Jules Stark
@insidiouspie.bsky.social
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A Subtle Calamity. An easily distracted internet weirdo. @InsidiousPie from Twitter. linktr.ee/InsidiousPie
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insidiouspie.bsky.social
If you're new here, this is a thread full of my adoptee tweets. Some are about adoption generally and some are about either my adoptive or bio family (or a combination of the two). So feel free to scroll through and catch up on the hashtag Crucial Lore™️. 🥚
insidiouspie.bsky.social
I've got a feeling that a bunch of newbies just found Tony's feed/starter pack because I just gained a whole pile of new followers who all have something about adoption in their bios.

So, hi new friends! I talk about LOTS of things, not just the fact that I was bought from the catholic baby store!
notalegalrecord.net
I’ll repeat my standing invitation to #adoptees: add yourselves to my Adoptees of Bluesky feed. The only posts of yours that show up in the feed are those that include a few terms like #adoption #adoptee #adoptees #adopteevoices and 🥚 (because we’re supposed to have fallen from some stork’s cloaca)
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chrismurphyct.bsky.social
When Republicans are pre-butting a pro-democracy rally like No Kings and making shit up left and right to scare people, you know they're losing and in panic mode.

Pedal to the floor.
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chrismurphyct.bsky.social
They are building a Propaganda State.

They are cooking the books on job creation.

Now they are rigging death numbers so no one knows how many people die because of their attacks on vaccines and science.
sherylnyt.bsky.social
BREAKING: Friday night massacre underway at CDC. Doznes of "disease detectives," high-level scientists, entire Washington staff and editors of the MMWR (Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report) have all been RIFed and received the following notice:
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zohrankmamdani.bsky.social
UNTIL IT’S DONE, Ep. 4: Sylvia Rivera

In the 1970s, queer New Yorkers had been pushed to the margins of NYC. Our trans neighbors faced immense cruelty. But in Sylvia Rivera, they found a champion.

As we combat Trump’s politics of darkness, her legacy can light the path forward.
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blackwallmancer.bsky.social
Found this on the AO3 subreddit, and I'm about to let it change my whole life (or at least work really hard to internalize it wrt my writing).
Someone's screenshot of a two-post twitter thread, from user blue (@bluewmist):

the fastest way to kill motivation is to make your identity depend on the outcome. it's called ego involvement. when failing becomes failing as a person, your brain starts avoiding the whole thing. not because you don't care, but because you care too much.

you don't need lower standards. you need less self-worth tangled up in your goals. the work gets easier when it's not about proving who you are.
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merriam-webster.com
Printing presses kept their letters in cases.

Capital letters went in the upper case.
Smaller letters went in the lower case.

This is why we say ‘UPPER CASE’ and ‘lower case.’

Ok, but what did we call them before the invention of the printing press?

MAJUSCULE and minuscule.
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mjsdc.bsky.social
This is why I think the next Democratic president needs to use the EXACT tools that SCOTUS has handed Trump. Don't leave room for any distinctions.

Impound funds for deportation. Give ICE the USAID treatment. Refuse to collect government-backed debt. Purge MAGA loyalists from the executive branch.
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mjsdc.bsky.social
It is pretty galling that the Supreme Court spent four years telling Biden "you can't do that without Congress" then allowed Trump to seize a once-unthinkable amount of power from Congress within nine months and concentrate law-making authority almost entirely in the executive branch.
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Expletive infixation was how my linguistics teacher in college explained the concept of infixes to us.

"You know what prefixes and suffixes are. But English has only one infix. And, although it's never been taught to you formally, you know exactly what it is and probably use it frequently!"
merriam-webster.com
grawlix | noun | a series of typographical symbols (such as $#!) used in text as a replacement for profanity
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merriam-webster.com
grawlix | noun | a series of typographical symbols (such as $#!) used in text as a replacement for profanity
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Aww! That's sweet! 🥰
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Explain your username:

In about 2007 or so, I decided I didn't want whatever nonsense AOL ScreenName I'd chosen at like 9 years old anymore. So I went online and found a "username generator" website thing and mashed "generate" a few times until it gave me InsidiousPie, which made me giggle.
shivambhatt.bsky.social
Explain your username:

Its my name.
lulavampiro.bsky.social
explain your username:

all capoeiristas formally receive an insulting nickname based on their idiosyncrasies. my wrestling background led to several awkward in-game grappling situations, so mine is "lula" ("squid"). b/c that username's often taken online i further specified it to my favorite squid.
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postopinions.bsky.social
"Never before have we issued a joint public warning like this."

The latest from former U.S. surgeons general Jerome Adams, Richard Carmona, Joycelyn Elders, Vivek Murthy, Antonia Novello and David Satcher:
Opinion | Six surgeons general: It’s our duty to warn the nation about RFK Jr.
We took an oath to declare dangers when we found them. We’re doing that again today.
wapo.st
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Woo! Followed and notifications on!
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Today I learned you're doing streaming stuff! How did I miss this? Hopefully I can tune in next time you're live!
insidiouspie.bsky.social
You're so welcome! Thank you for making such beautiful things that help so many people. 💜
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Bibi's socks are SO COMFY and SO CUTE! Legit my partner borrowed a pair of mine and loved them so much that they had to buy a few pairs of their own! Also, I don't know how @archarzel.bsky.social's drawing hand feels, but Bibi's compression gloves are ALSO top notch and they make artist gloves too!
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Honest! I know I've said it before but I'll say it again! The regular store ones (that rhyme with Smoctor Smoles) took two or three days with added diuretics to get my ankles to stop swelling. Yours had my feet back to normal within 24 hours!
insidiouspie.bsky.social
Bibi's compression socks work better for me than the "proper" medical ones I bought at the local store. AND they're cute as hell! So if you or anyone you know needs some part of their body squished for some reason, go check out Bibi's shop!
bibiblossoms.bsky.social
It costs 0$ to Repost a Black disabled queer small business! It could lead to my next sale.

I sell pins, compression gloves, artist gloves, binders, hip braces, wrist braces, compression socks, walking sticks, elbow braces, bags, back braces & more!

Store details below!
5 Oval shaped pins with gold outlines with an oval cutout in the middle with a yellow slideable star:

Spoons: Lavender background
Hunger Scale: Red background
Migraine Scale: Blue background
Speaking vs Non Speaking: Green background

The first one has SHE, THEY, HE on top. At the bottom there's HER, THEM, HIM. White background. Strawberry, Galaxy and Bats Wrist Braces Strawberry, Galaxy and Bats Thumb Splints Elbow braces in the strawberry, Galaxy and Bats patterns
insidiouspie.bsky.social
The absolute cruelty to me personally that I live on the other side of the country from y'all and thus can't come in and get mochi brownies! 😭
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amandasmith.bsky.social
The all-knowing bsky mods gave Erin Biba a 24 hour suspension for a months-old skeet about Christian Zionism, and I’m sure it’s just a coincidence that this happened when she’s been vocally criticizing Jay
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urbanbohemian.com
Especially since nearly all the platforms have a little button to enable them on upload.

I realize that's probably not the case if you're using the web interface or a 3rd-party app to upload and schedule them. But if you're on that level, why not get an app to caption them anyway?
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urbanbohemian.com
Videos without captions, knowing how so many people interact with content: as a second screen, with distractions in the background, at work, in public without headphones…

It just feels like a choice. You saying this video is SO good and important, I need to mute everything else for it?

Nah.
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alixeharrow.bsky.social
reminder that you can be the gentlest, kindest person--you can dedicate your life to protecting the planet!--and still keep a little list of people you fucking hate. it's okay to be angry! anger is a symptom of giving a shit!
yasharali.bsky.social
Earlier this year, Dr. Jane Goodall sat down for an interview for Brad Falchuk’s new Netflix series, Famous Last Words.

The premise of the series is to interview people on the condition that the interview not air until the subject has passed away.
insidiouspie.bsky.social
I'm just a little internet stranger, but I'm offering you all the good vibes I have to spare. And also these photos of my cats doing curled feetsies.

May you find solace in your happy memories during this difficult time. 💜
Esteban Cien Almas the black cat laying on his back on the couch next to my leg. His front feet are curled up in front of him and his head is leaned back, asleep. Seymour Headbutts the orange cat laying half on his side in a bed. His two front feet are curled up in front of him and he's looking at the camera like he's begging for belly rubs.
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ssteingraber1.bsky.social
🥚Fantastic research by one of our finest adoptee rights authors.

Open adoption is the bait used to convince vulnerable mothers to relinquish babies for adoption, but it’s not a legal contract and it serves at the pleasure of the adopters, who can subsequently close an adoption at will —and they do.
nicolechung.bsky.social
If you want to understand open adoption, it makes sense to start with birth parents—yet studies of them are few. 2+ yrs ago, I began talking w/ birth mothers to try to understand what living in an open adoption is like for them, and what rights or options they might have if challenges were to arise.
When Adoption Promises Are Broken
Many birth mothers hope to maintain contact with their child. But their agreements with adoptive parents can be fragile.
www.theatlantic.com