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I got called autistic by an autistic person. I call that a diagnosis
Gonna be away for a bit, I wanna declutter/reoraganise my house for the end of the year and I'm not gonna get that done if I'm scrolling here lmao
December 13, 2025 at 10:25 AM
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Trans children exist.

Gender affirming care saves lives.

Being trans is a normal variation of humanity, and historically always has been.

Biology isn’t basic, it isn’t binary, includes the brain, and we don’t fully understand it.

Trans children deserve to become trans adults.
December 13, 2025 at 7:00 AM
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worm for you
December 11, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Post a horror icon 🏳️‍🌈
December 11, 2025 at 10:38 PM
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it’s fionna and cake thursday!!!!!
December 11, 2025 at 9:48 PM
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We want the media and politicians to recognise that there is a large number of women who are supportive of the trans+ community. We call on them to report truthfully about the sources of violence against women and to address the systems that perpetuate harm. notinourname.org.uk/petition/not...
Women in support of the trans+ community - Not in our name
notinourname.org.uk
December 11, 2025 at 9:19 PM
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Sorry for using comics and art to vent and cope with the world changing around me. I will return to drawing whimsical and silly frog wizards and adventures.
December 11, 2025 at 3:20 PM
You matter and one day you’ll believe it.
If you could tell your younger autistic self one thing, what would it be and why?
December 11, 2025 at 9:36 PM
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matthew lillard appreciation post 🙂‍↕️
December 11, 2025 at 3:00 PM
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Any parent to denies their child's identity or reality...whether that be disability, gender identity, sexuality, or anything else... is an abusive parent and their child(ren) deserve better.
December 11, 2025 at 3:23 PM
Early merry xmas to me, thank you @quindriepress.com 🎄♥️
December 11, 2025 at 3:04 PM
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One of the hardest parts of everything for me, is that I can’t be the support I want to be for loved ones.

I can’t guarantee I’ll be there, how much, etc…

And it’s so, so painful.
December 11, 2025 at 7:07 AM
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Since a homophobic attack on his niece, his party has introduced multiple anti-LGBTQIA+ policies and the UK has fallen steeply in human rights rankings

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/keir-starmer-shocked-his-anti-lgbtqia-rhetoric-is-creating-anti-lgbtqia-sentiment/
Starmer "furious" at homophobic attack on his family, as if his party has nothing to do with it
Since a homophobic attack on his niece, his party has introduced multiple anti-LGBTQIA+ policies and the UK has fallen steeply in human rights rankings
www.wearequeeraf.com
December 11, 2025 at 10:31 AM
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This entire grift relies on convincing people that they don't know how to do the things they have always known how to do, and ironically, if it works, we will, in a very short amount of time, forget how to do all the things we have always known how to do.
Jimmy Fallon: "And do you use ChatGPT when raising your baby?"

Sam Altman: "I cannot imagine figuring out how to raise a newborn without ChatGPT."
December 9, 2025 at 3:40 PM
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Buy physical copies of books, vinyl, movies. Keep notebooks and journals. Keep your phone on silent. Go analog as much as possible.
December 9, 2025 at 3:06 AM
Listening to fellow autistics info dumping for the past 1 and a bit
a black and white drawing of a person with a tie
Alt: a black and white drawing of a person with a tie stimming
media.tenor.com
December 9, 2025 at 7:23 PM
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We're seeing a large surge in flu cases across the UK, with masks barely mentioned as a mitigation, when they are one of the most reliable tools of mitigating spread. Email us to get free high quality masks - illness is not inevitable!
December 9, 2025 at 4:42 PM
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pals you gotta quit spotify
December 8, 2025 at 4:44 PM
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no idea
December 8, 2025 at 8:43 AM
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Being able to recognise I am autistic and non-binary helped me make sense of who I am. It allows me to recognise why my brain works the way it does, why I feel the way I do. Not being able to do that left scars, mental and physical. It's a good thing being able to have a frame for your life. 1/
I’ve become convinced that the most tedious psuedo-clever argument is that something is kind of like religion
December 8, 2025 at 6:41 PM
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The autistic tendency to stay up late because:

- nighttime is when the world finally slows down (quieter, fewer demands, less sensory input)
- you’ve been randomly hyperfocusing
- “do not perceive me”
- SPECIAL INTERESTS! ❤️
- transitioning to bedtime can be hard
- your circadian rhythm is chaos 🫠
December 8, 2025 at 4:23 PM
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Incredible how many people who claim to want to “protect women”, are loudly and violently standing up for Sandie Peggie… a woman who openly supports a sexual predator.
December 8, 2025 at 6:34 PM
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Frankenstein and Sinners both getting nominated for Best Motion Picture (drama) #GoldenGlobes
December 8, 2025 at 4:14 PM