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shelly [Big Bad Bæddel Borg]🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🐔
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small, angry, and useless in this headspace: usually shelly (she/her), dial T for Trace (they/him) smart enough to know she's a stupid bitch end capitalism free Palestine MDNI
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shelly's rules for thought

1) never trust a bitch with an answer for everything
2) know when to shut the fuck up, hold your tongue, etc.
3) when The Community lashes out at itself, whatever you want to call it, no matter how justified, nevertheless: everybody loses
4) it is inevitable though
I think I blocked that from my memory, yeah that was 😬
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many people seem confused about the definition of transmedicalism. "is taking hrt transmedicalism?" "is transmedicalism when i shit my pants?" "who is transmedicalism?" if you or a loved one is asking these questions, this new community resource may be able to help: transmedicalism.fyi
transmedicalism is the belief that transness is a medical condition, for which the diagnostic criteria is gender dysphoria, and for which the treatment is medical transition. by extension, transmedicalists believe that people without gender dysphoria are not transgender.
transmedicalism.fyi
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some of you girls have to stop inventing hierarchies so your insecurities can place you at the bottom of them
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i am very exhausted by disinformation about the cost of transition healthcare. it costs less than $100 for 1-2 years of hormones, depending on your exact sourcing. presenting HRT as impossibly expensive and inaccessible to people who need HRT but don't know how is equivalent to medical gatekeeping.
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my pussy is trans my penis is cis my butthole is the pope
literally, we hung out and chatted for years before most of the site was even here, I think we're just friends now
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i’m going as someone that’s mad at you for halloween
I meet up with like 40 trans women every Saturday for coffee, no sex or adjacent stuff, hell no flirting most of the time, just chatting and coffee

it's possible to make such spaces if enough people want em!
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call me a fuckin problematic tranny. but i like the poly slut t4t party vibes. does it suck that its harder to find and build community without being sexually open ? sure !! is this a uniquely transfem problem ? no !!! and right now in my life its exactly what i want and need
"trans social spaces are filled with the expectation of sex" oh you mean unlike straight social spaces ? as a completely different thing from the cishet social spaces that have no expectation of sex whatsoever, particularly from the women
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laser did this for my face too

wish I could do the follow up electro sooner, but at least I don't have a beard shadow