Ness
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
They/them. Non-binary psych nerd. AuDHD. Plural, co-host with @herald-trashboy.bsky.social. Queer and trans. Boyfriend of @wolfinwherever.bsky.social
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Ness
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
· Jun 13
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health
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Who up being too mentally ill to do work but still in work
December 7, 2025 at 11:16 AM
Who up being too mentally ill to do work but still in work
Every single advert on TikTok, and I'm not even kidding, *every single one* is a Spotify Wrapped ad
I DO NOT CARE, I don't care, you support ICE, you support Israel, you're responsible for the creation of drones, fuck you, fuck your Wrapped and fuck your CEO
I DO NOT CARE, I don't care, you support ICE, you support Israel, you're responsible for the creation of drones, fuck you, fuck your Wrapped and fuck your CEO
December 7, 2025 at 10:37 AM
Every single advert on TikTok, and I'm not even kidding, *every single one* is a Spotify Wrapped ad
I DO NOT CARE, I don't care, you support ICE, you support Israel, you're responsible for the creation of drones, fuck you, fuck your Wrapped and fuck your CEO
I DO NOT CARE, I don't care, you support ICE, you support Israel, you're responsible for the creation of drones, fuck you, fuck your Wrapped and fuck your CEO
Hazbin Hotel puritans arguing that consuming the Speaker of God in your lustful thoughts is a sin because she is holy.... she's a bird person drawn by a person person what 😂😂
December 7, 2025 at 10:31 AM
Hazbin Hotel puritans arguing that consuming the Speaker of God in your lustful thoughts is a sin because she is holy.... she's a bird person drawn by a person person what 😂😂
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It would cost $30 billion to end homelessness in the USA.
Mark Zuckerberg’s gamble on the "Metaverse" has lost his company more than $77 billion.
December 6, 2025 at 7:03 AM
It would cost $30 billion to end homelessness in the USA.
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What if we screamed into the abyssal-toe? 🥺👉🏽👈🏽
December 7, 2025 at 3:19 AM
What if we screamed into the abyssal-toe? 🥺👉🏽👈🏽
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Goodnight blooski
Do no harm
Take no shit
Fuck ICE
Do no harm
Take no shit
Fuck ICE
December 7, 2025 at 6:59 AM
Goodnight blooski
Do no harm
Take no shit
Fuck ICE
Do no harm
Take no shit
Fuck ICE
Genuinely the only chance Brits have if we don't want to follow America directly into fascism, because we're already sliding our way down, is if we throw our support behind The Greens
December 7, 2025 at 9:12 AM
Genuinely the only chance Brits have if we don't want to follow America directly into fascism, because we're already sliding our way down, is if we throw our support behind The Greens
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Well if you want to help me fix or get a new phone depending on which is easier ko-fi.com/ashley95676
December 6, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Well if you want to help me fix or get a new phone depending on which is easier ko-fi.com/ashley95676
Fronting then immediately reaching for the propranolol
December 7, 2025 at 12:49 AM
Fronting then immediately reaching for the propranolol
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We’re making a list, we’re checking it twice, we’re gonna find out whose naughty or nice, we know if you add-ed alt text🎄
December 6, 2025 at 3:49 PM
We’re making a list, we’re checking it twice, we’re gonna find out whose naughty or nice, we know if you add-ed alt text🎄
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UK Government is trying to co-opt neurodiversity movement through claiming neurodivergents may simply be different & not disabled, when we advocate we are both (& disability is social-relational). We need more diagnoses - research: self-identified autistic ppl have more distress & higher unmet needs
A talk I gave earlier this year has, unfortunately, become relevant again this week so I've published it here.
open.substack.com/pub/neurodiv...
open.substack.com/pub/neurodiv...
The Fascist Echo in Labour's "Over-diagnosis" Inquiry
Why Wes Steeting's new inquiry is about more than just renewed austerity
open.substack.com
December 6, 2025 at 3:07 PM
UK Government is trying to co-opt neurodiversity movement through claiming neurodivergents may simply be different & not disabled, when we advocate we are both (& disability is social-relational). We need more diagnoses - research: self-identified autistic ppl have more distress & higher unmet needs
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One day, your brain will say “I feel better! I don’t even need these meds!” And it’s very important that you do not listen 😂
December 6, 2025 at 2:33 PM
One day, your brain will say “I feel better! I don’t even need these meds!” And it’s very important that you do not listen 😂
Colleague: who ate just the middle of this scotch egg??
Colleague 1: Not I
Colleague 2: Not I
Me: ....technically not I
Colleague 1: Not I
Colleague 2: Not I
Me: ....technically not I
December 6, 2025 at 1:53 PM
Colleague: who ate just the middle of this scotch egg??
Colleague 1: Not I
Colleague 2: Not I
Me: ....technically not I
Colleague 1: Not I
Colleague 2: Not I
Me: ....technically not I
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Kishwer Falkner in The Times talking about the rights of "biological people". As compared to trans people, who are, of course, non-biological.
December 6, 2025 at 9:59 AM
Kishwer Falkner in The Times talking about the rights of "biological people". As compared to trans people, who are, of course, non-biological.
I fronted and a colleague immediately asked if I was okay. I'm failing at masking so hard hahaha
December 6, 2025 at 1:10 PM
I fronted and a colleague immediately asked if I was okay. I'm failing at masking so hard hahaha
Everyone who plays BG3 is like "omg Astarion he's so relatable, he's so well written, he's such good survivor rep" and yknow what, they're correct, but do you know who I rarely see anyone relate to in terms of survivor rep?
a woman in armor is holding a sword
Alt: Shadowheart, a half elf wearing chainmail armour, a weapon strapped to her back, and her black hair framing her face
media.tenor.com
December 6, 2025 at 8:55 AM
Everyone who plays BG3 is like "omg Astarion he's so relatable, he's so well written, he's such good survivor rep" and yknow what, they're correct, but do you know who I rarely see anyone relate to in terms of survivor rep?
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The Nobel Prize committee should announce the World Cup winner tomorrow
December 6, 2025 at 4:29 AM
The Nobel Prize committee should announce the World Cup winner tomorrow
I think I'm going to be sick
"Soon, CNN will run live odds on world events where its viewers can gamble on them in real time on their smartphones."
CNN Partners With a Gambling App That Lets You Wager on Starvation in Gaza
The app company’s two biggest investors are also heavily invested in the Israeli military.
truthout.org
December 6, 2025 at 12:49 AM
I think I'm going to be sick
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Admiral Rachel Levine was the first transgender person to be confirmed by the Senate to serve in the federal government. Her official portrait at HHS headquarters has been altered. n.pr/48HypvT
HHS changed the name of transgender health leader on her official portrait
Admiral Rachel Levine was the first transgender person to be confirmed by the Senate to serve in the federal government. Her official portrait at HHS headquarters has been altered.
n.pr
December 5, 2025 at 10:50 PM
Admiral Rachel Levine was the first transgender person to be confirmed by the Senate to serve in the federal government. Her official portrait at HHS headquarters has been altered. n.pr/48HypvT
You are incorrigible, I will be seeing that stupid face in my dreams smh
Imagine this…
You’re half way up a treacherous mountain climb.
Supplies are low.
Morale is failing.
You’ve lost people on the way.
And your climb partner makes a terrible joking about “topping” and turns to you with this face:
You’re half way up a treacherous mountain climb.
Supplies are low.
Morale is failing.
You’ve lost people on the way.
And your climb partner makes a terrible joking about “topping” and turns to you with this face:
December 6, 2025 at 12:39 AM
You are incorrigible, I will be seeing that stupid face in my dreams smh
I remember when I was first getting to grips with the fact that I had a mom, there would be things that I wouldn't be allowed to say, it would be as if those trains of thought were stopped, then deleted from my mind. I used to call it "getting shuncked"
December 5, 2025 at 11:33 PM
I remember when I was first getting to grips with the fact that I had a mom, there would be things that I wouldn't be allowed to say, it would be as if those trains of thought were stopped, then deleted from my mind. I used to call it "getting shuncked"
I can't believe I've just had my brain fuck me over for three days straight and I have to go to work tomorrow and Be Employed this suuuuuucks
December 5, 2025 at 10:10 PM
I can't believe I've just had my brain fuck me over for three days straight and I have to go to work tomorrow and Be Employed this suuuuuucks
Playing Space Marine with lo-fi music in the background as the anxiety gods intended
December 5, 2025 at 3:19 PM
Playing Space Marine with lo-fi music in the background as the anxiety gods intended