Occasionally, guys will ask me about how to make it easier for them to get laid. My answer is almost always the same: the way to make it easier to find people who are up for sex is to create a place where they can feel safe. I realize I get shit for leading with the idea of sex to improve society, but I believe in enlightened self-interest. Folks who may not do the right thing because it's the right thing will do the right thing when it's in their own interest. And the fact is that the culture we've created alienates women