sara
@quieterthanafish.bsky.social
working on a book about why pro-trans policies are good and awesome
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mens day advice: men, that sex worker you like does like you back. keep sending her money
November 20, 2025 at 2:25 AM
mens day advice: men, that sex worker you like does like you back. keep sending her money
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Bouncing on it in an offputting way
November 20, 2025 at 1:45 AM
Bouncing on it in an offputting way
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oh is it men's day? i didn't notice because i'm too busy listening to women
November 19, 2025 at 8:29 PM
oh is it men's day? i didn't notice because i'm too busy listening to women
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Also no one actually wants to think about gender as something imposed on you, as something that constrains and marks you and designates what kinds of labor can/should be extracted from you.
Doesn't help that reminding people about the hierarchy gender places you in is taken as oppressive.
Doesn't help that reminding people about the hierarchy gender places you in is taken as oppressive.
not to like, import discourse from twitter, but this hits the nail on the fucking head what we refer to as "gender" is actually a whole bunch of different things that people keep conflating and any discourse that doesn't detail what aspect we're speaking about is destined to fail
November 18, 2025 at 10:35 PM
Also no one actually wants to think about gender as something imposed on you, as something that constrains and marks you and designates what kinds of labor can/should be extracted from you.
Doesn't help that reminding people about the hierarchy gender places you in is taken as oppressive.
Doesn't help that reminding people about the hierarchy gender places you in is taken as oppressive.
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It’s crazy that you can just walk into a store off the street and buy a thong. Never mind who you might hurt
November 19, 2025 at 1:45 AM
It’s crazy that you can just walk into a store off the street and buy a thong. Never mind who you might hurt
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i think that people who use headphones in public places like trains are selfish. keeping all your cool music and podcasts to yourself is genuinely sociopathic and deranged behavior. play it on your phone's speaker and let everyone enjoy it, or don't play it at all
November 18, 2025 at 5:11 PM
i think that people who use headphones in public places like trains are selfish. keeping all your cool music and podcasts to yourself is genuinely sociopathic and deranged behavior. play it on your phone's speaker and let everyone enjoy it, or don't play it at all
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I will never be disappointed in the Catholic Church because they are rapist fascists. Thank you
November 17, 2025 at 2:07 AM
I will never be disappointed in the Catholic Church because they are rapist fascists. Thank you
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The actual issue is that "AMAB" is not a coherent category and the assumption that there's better or even good research on transfem bodies and health because we're "male" is both incorrect and grossly transmisogynistic, but I know these types don't care about that.
November 17, 2025 at 7:16 PM
The actual issue is that "AMAB" is not a coherent category and the assumption that there's better or even good research on transfem bodies and health because we're "male" is both incorrect and grossly transmisogynistic, but I know these types don't care about that.
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trans women are not 'biological men'. anyone claiming that we are is engaging in science denialism.
it is transphobic to describe us that way. we have changed our physiology using medical science.
it is an attempt by transphobic columnists, pundits, and politicians to erase our existence.
it is transphobic to describe us that way. we have changed our physiology using medical science.
it is an attempt by transphobic columnists, pundits, and politicians to erase our existence.
November 16, 2025 at 9:06 AM
trans women are not 'biological men'. anyone claiming that we are is engaging in science denialism.
it is transphobic to describe us that way. we have changed our physiology using medical science.
it is an attempt by transphobic columnists, pundits, and politicians to erase our existence.
it is transphobic to describe us that way. we have changed our physiology using medical science.
it is an attempt by transphobic columnists, pundits, and politicians to erase our existence.
seeing sarah z discover RCBG
November 17, 2025 at 9:04 AM
seeing sarah z discover RCBG
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November 16, 2025 at 9:59 AM
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Antisemitism is a lot like Qanon child abuse conspiracies in that there’s this real and bad phenomenon and, parallel to that, what can only be described as a large scale mass psychosis about a mostly fictional version of the same phenomenon
November 16, 2025 at 8:48 PM
Antisemitism is a lot like Qanon child abuse conspiracies in that there’s this real and bad phenomenon and, parallel to that, what can only be described as a large scale mass psychosis about a mostly fictional version of the same phenomenon
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I have a new essay coming out next week so stay tuned! since one of the ppl I critique in it is a hardcore "gamete truther", I figured I'd re-up this – discusses both the actual biology & the bonkers anti-trans talking point that's grown out of it (no paywall): juliaserano.medium.com/why-are-gend...
Why Are “Gender Critical” Activists So Fond of Gametes?
plus my new video “Trans People and Biological Sex: What the Science Says”
juliaserano.medium.com
November 16, 2025 at 4:37 PM
I have a new essay coming out next week so stay tuned! since one of the ppl I critique in it is a hardcore "gamete truther", I figured I'd re-up this – discusses both the actual biology & the bonkers anti-trans talking point that's grown out of it (no paywall): juliaserano.medium.com/why-are-gend...
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Keep coming back to Summers’ annoyance that this female mentee he’s trying to sleep with “takes her presentation very seriously.” To men like this—to a lot of men—women’s intellectual or professional ambition is an irritating presumption that they condescend to tolerate.
The emails have Summers reporting to Epstein about his attempts to date a Harvard economics student & to hit on her during a seminar she was giving.
November 16, 2025 at 2:48 PM
Keep coming back to Summers’ annoyance that this female mentee he’s trying to sleep with “takes her presentation very seriously.” To men like this—to a lot of men—women’s intellectual or professional ambition is an irritating presumption that they condescend to tolerate.
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hey its not ok for you a cis stranger to walk up to a doll and be like wow trans people are beautiful . fyi
November 16, 2025 at 2:04 AM
hey its not ok for you a cis stranger to walk up to a doll and be like wow trans people are beautiful . fyi
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I kind of think it’s lovely that two presidents from opposite parties reached across the aisle in a display of bipartisanship but maybe that’s just me
November 14, 2025 at 9:50 PM
I kind of think it’s lovely that two presidents from opposite parties reached across the aisle in a display of bipartisanship but maybe that’s just me
The funny thing is that I *do* think they are right on some level: acceptance of homosexuality does require equality of gender, flexibility of gender roles, and a recognition that gender and sex are socially constructed. They are just (painfully, obviously) wrong that any of those are a bad thing.
was very confused by this abstract I stumbled upon in a search b/c it clearly uses GC/TERF language & framings, but describes itself in the title as "A Challenge for Gender Critical Feminism". then I realized it's in a Catholic journal & they're likely encouraging GC/TERFs to "drop the GLB" too...
November 15, 2025 at 1:40 AM
The funny thing is that I *do* think they are right on some level: acceptance of homosexuality does require equality of gender, flexibility of gender roles, and a recognition that gender and sex are socially constructed. They are just (painfully, obviously) wrong that any of those are a bad thing.
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This is the TERF version of some middle aged bloke talking about how the female orgasm doesn't exist because he's never seen one.
Firstly, I am not and never have been "a man".
Secondly, my gash is epic.
I will not be taking questions.
Firstly, I am not and never have been "a man".
Secondly, my gash is epic.
I will not be taking questions.
"Medical technology is far from being able to create functional genitals out of other body parts. So it is not possible to construct a penis for a woman, or a vagina for a man." - Sex Matters
This gets me every time. Clearly, y'all have never talked to a trans person about this.
This gets me every time. Clearly, y'all have never talked to a trans person about this.
October 15, 2025 at 12:16 PM
This is the TERF version of some middle aged bloke talking about how the female orgasm doesn't exist because he's never seen one.
Firstly, I am not and never have been "a man".
Secondly, my gash is epic.
I will not be taking questions.
Firstly, I am not and never have been "a man".
Secondly, my gash is epic.
I will not be taking questions.
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I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.
In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.
In 2005 I started medical transition. (1/13)
In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.
In 2005 I started medical transition. (1/13)
August 29, 2025 at 11:56 AM
I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.
In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.
In 2005 I started medical transition. (1/13)
In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.
In 2005 I started medical transition. (1/13)
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Trans women are biologically female and our medical needs make a lot more sense if we are conceptualized as having essentially an extreme form of hyperandrogenism
"my least woke opinion is---"
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
November 14, 2025 at 11:52 AM
Trans women are biologically female and our medical needs make a lot more sense if we are conceptualized as having essentially an extreme form of hyperandrogenism
As a militant feminist, I'm upset about the sexualization of trans women in this comic.
As a trans woman... I laughed.
As a trans woman... I laughed.
Good morning. Today I learned about the "trans women" vs "transwomen" distinction in usage. Sorry about that! Here's the fixed version, which I also changed on the main site.
November 12, 2025 at 2:44 AM
As a militant feminist, I'm upset about the sexualization of trans women in this comic.
As a trans woman... I laughed.
As a trans woman... I laughed.
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Transphobic parents would rather have a dead kid than a trans one. Esther Ghey can't say that out loud but everything she has said and done since Brianna's death has been about that.
She has a rationale for it as part of her book promo.
Bonus: she's friends with the mom of one the killers.
www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...
Bonus: she's friends with the mom of one the killers.
www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...
November 10, 2025 at 1:39 PM
Transphobic parents would rather have a dead kid than a trans one. Esther Ghey can't say that out loud but everything she has said and done since Brianna's death has been about that.
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As a parent, I know the unbearable pain of losing a child - so this is hard to say
But truth matters
Brianna's mother had the opportunity and the moral authority
to stand up for young Trans+ people, in her daughter’s memory
Public evidence suggests she’s chosen not to
It’s deeply upsetting
But truth matters
Brianna's mother had the opportunity and the moral authority
to stand up for young Trans+ people, in her daughter’s memory
Public evidence suggests she’s chosen not to
It’s deeply upsetting
Esther Ghey is kind of allergic to talking about the transphobic murder of her daughter as a transphobic murder, huh
Phones did not murder Brianna Ghey in cold blood.
November 10, 2025 at 1:57 PM
As a parent, I know the unbearable pain of losing a child - so this is hard to say
But truth matters
Brianna's mother had the opportunity and the moral authority
to stand up for young Trans+ people, in her daughter’s memory
Public evidence suggests she’s chosen not to
It’s deeply upsetting
But truth matters
Brianna's mother had the opportunity and the moral authority
to stand up for young Trans+ people, in her daughter’s memory
Public evidence suggests she’s chosen not to
It’s deeply upsetting
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guy whose only exposure to political theory is cropped posts from transfeminists online, seeing someone be mistreated: getting a lot of transmisogyny vibes from this. almost like it's not exclusive to trans women. #baeddelsRekt
November 10, 2025 at 2:16 PM
guy whose only exposure to political theory is cropped posts from transfeminists online, seeing someone be mistreated: getting a lot of transmisogyny vibes from this. almost like it's not exclusive to trans women. #baeddelsRekt
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The democrats saw their party’s historic sweep last week and responded by caving
November 10, 2025 at 4:19 AM
The democrats saw their party’s historic sweep last week and responded by caving