One theory I have is that competence, self-control, responsibility, and expertise have all been feminized, leaving “masculinity” with the realm of impulsivity and petulance. So the divide is not really between “femininity” and “masculinity” so much as between adulthood and childishness.
Everything else aside, the idea that this is a model for many men of *masculinity* is so wild. This? This is "manly"? This is how people think it's cool to act?
One theory I have is that competence, self-control, responsibility, and expertise have all been feminized, leaving “masculinity” with the realm of impulsivity and petulance. So the divide is not really between “femininity” and “masculinity” so much as between adulthood and childishness.
I really can't emphasize enough that if you care about local politics, all you gotta do is show up. Just a regular schmegular person showing up. Literally just show up consistently in person and within a remarkably short amount of time, you will have a shocking amount of influence.
December 5, 2025 at 6:07 AM
I really can't emphasize enough that if you care about local politics, all you gotta do is show up. Just a regular schmegular person showing up. Literally just show up consistently in person and within a remarkably short amount of time, you will have a shocking amount of influence.
Good news: New data suggest that Portland's inclusionary zoning program is finally working as intended, after being fully funded in 2024 www.sightline.org/2025/11/25/p...
Good news: New data suggest that Portland's inclusionary zoning program is finally working as intended, after being fully funded in 2024 www.sightline.org/2025/11/25/p...
After much deliberation and a grueling interview process, I’m pleased to announce that I’ve accepted a new job and will not need any financial support from my parents to cover the high costs of childcare going forward. #AmericanDream#ThisIsYourCity
November 18, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Inspiring! When faced with high housing and child care costs, this Millennial became mayor of a major US city to afford them
Bellingham City Council passes code around HB 1998 clearing the way for purpose built Co-Living in the city. Thanks @jessdbateman.bsky.social and @sharonshewmake.bsky.social. Parking requirements removed by 5-2 vote. Vote passes 7-0.
November 18, 2025 at 5:24 AM
Bellingham City Council passes code around HB 1998 clearing the way for purpose built Co-Living in the city. Thanks @jessdbateman.bsky.social and @sharonshewmake.bsky.social. Parking requirements removed by 5-2 vote. Vote passes 7-0.
Bellingham City Council votes 7-0 to extend and amend an interim ordinance on middle housing 6 months and allow 6 units/property by right within 1/2 mile of 15 min bus service. (Covers probably about 70% of population)
November 18, 2025 at 4:08 AM
Bellingham City Council votes 7-0 to extend and amend an interim ordinance on middle housing 6 months and allow 6 units/property by right within 1/2 mile of 15 min bus service. (Covers probably about 70% of population)
I totally understand that Jalen Hurts has haters about his play on the field (I don't agree but that's a different conversation) but absolutely no one was funnier than when he said he was busy when Trump invited him to the WH and the next day there were photos of him riding Tron at Disney
November 11, 2025 at 10:46 PM
I totally understand that Jalen Hurts has haters about his play on the field (I don't agree but that's a different conversation) but absolutely no one was funnier than when he said he was busy when Trump invited him to the WH and the next day there were photos of him riding Tron at Disney
To all my Bellinghamsters we do Happy Hour every other Tuesday at Structures Brewing on Holly St at 6pm. Next is this Tuesday the 28th. Would love to see you there!
October 24, 2025 at 4:31 AM
To all my Bellinghamsters we do Happy Hour every other Tuesday at Structures Brewing on Holly St at 6pm. Next is this Tuesday the 28th. Would love to see you there!
People somewhat reasonably assume that the rules governing our built environments are built on careful assessment of the best available science and rigorous analysis of tradeoffs but in reality it's like 85% vibes.
October 23, 2025 at 2:12 AM
People somewhat reasonably assume that the rules governing our built environments are built on careful assessment of the best available science and rigorous analysis of tradeoffs but in reality it's like 85% vibes.