Pebble Autism
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A friendly and accessible autism assessment and identification service for all ages. Helping you find joy in your uniqueness www.pebbleautism.co.uk
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Chris and Sue are the humans behind Pebble Autism. We like to keep things small and friendly. If you’d like to know more about what we do please check out our website www.pebbleautism.co.uk or email us at [email protected]
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This thread is well worth a read. In it are some really good examples of why we need to be looking at the autistic experience from the inside-out and not just looking at observable behaviours.
sensorystories.bsky.social
Rigid thinking is not a universal autistic trait. In fact, some autistic people are more cognitively flexible than most nonautistic people.

So why is cognitive rigidity mentioned in the autism section of the DSM?

Here's my take...
pebbleautism.bsky.social
Tree hugging AND Chris Packham klaxon 📣
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Tomorrow night at 9pm on #Channel4 I join Xander Armstrong for #PerfectPubWalks , tune in for a bit of ancient history and a spot of tree-hugging . . .
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autisticventing.bsky.social
It's not difficult to recognise autism in girls. You just need to pay attention!

Decades of suffering could be prevented if allistics stopped ignoring female autism.
11 signs of autism in girls.

Relies heavily on other children to guide and speak for her. Passionate restricted and specific interests. Unusual sensitivity to sensory challenges. Conversation is restricted to limited topics of interest. Difficulty moderating feelings when frustrated. Unusual depression, anxiety and moodiness. Difficulty making and keeping friends. Often described as quiet or shy. Unusual passivity. Difficulty with social communication increases with age. Epileptic seizures.
pebbleautism.bsky.social
You know that feeling when you read an interview and think, ‘I’d love to sit and talk and listen with that person for hours’? Well, when can we buy you a coffee AJ Link?!

Fascinating stuff here about tensions and racism in the neurodiversity community and space law 🚀 🪐 👩‍⚖️ 🤯
thinkingautism.com
“As a neurodiversity advocate and as an autistic person, I’m really grateful for so much of the work that’s been done that allows me to be myself and to be successful being myself.” Link, who has been *banned*!?!? from this platform?

thinkingautismguide.com/2025/06/spac... #AutisticWhileBlack
Space Law, Race, and Neurodiversity: Autistic Advocate AJ Link
We live in a country & society that is built on racism. The neurodivergent community isn't free of that racism—per Autistic advocate AJ Link.
thinkingautismguide.com
pebbleautism.bsky.social
Be kind, always
sedsconnective.org
“Why did that hurt so much?”
Others might say you’re overreacting.
But they don’t see the storm inside.

www.sedsconnective.org/post/rejecti...
pebbleautism.bsky.social
Being autistic doesn’t have a ‘look’. Because of a lifetime of masking (an unconscious survival strategy), some people may not ‘appear autistic’ whatever that means! It’s impossible to understand the autistic experience from the outside, in fact, many people even miss it in themselves.
neuro-observant.bsky.social
I wish I didn’t have to say this but…

If someone tells you they’re autistic and you find that hard to believe, it might be because:

- They don’t feel safe enough to unmask around you
- Your knowledge of autism is limited

Arguing won’t help. Kindness, curiosity, and listening to understand, will ❤️
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Created by Laura Hellfeld to support PANS/PANDAS Conference 2025 our new templates help families, schools & clinicians understand the overlap between neurodivergence & PANS/PANDAS.

https://autisticrealms.com/navigating-pans-pandas-neurodivergence/?utm_source=bluesky&utm_medium=jetpack_social
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A great set of suggestions
thinkingautism.com
I feel so awful for parents of newly diagnosed autistic kids right now, being drowned in such hateful nonsense. You deserve better. Your autistic kid deserves better.

My kid was diagnosed 20 yrs ago; please let me give you hopeful advice:

thinkingautismguide.com/2025/09/afte... #autism #parenting
After an Autism Diagnosis: 13 Necessary Next Steps For Parents — THINKING PERSON'S GUIDE TO AUTISM
If your child has recently been given an autism diagnosis, as my son was in 2003, here's what I want you to know: Learn from me, don't be me.
thinkingautismguide.com
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neuro-observant.bsky.social
Autistic inertia = difficulty with starting, stopping and switching tasks

It can happen even when:

- you want to do the task
- the task is important or urgent
- you have a clear understanding of what needs to be done
- it’s something as “simple” as getting out of bed or the shower
pebbleautism.bsky.social
“True neuro-affirmative practice and care is not a technique or a trend; it is a relational ethic. It begins in the quiet shift that happens when we stop trying to make people fit systems and instead reshape systems to fit people.”

@autisticrealms.bsky.social
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It’s causing someone here at Pebble Towers to wonder why, as an A level English student they ‘failed’ the college’s basic literacy test. It’s likely they were using language in a neuroqueer way that wasn’t appreciated by the ‘desk-Johnny’ tasked with marking it 🤔
pebbleautism.bsky.social
We consider ourselves neuro-affirming practitioners but we recognise that this requires constant work to unlearn the medical-model conditioning from our training and past employers & a high level of reflection to stay aware of our biases & internalised ableism. Thank you @kieranrose.bsky.social
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“It is precisely because of this richness that the Neurodiversity Paradigm has become such a vital framework: it refuses reductionism in any direction, whether biological or environmental.”

We refuse reductionism in any direction.

We like the sound of that.

theautisticadvocate.com/the-danger-o...
The Danger of Misunderstanding Neuro-Affirming Practice - The Autistic Advocate
In this balanced and reflective article Kieran Rose discusses the dangers of misunderstanding neuro-affirming practice.
theautisticadvocate.com
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Highly, highly recommended
autisticgirlsnet.bsky.social
Join us to discover practical ways to co-regulate with your young person in those tricky moments, helping them feel safe, supported, and understood. Together, we’ll explore how small shifts can bring more calm, connection, and confidence to your whole family. Book - https://bit.ly/AGNFWCE
Autistic Girls Network Family Workshops - Co-regulating Emotions. 30th September | Online | 7pm-8pm.
pebbleautism.bsky.social
(Not only saying this because I sleep with a hare soft toy!)
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Diving into it this evening
pebbleautism.bsky.social
It is also often the more emotionally ‘grown’ and self-aware who recognise they need these things, so in some ways this kind of regulation is more adult that a lot of the crutches that many people use, unconsciously, to regulate
pebbleautism.bsky.social
Great work here from @petewharmby.com

If they think things are bad now…wait till they find out how many of us there REALLY are! #autism #tylenol
pebbleautism.bsky.social
This can feel a very vulnerable thing to do but sometimes a decision is made not to go for a job because of fear of the interview. Disclosing to a potential employer allows you to talk about strengths from being autistic and raise the opportunity for adjustments like seeing questions in advance
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thrivingautistic.bsky.social
As a newly identified Autistic adult what are you most curious about most from this list and what would feel most meaningful for you?

Please share your thoughts below to help inform the theme for our next animation film!
thrivingautistic.bsky.social
✨ Newly or self-identified Autistic? ✨
Exploring your Autistic identity can raise big questions & it can be hard to know where to start!
Which areas matter most to you right now, you may have other ideas too ?
Pease share your thoughts.
A dark blue and gold graphic with the heading: “Exploring your Autistic Identity”. Beneath it reads: “Which areas are you most curious to explore?” The list includes:

Sensory Needs & Self-care

Masking

Telling People (Disclosure)

Internalised Ableism

Imposter Phenomenon

Intersectionality

Monotropism

Relationships

Self-advocacy

Burnout
At the bottom right is the Thriving Autistic logo with a gold infinity symbol. Gold ribbon designs decorate the corners.