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27 he/him. i'm tmi and transgender and horny and annoying. THIS ACCOUNT IS NSFW icon is a commission of my oc yoali by https://pumpkinlass.tumblr.com header is by phyllis shafer https://www.phyllisshafer.com/
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making a new link to my gfm since the goal has decreased! we are currently just below 30% of the goal and once we hit the $1100 mark, my out-of-pocket surgery costs should be just about covered. thank you so much to everyone who's donated/shared so far <3 please keep spreading the word!
Donate to Support Sage During Top Surgery Recovery, organized by Sage H
Hi all, My name is Sage and I am a trans man living in the southern US. I am curre… Sage H needs your support for Support Sage During Top Surgery Recovery
gofund.me
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Assuming trans people's physiology based on our birth certificates is potentially unsafe
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More grace for a grown man getting a Nazi tattoo than Black kids in public spaces. It’s obscene.
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“The doctor overseeing Ofelia Torres’ care at Lurie Children’s Hospital wrote that her “ongoing complex medical care requires the support of both her parents during this very difficult time,” according to court documents.”

Cruelty knows no bounds
A Chicago High Schooler Had Just Returned From Chemotherapy. Then ICE Arrested Her Father
Ofelia Torres is being treated for Stage 4 cancer while her father faces sudden federal detention. An emergency motion has been filed arguing that her father's detention is unlawful and violates his c...
blockclubchicago.org
i'm like 99% sure my silksong playthrough is going so slowly because i am incapable of leaving a quick travel room without sufficiently petting her (hitting her with my nail until she stomps her feet happily)
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unfortunately I'm currently at risk of being homeless within about 2 weeks time. i have a few leads on housing, but nothing guaranteed. im currently looking to raise hopefully 1200 dollars in preparation of the worst. i don't expect all of it, but anything helps.

paypal.me/PotatoSoupLover
i've really been missing japanese but have been afraid to go practice it bc i didn't want to face how much i've probably lost but i put on a podcast and am actually following it a decent amount i'm so happy 😭 definitely rusty but not lost at all
having the specific type of crashout that only an autistic person who can't find their headphones can have
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my woke take is that entirely too many people feel entitled to the benefits of a social contract while not feeling bound by the responsibilities of said contract
i slacked on cleaning my cpap machine after surgery and finally gave it a full spa treatment on friday and today i didn't need a two hour nap for the first time in a week. unrelated i'm sure
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i will be doing a round of WE WANT YOU TO HAVE THIS which gives free jewelry gifts and glass art to trans people on OCTOBER 25TH at 9AM mountain (denver) time

bookmark this page and come back and sign up if you are trans and want something from me you can't afford nora.jewelry/pages/we-wan...
We Want You To Have This: Jewelry Gifts For Trans People
Requests for gifts are now closed! The next round will be on Saturday, October 25th at 9AM. If you submitted for the 10-8-25 round you will receive your gift card in your email by 10-9-25 afternoon. J...
nora.jewelry
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Give trans women money.
Do you have any extremely niche, but serious, ethical stances?
oh hell yeah
Plaza + @videodrome.bsky.social present an evening with John Malahy, author of Rewinding the ’80s: Cinema Under the Influence of Music Videos, Action Stars, and a Cold War.

Mon, November 3
6pm – Book signing
7pm – AIRPLANE! 35mm screening with an introduction by John

Tickets & more info in bio.
this wouldn't be a problem for a guy like me with a 5tb hard drive but i don't steal so i have no idea what it's like to torrent the entirety of er (1994) for 7 hours and still have it be at 25% progress
i went to the legal television show store to get the complete series for er and the legal television show store clerk told me that if i had been evil and torrented it instead it would've been 424gb of hard drive space
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and that doesn't change even if you tell yourself it's just how you treat yourself. it is an extension of your worldview and the people affected by that worldview will respond accordingly. true disability allyship means teaching yourself to fucking rest.
is that a little bit a me problem? sure, no doubt. but think about it through the lens of fatphobia: just like it's a dick move to insult your own size in front of a friend that's twice your weight, it's a dick move to say you're lazy for doing twice in a day what your friend is capable of.
i consider myself relatively able-bodied (putting aside that that in itself is a spectrum) but i struggle with fatigue and headaches esp pre-cpap. sometimes i need a Lot of sleep. and it's upsetting when others lambast themselves for "laziness" for like, napping.
if you constantly drive yourself this way you are accepting the idea that not doing so is a moral failing and that constant productivity is the only way to be deserving of respect or even life. perhaps not consciously, but that's the logical endpoint when you really interrogate it.
this isn't to suggest that people who do this are Bad People. i think it's hard to avoid under capitalism, and sadly sometimes it is necessary for survival--but that last point is important when considering there are people who can't, and that's why capitalism kills disabled people so much.
grinding yourself down to the dust and being resistant to breaks/rest/basic care of your body isn't just bad for your own sake but bc engaging in this shit all the time is indicative of deep internalized ableism and if you are able-bodied you have probably alienated a disabled person by doing it
Do you have any extremely niche, but serious, ethical stances?
i haven't had the heart to fully nuke my account so sometimes i go back there wondering if it's really as bad as i'm remembering and it always is
i'm getting some silicone gel but i don't mind my scars being noticeable and also my surgeon was very upfront with me that it's not worth dropping a bunch of cash on this. it's just wild to see the skincare industry plague of "if i buy five products i will defeat my genetics" manifest like this
seeing guys on these top surgery forums talking about how they're spending $100-$200 on scar care products...bro all my love but truly could not be me i already spend more on regular skincare than i want to 😭
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So, it's worth remembering *a lot* of just outright false bs about radicals spreads during times like this.

Case in point: I have seen far, far more condemnations of leftists and anarchists supposedly discouraging people from the rallies yesterday than I have any radicals actually doing so...