative prose got words and phrases straight up wrong on the sentence level. Like “that’s not what that word means” wrong.
I’m thinking of the way her narrative prose got words and phrases straight up wrong on the sentence level. Like “that’s not what that word means” wrong.
I’m 29, so I would’ve been in the wave of kids taught reading via 3 cues had I gone to school.
For all the things she did wrong, my mother (who, for context, homeschooled my sis and me) was a firm believer in 1) phonics as the way to teach reading, and 2) reading to/with us a lot as young children.
For all the things she did wrong, my mother (who, for context, homeschooled my sis and me) was a firm believer in 1) phonics as the way to teach reading, and 2) reading to/with us a lot as young children.
how did i go so long not knowing we were literally teaching people to read wrong. i knew something wasn't right but jesus christ www.apmreports.org/episode/2019...
How a flawed idea is teaching millions of kids to be poor readers
For decades, schools have taught children the strategies of struggling readers, using a theory about reading that cognitive scientists have repeatedly debunked. And many teachers and parents don't kno...
www.apmreports.org
November 12, 2025 at 3:45 PM
I’m 29, so I would’ve been in the wave of kids taught reading via 3 cues had I gone to school.
For all the things she did wrong, my mother (who, for context, homeschooled my sis and me) was a firm believer in 1) phonics as the way to teach reading, and 2) reading to/with us a lot as young children.
For all the things she did wrong, my mother (who, for context, homeschooled my sis and me) was a firm believer in 1) phonics as the way to teach reading, and 2) reading to/with us a lot as young children.
Typing “Mingjue-jie” in doc, giggling and kicking my feet
Writer Me @ my fth fic: magically forcefemmed NMJ??
Sensible Me: but the political ramifications. the social consequences.
Writer Me: ok but have we considered. Magically forcefemmed NMJ.
Sensible Me: but the political ramifications. the social consequences.
Writer Me: ok but have we considered. Magically forcefemmed NMJ.
November 6, 2025 at 2:21 PM
Typing “Mingjue-jie” in doc, giggling and kicking my feet
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I am very serious when I say I truly do love and care about erotic art as a form of exploration and celebration. It’s so important, especially in these times where there’s so much vitriol about adult content. S/o to other adult artists, adult performers, writers, all yall!
November 5, 2025 at 6:47 PM
I am very serious when I say I truly do love and care about erotic art as a form of exploration and celebration. It’s so important, especially in these times where there’s so much vitriol about adult content. S/o to other adult artists, adult performers, writers, all yall!
and if I decide that eroticized telepathy/hivemind/psychic bond fanfic is going to become one if my recurring fixations, what then? what then, huh??
November 6, 2025 at 1:41 PM
and if I decide that eroticized telepathy/hivemind/psychic bond fanfic is going to become one if my recurring fixations, what then? what then, huh??
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If you ever question if your fanfic is too self indulgent please remember that’s actually the point of fanfiction
November 6, 2025 at 2:56 AM
If you ever question if your fanfic is too self indulgent please remember that’s actually the point of fanfiction
me: love lan qiren. justice for shufu. good things for shufu.
also me, drafting my fth fic and getting ready to inflict Major Emotional Pain on lan qiren:
also me, drafting my fth fic and getting ready to inflict Major Emotional Pain on lan qiren:
elmo from sesame street is standing in front of a fire
Alt: elmo from sesame street standing in front of a fire with a concerningly gleeful expression
media.tenor.com
October 20, 2025 at 8:33 PM
me: love lan qiren. justice for shufu. good things for shufu.
also me, drafting my fth fic and getting ready to inflict Major Emotional Pain on lan qiren:
also me, drafting my fth fic and getting ready to inflict Major Emotional Pain on lan qiren:
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'A NSFW ban won't negatively affect me, I don't draw or post porn!'
You sure? Here's how it went down when tumblr did it:
You sure? Here's how it went down when tumblr did it:
August 22, 2025 at 11:36 PM
'A NSFW ban won't negatively affect me, I don't draw or post porn!'
You sure? Here's how it went down when tumblr did it:
You sure? Here's how it went down when tumblr did it:
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A comic about CNC kink I've been thinking about for a few years, and I finally decided to sit down and make it.
![Consensual Non-Consent In Real Life
A 3 panel comic
Panel 1: Kink Negotiation
Blushing Person: I was thinking maybe we could try out some CNC play...
Person #2: Yeah, we can totally try that out, sweetie! We should plan out what we're willing to do!
Panel 2: "The Scene"
Person #2: The sex pollen.... it's... taking over. I... I can't...Hnngg....
Blushing Person: Noo! Please, you have to snap out of it!
Panel 3: Aftercare
Blushing Person: Thanks so much, that was fun. Let's do it again sometime.
[end of comic]
"The Scene" is the fantasy within a CNC framework.
Some fictional works tell a story depicting two (or more) characters following the process of doing CNC kink, just as they would in real life: Consent discussion, Kink negotiation, “The Scene", and Aftercare.
[image of a blushing person reading the above comic]
Some fictional works focus on “The Scene only. A framing device is not required, as the fantasy is contained fully within the story. This lets the reader engage in the kink the same way as if they were engaging in “The Scene" portion of the CNC play.
[image of a blushing person reading only “The Scene” panel from the above comic]
CNC play, and both sorts of fiction are normal and healthy!](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:e6upvlddlsc3tvmgdci5nmop/bafkreidwbark7hackmvu3yqr5hmyhqhbn6y7dnjxq444naoypfg3qmhei4@jpeg)
May 8, 2025 at 12:46 AM
A comic about CNC kink I've been thinking about for a few years, and I finally decided to sit down and make it.
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rape kink is also fine if you fantasize about being the perpetrator btw. if being a victim in your fantasies is fine, so is being a predator.
September 20, 2025 at 5:35 PM
rape kink is also fine if you fantasize about being the perpetrator btw. if being a victim in your fantasies is fine, so is being a predator.