Spj
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SPJ | Rapper, writer, and cohost of Black Culture Geekz (BCGz). Sharing humor and insights on music, movies, and social issues. Part of MultiWorld Entertainment
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Hold my hand
Take a DEEP breath
Sometimes… *and very often* but I’ll let you process SOMETIME for now
The best song on the album IS the Single… and that’s ok! That’s ok babes I promise that’s ok to admit!
It’s ok!
There actually used to be TEAMS of professionals that picked singles
Take a DEEP breath
Sometimes… *and very often* but I’ll let you process SOMETIME for now
The best song on the album IS the Single… and that’s ok! That’s ok babes I promise that’s ok to admit!
It’s ok!
There actually used to be TEAMS of professionals that picked singles
September 23, 2025 at 8:46 PM
Hold my hand
Take a DEEP breath
Sometimes… *and very often* but I’ll let you process SOMETIME for now
The best song on the album IS the Single… and that’s ok! That’s ok babes I promise that’s ok to admit!
It’s ok!
There actually used to be TEAMS of professionals that picked singles
Take a DEEP breath
Sometimes… *and very often* but I’ll let you process SOMETIME for now
The best song on the album IS the Single… and that’s ok! That’s ok babes I promise that’s ok to admit!
It’s ok!
There actually used to be TEAMS of professionals that picked singles
Sooo disappointed with how that was handled last night from both sides.
September 23, 2025 at 10:46 AM
Sooo disappointed with how that was handled last night from both sides.
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I’ll never understand the “Mean Girl (gender exclusive)” mentality on social media. For that reason, I find it better to mute/block and move on.
At the first instance I see of it, I block.
At the first instance I see of it, I block.
September 23, 2025 at 5:38 AM
I’ll never understand the “Mean Girl (gender exclusive)” mentality on social media. For that reason, I find it better to mute/block and move on.
At the first instance I see of it, I block.
At the first instance I see of it, I block.
Allyship is only as strong as the person's ability to fully comprehend their privilege. Therefore, it's not a thing to achieve, more like a goal that must constantly be striven for.
Ohhhhh wow! I'm so glad he said this because it really brings my point about white allies to the forefront. There is always a point with them.
I saw *every single post* in real time. Including this horse shit.
September 20, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Allyship is only as strong as the person's ability to fully comprehend their privilege. Therefore, it's not a thing to achieve, more like a goal that must constantly be striven for.
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Apologize to her, not me.
September 20, 2025 at 7:29 PM
Apologize to her, not me.
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Hey you deleted but we saw it. For you to jump to immediate hate rather than actually sit with what she's trying to say is telling.
There's DEFINITELY a bitch in this conversation. And it's not her. Have the day you deserve.
There's DEFINITELY a bitch in this conversation. And it's not her. Have the day you deserve.
September 20, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Hey you deleted but we saw it. For you to jump to immediate hate rather than actually sit with what she's trying to say is telling.
There's DEFINITELY a bitch in this conversation. And it's not her. Have the day you deserve.
There's DEFINITELY a bitch in this conversation. And it's not her. Have the day you deserve.
Your issue is trying to prove you're not a racist. Do the work, shut up about the fact that you're doing the work except to others you feel need to do more work. Heads up, black women don't fit in that category...
If I was truly racist why would I care about your opinion of me. Why try so hard to show the truth of my support for everyone’s rights. I’m not sure exactly what to do but I’m trying everything I can.
September 20, 2025 at 7:52 PM
Your issue is trying to prove you're not a racist. Do the work, shut up about the fact that you're doing the work except to others you feel need to do more work. Heads up, black women don't fit in that category...
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Just a heads up: you do not get to be the one to call yourself an ally. The people in the community call you one. Your recent actions do not show you as being able to be safely considered an ally.
September 20, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Just a heads up: you do not get to be the one to call yourself an ally. The people in the community call you one. Your recent actions do not show you as being able to be safely considered an ally.
Except, you literally flinched. Her argument was more could always be done and that if enough was being done, we wouldn't be in this position. And because you went back to the conversation with a selfish lens, your compassion went out the window and you called this black woman out of her name.
Someone did not read the whole exchange or you wouldn't be cheering this on. I am an unflinching ally to all minorities and marginalized people. So, I'm going to shut up now but you guys really shouldn't feel good about the way I was treated while trying to show support! Yes I'm sad, make fun...
September 20, 2025 at 7:50 PM
Except, you literally flinched. Her argument was more could always be done and that if enough was being done, we wouldn't be in this position. And because you went back to the conversation with a selfish lens, your compassion went out the window and you called this black woman out of her name.
The funniest thing about being subbed on social media is the narrative sway that others who know nothing about the situation push the poster into. Stop assuming, people!
#blacksky
#blacksky
September 10, 2025 at 8:19 PM
The funniest thing about being subbed on social media is the narrative sway that others who know nothing about the situation push the poster into. Stop assuming, people!
#blacksky
#blacksky
This!
That person who "keeps
coming back" isn't a sign of anything other than you
need to find the block button. Why wouldn't someone keep coming back if they knew their access to you is never in jeopardy based on how many times you've allowed the inconsistency thus far?
coming back" isn't a sign of anything other than you
need to find the block button. Why wouldn't someone keep coming back if they knew their access to you is never in jeopardy based on how many times you've allowed the inconsistency thus far?
September 10, 2025 at 2:46 PM
This!
Good morning y'all 🌞
September 10, 2025 at 10:43 AM
Good morning y'all 🌞
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Life is weird. You can go from being strangers, to being friends, to being more than friends, to being practically strangers again.
September 10, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Life is weird. You can go from being strangers, to being friends, to being more than friends, to being practically strangers again.
Understanding it. People think it's a spectrum and that different kinds of love replace each other. It's more like a bucket with several different compartments.
19. What is the hardest thing about love?
September 9, 2025 at 1:38 PM
Understanding it. People think it's a spectrum and that different kinds of love replace each other. It's more like a bucket with several different compartments.
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There are actually too many weirdos on here lol and the fact that we can't make our accts private at the very least bugs me
September 6, 2025 at 4:46 PM
There are actually too many weirdos on here lol and the fact that we can't make our accts private at the very least bugs me
Soooo.... Y'all just gonna make this a daily thing?
September 6, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Soooo.... Y'all just gonna make this a daily thing?
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I actually prefer when people show their true colors. Saves alot of time.
September 5, 2025 at 10:36 PM
I actually prefer when people show their true colors. Saves alot of time.
That's what he gets for not reading the room and trying to run a "thought experiment". The other nigga didn't care enough to really attempt to defend himself, of course he didn't speak up for dude.
Buddy was fairly popular on here and well liked by a lot of the Blacksky ladies. He enjoyed a level of access and camaraderie a lot of men on here dream of. One thread and all that was burned away in a day. Crucified on someone else's cross. Meanwhile, did the person he defended speak up for him?
September 5, 2025 at 10:29 PM
That's what he gets for not reading the room and trying to run a "thought experiment". The other nigga didn't care enough to really attempt to defend himself, of course he didn't speak up for dude.
This is an insane take. Yikes.
I think it's crazy to judge someone for private conversations that they're having with their mate.
Because talking shit is my love language and stupid, inappropriate jokes are always thrown between my husband and me.
And I wonder.... How would you feel if your private convos were analyzed publicly
Because talking shit is my love language and stupid, inappropriate jokes are always thrown between my husband and me.
And I wonder.... How would you feel if your private convos were analyzed publicly
September 5, 2025 at 2:46 PM
This is an insane take. Yikes.
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1. You're
2. Aren't
3. I'm an Ivy League educated international award-winning web designer who chairs a charity that's helped over 12,000 women and girls impacted by the American carceral system. That's pretty special imo.
I'm only a sexist fuck as a hobby.
2. Aren't
3. I'm an Ivy League educated international award-winning web designer who chairs a charity that's helped over 12,000 women and girls impacted by the American carceral system. That's pretty special imo.
I'm only a sexist fuck as a hobby.
well your a sexist fuck arnt you, what exactly have you achieved to make you special
September 5, 2025 at 11:43 AM
1. You're
2. Aren't
3. I'm an Ivy League educated international award-winning web designer who chairs a charity that's helped over 12,000 women and girls impacted by the American carceral system. That's pretty special imo.
I'm only a sexist fuck as a hobby.
2. Aren't
3. I'm an Ivy League educated international award-winning web designer who chairs a charity that's helped over 12,000 women and girls impacted by the American carceral system. That's pretty special imo.
I'm only a sexist fuck as a hobby.
Yep
Pro-tip from a 20-year social media vet:
Never defend men publicly on the internet. Not even the ones you know, but ESPECIALLY the ones you don't know. Men will embarrass you.
And yes, I am speaking to the fellas, too. Let that brother sink on his own before he take you with him.
Never defend men publicly on the internet. Not even the ones you know, but ESPECIALLY the ones you don't know. Men will embarrass you.
And yes, I am speaking to the fellas, too. Let that brother sink on his own before he take you with him.
September 5, 2025 at 12:42 PM
Yep
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Time is a finite resource. I am not kind about having mine wasted.
September 4, 2025 at 8:22 PM
Time is a finite resource. I am not kind about having mine wasted.