voids bunny 🏳️‍⚧️
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Bodily autonomy, trans stuff, asexuality, neurodivergence, and other assorted interests. Queer, trans non-binary, agender, asexual, and autistic (any pronouns)
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If your gender is different from how you were assigned at birth, then you fall under the trans umbrella.

Whether you choose to use the term transgender to describe yourself is up to you.
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This. What’s more, if everyone masked in some places (grocery stores, medical facilities, transportation), that would open up worlds for those of us who have been shut out of society bc y’all like to cough on each other.
When we say “everyone should mask” we don’t actually expect people will. We know how selfish people are. But we say it because:

1) it’s factually true

2) if even a few people listen to us that’s a few more lives saved and, as the Talmud says, every life is a universe.
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Hey everybody look at this disgusting piece of trash human who wants disabled people to completely exit society and doesn’t understand how community care works.

“Don’t expect the world to take care of you” is a depraved way to exist in society.
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late dx autistic people didn’t get to grow up as ourselves, we grew up playing a masked version of ourselves to try and avoid humiliation and punishment.
and now, as adults we spend what feels like an eternity learning which parts of ourselves are truly us, and which parts we created for our safety
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Urgent need for trauma-informed care for Autistic adults:
• 72% experienced sexual or physical assault in research
• 44% met criteria for PTSD
• 93% reported high levels of mind-based dissociation
Trauma among autistic adults is widespread & under-recognised.
Read: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36605371/
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people are incredibly happy to misunderstand autistics. i am selectively mute and severely lacking on social graces, and the truth is if you lack social skills you can not get hired and people will just decide you're rude and stubborn. they dont even try to understand you or ask questions.
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I've never seen a single skill taught to an autistic kid by an ABA therapist that required ABA therapy to be learned. Not one.

I *have* seen many harms imposed upon autistic kids because ABA therapists considered autistic traits like sensory needs "behaviors," however.

#BetterWaysThanABA #autism
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If showing up in community today felt great, imagine how cool it would be to always be working on building new worlds & resisting fascism!

Wherever you are, there’s probably projects to plug into. If there isn’t, you can get together with some friends or even just by yourself & start doing things.
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So I’m in Jude Doyle’s new book but I now regret it for a host of reasons. For this thread I’m going to focus on how he positively cites Andrea Dworkin’s ideas in Intercourse & interviewed her husband John Stoltenberg who’s a SWERF/anti-porn feminist & an alleged abuser.
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The phrase "trans activist" is goofy because like 95% of the time it's used it refers to a trans person simply existing.

Media, pointing at a woman buying a coffee: behold, a trans activist.

Woman: buying coffee is not activism stop being so fucking weird

Media: trans activist criticizes media
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it's so fucked up for autistic people like myself that they made echolalia the most fun and echolaliable word ever
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Parents need to understand that autism is inborn, meaning that trying to “cure” autism will not help their autistic child one bit—though it will likely traumatize that child while warping their parents’ attitude towards them.

www.squidalicious.com/2024/06/my-c... #autism #parenting #neurodiversity
My Comment For the July 2024 IACC Meeting on Caregiving
Below is my comment as submitted for the July 2024 Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee meeting, which is centered on the topic of care...
www.squidalicious.com
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Did you know that asexuality is not covered by the UK's Equality Act 2010? If you look at how sexual orientation is defined, it does not include not being attracted to anyone as part of it.

We are amongst the least likely to be out at work, in education and in our personal lives.
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Aromantic, asexual, and aspec people know just how healing visibility is. Being told we're broken before we even have the chance to understand our experiences makes finding language and community so important in recognizing that our identities are a part of what makes us whole
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#AceWeek

Men's voices are often overlooked in this community. I write about my own experiences to show other men out there who are ace/demi or think they might be ace/demi, that they are not alone. They are not broken or weird for not feeling what the men around them seem to feel.

Society 1/2
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to kick off asexual awareness week, i'm here to remind you that your relationship with sex isn't conflicting or complicated, it's nuanced. it doesn't have to fit in a box. you are just you.

tag: asexual demisexual ace demi
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Today is the first day Asexual Awareness Week! We are still a misunderstood & underrepresented group with so much ignorance about us. There's still "we dont belong at Pride" rhetoric. Republicans have begun aiming their hate at us. I encourage everyone to educate themselves & acknowledge we exist!
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Happy ace week yall~ I never shut up about asexuality and how it is a big part of my life. I encourage you this week to learn more about asexuality, listen to your ace friends, and help aspec people feel included and cared for like any other part of the queer community. 🌈☂️💜
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It’s Asexual Awareness Week, and I have to point out that even people who aren’t actively hateful towards asexual people are absolutely clueless about the shit we get.

Conservatives HATE us. Because we take control of our sexual expression, we give their kids the impression they can.
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I’m thrilled to be named one of @out.com's 100 top queer people of 2025 (and to come in first in the Disrupters category!)

It is a huge honor to be recognized alongside so many brilliant and inspiring individuals who are shaping our world and advocating for greater inclusivity and diversity.
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if you are on the fence about starting estrogen if you are even the tiniest bit curious but havent made up your mind to start…

start

you can always stop if you dont like it

i told myself id try for a month and see how i felt

it will soon be 66 months since my first dose
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Anytime you ask “why did the Times cover it this way?” or whatever corporate media it is, remember that influential moderates are the tool of the wealth class and are there to normalize whatever the wealthy want and create doubt regarding reform and change.
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90 FUCKING PERCENT

i’d love for cis folks to remember what the nyt, atlantic, guardian, daily mail, times of london, ny post, cnn, wall street journal, & economist took from your transgender neighbors & loved ones before the next time you consider giving them money or listening to a word they say.
It’s almost like when you don’t have a rabidly trans-hostile media ecosystem, people generally support human rights.

lens.monash.edu/@politics-so...
Yeah, cool.

Ableist language doesn't help anyone.

You can debunk bad science without using language that is regularly thrown at autistic people and people with intellectual disabilities.

Try harder.
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I'm nonbinary but I can be a boy or a girl for the bit.

I'm not genderfluid or anything as far as I know, but I will adjust my gender if the funny requires it.