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leonscafe.bsky.social
Those around perfectionists often don’t know how to respond to self-loathing, offering a significant amount of sympathy and comfort. Partners and friends who personalize fail to realize that they can’t solely be responsible for changing anyone else’s mind. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/perf...
Learning to Quiet the Perfectionistic Inner Critic
Partners and friends of perfectionists often attempt to convince them they're lovable, failing to recognize the perfectionist's responsibility to challenge their inner critic.
www.psychologytoday.com
January 23, 2026 at 1:20 AM
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January 23, 2026 at 12:16 AM
lumenbell.bsky.social
weirdly as i got older i never got into self harm. i think by that point i didn't want people to notice the pain i was in or comfort me about it as much as i just wanted to be ignored and quietly disappear, so it always seemed pointless. it would be nice to be given a blue card just for being sad.
January 22, 2026 at 10:44 PM
valorievandieman.bsky.social
Drawing off that confidence and emotional range, as well as the increased comfort in my appearance, I've also found myself able to truly engage with things like kink and polyamory. Things that I was never able to do healthily before as a result of the previous lack of self confidence.
January 22, 2026 at 10:40 PM
pinkysweets.bsky.social
when it comes to those types of things im genuinely not trying to romanticize any bad behavior. i find comfort in yandere/possessive tropes when it comes to fictional characters for comfort due to my own issues regarding self worth and feeling undesirable. i mean the general consesns between us+
January 22, 2026 at 10:06 PM
completedthesis161.bsky.social
A message to local self described ndp education advocates that won't be read

(not politicians, the organizers asking for support)
Don’t let false allies dupe you into believing they will stand up for your rights. The local NDP has alienated anyone pushing real transformation, choosing instead to drift rightward while pretending this is equity. It’s disgusting. It’s pathetic. I asked you to advocate for my child’s education space, for their friends, and for the caregivers who keep those spaces safe. You couldn’t do it. You can’t name a politician other than Doug Ford because you are soft, risk-averse, and unwilling to confront power where it operates. This is the same failure that triggered my earlier break with so-called allies: I asked you to step up. You didn’t. A vulnerable queer person of colour volunteered. That fact is an essential part of this story. It exposes the failure of progressive allies to call harm out by name and the way you isolate those who do because it disrupts your comfort. This is one of the most insidious forms of false allyship in our region. People have been harmed in this space. I did not forget.
January 22, 2026 at 10:02 PM
gregk.co.uk
I follow a few accounts on Instagram that post clips from live performances by different bands, many of which are now increasingly accompanied by the most turgid AI-generated captions possible, and I can’t think of a more poetic and depressing way to convey the chasm between AI and human creativity.
thelegendsofmusictv and thelegendsofmusic Follow House Party When Primus released My Name Is Mud as the first single from Pork Soda, they weren't chasing radio. They were staking a claim in a year where hip-hop, grunge, and metal were colliding and everyone else was busy choosing uniforms. Primus didn't fit a lane and in 1993, that wasn't a liability. It was leverage. The result wasn't minimal. Pork Soda sold a million copies and pushed Primus into the position of playing Lollapalooza, which was a festival built to celebrate the strange. However, to understand how this success took place you first need to understand what's special about this track. Les Claypool didn't write about Mud to entertain you. He wrote him to trap you. Mud is a tweeker a meth-soaked, petty, aggrieved who kills a man with a baseball bat over nothing worth remembering. Not ideology. Not passion. Nothing. Claypool said as much. The influence wasn't fantasy; it came from the movie River's Edge (1986) Musically, the song refuses comfort. The bass doesn't support the track; it dominates it, looping and nagging like a thought you can't shake. The groove goes nowhere on purpose. The rhythm pins you in place. Claypool's voice sits too close, narrating self-pity in real time, convincing himself he's been wronged as the damage stacks up. There's no arc because there isn't one. This is how rot works. That's why My Name Is Mud became a setlist staple. Not because it's funny because it's recognizable. You've met this guy. You've heard this logic. Small grievances, chemical bravado, violence that feels justified because the world felt disrespectful for five minutes.
January 22, 2026 at 8:28 PM
mofu.run
I'm way too self conscious for that, but thank you for trying to push me out of my comfort zone bsky
Sof tries to answer a random skeet written in spanish, but with the current language set to english, and bsky instantly warns you about it and asks you if you shouldn't be replying in spanish, which is actually an hilarious way of asking if you want to switch your language, and I'm totally up for it Also, honestly, incredible feature too, nowadays it's a breath of fresh air seeing tech that actually respects bilingual users instead of trying to erase them like a certain company with balls does
January 22, 2026 at 8:06 PM
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January 22, 2026 at 8:00 PM
aerinmoriarty.bsky.social
One reason I self-closeted so long is because on some level I was aware once Lesdora’s Box was over that it would change absolutely everything in my life… and it did. It radically recentered my priorities AWAY from men & their comfort; an everpresent priority my whole adult life even when single.
polytaylorswift.bsky.social Polyam 𝕋𝕊wift❤️‍🔥 @polytaylorswift.bsky.social · 8h
Being queer is so much more than who you sleep with bc Glennon Doyle pre-realizing she was a lesbian vs post -- her whole worldview shifted.
January 22, 2026 at 7:26 PM
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January 22, 2026 at 6:30 PM
mugrebeener.bsky.social
With the extreme weather coming, this poem gives me comfort
Self-Pity I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself. D.H. Lawrence
January 22, 2026 at 6:03 PM
psalmsofchar.bsky.social
Random calls, handwritten notes, gifts, flowers, cuddles and comfort, showing me that inner self
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14. What expressions of love do you appreciate?
January 22, 2026 at 4:52 PM
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Bluesky's Top 10 Trending Words (past 60min):
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January 22, 2026 at 4:03 PM
robmajteles.bsky.social
The awful state of the American auto industry comes from a toxic brew of whining, cowardly failure, self-entitled ‘comfort’ with losing, and regulatory capture — including counting on the next wave of bailouts when the next wave of failures hit.

prospect.org/2026/01/20/h...
How Trump Doomed the American Auto Industry - The American Prospect
Ford and GM made a big bet on electrification. Then Trump plunged a knife into their backs.
prospect.org
January 22, 2026 at 1:56 PM
captaincaramel117.bsky.social
Joining my friend, Jes, in posting comfort characters daily.

Today's comfort character: Micheal J. Caboose, from Red vs Blue.

CC Type: self-ship.
January 22, 2026 at 1:44 PM
madamgeoffrin.bsky.social
His support among self-identified Republicans remains way too high for comfort.
January 22, 2026 at 1:34 PM
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January 22, 2026 at 12:00 PM
crittycent.bsky.social
That flak is usually the result of inexperience, self doubt, and confusion.

If you want to participate in an exchange like that you have to accrue experience and conditioning to build positive associations with those raw feelings. Once you have established a baseline comfort zone, its much mucg
January 22, 2026 at 11:41 AM
executivedesign.bsky.social
Because many profiles on the job market trade business impact for the comfort of avoiding real stakeholder tension.

Because design leadership is sometimes centred on craft and (self) visibility, rather than on building the foundations of a great product.
January 22, 2026 at 10:54 AM
iamdevloper.bsky.social
It's astonishing how software continually evolves yet Ctrl + Alt + Del remains a universal stress relief for any tech mishap. Self-care 101: always find comfort in the constants.
January 22, 2026 at 10:00 AM
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January 22, 2026 at 8:30 AM