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REAL FEMINIST QUOTES
"Feminism is when you judge other women. The more harshly you judge a woman, the more feminist it is." -- Simone Butler
"Feminism is when you judge other women. The more harshly you judge a woman, the more feminist it is." -- Simone Butler
December 7, 2025 at 5:30 PM
REAL FEMINIST QUOTES
"Feminism is when you judge other women. The more harshly you judge a woman, the more feminist it is." -- Simone Butler
"Feminism is when you judge other women. The more harshly you judge a woman, the more feminist it is." -- Simone Butler
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Yep, one of the biggest drivers of the elite panic around “wokeness” was the increasing prominence of Black people and particularly Black women in their fields and we’re seeing that coalition rewarded with the targeting of Black workers.
Since February, according to my latest analysis, almost 600,000 Black women have been economically sidelined. The November 20, 2025, Jobs Report makes clear this isn’t a blip. It’s a structural crisis. That is not a recovery. It is a redistribution of opportunity.
The exit economy is here. Black Women are paying the highest price | Fortune
This isn’t a blip. It’s a structural crisis. And it's not a recovery, it's a redistribution of opportunity.
fortune.com
November 23, 2025 at 3:12 PM
Yep, one of the biggest drivers of the elite panic around “wokeness” was the increasing prominence of Black people and particularly Black women in their fields and we’re seeing that coalition rewarded with the targeting of Black workers.
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New — I wrote about the myriad ways journalism’s moral rot manifests, and how our crumbling institutions have created the conditions for it to fester:
Moral rot in elite journalism is killing the whole field
The Nuzzi/RFK Jr. mess and the revelation of Esptein's journo pals lay bare a profound moral absence at the heart of our free press.
www.thehandbasket.co
November 18, 2025 at 10:03 PM
New — I wrote about the myriad ways journalism’s moral rot manifests, and how our crumbling institutions have created the conditions for it to fester:
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God dammit. 21 years old.
Jesus Christ.
Jesus Christ.
Black trans women are paid dust by cis people and trans people. 21 is too young for a trans girl to die. It's not fucking fair. But per the course, Girlalala will be lost in a sea of stories of trans women of color who aren't as loved or as protected as we should be.
May she rest in peace.
May she rest in peace.
TikTok Star Girlalala Dies at 21 as Boyfriend Is Arrested on First-Degree Murder Charge
The creator, who had hundreds of thousands of followers, worked as a hairstylist in Pompano Beach, Fla.
ca.news.yahoo.com
November 19, 2025 at 8:02 AM
God dammit. 21 years old.
Jesus Christ.
Jesus Christ.
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Language matters. Asylum seekers live in appalling conditions but the buildings are described as "hotels". Members of the Royal family live a life of luxury and privilege but their homes are often called "cottage" or "lodge". Why not just describe things accurately?
November 13, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Language matters. Asylum seekers live in appalling conditions but the buildings are described as "hotels". Members of the Royal family live a life of luxury and privilege but their homes are often called "cottage" or "lodge". Why not just describe things accurately?
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once again feeling extremely bitter and angry and alienated at a world that has infinite impunity and grace and credulity for cishet male sex pests who absolutely shamelessly portray themselves as marginalized and oppressed by The Allegations
November 12, 2025 at 3:37 AM
once again feeling extremely bitter and angry and alienated at a world that has infinite impunity and grace and credulity for cishet male sex pests who absolutely shamelessly portray themselves as marginalized and oppressed by The Allegations
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I hate this "phones" conversation regarding queer people and queer kids because the bottom line is, cishet society KNOWS. Right-wingers KNOW that the internet is how queer people connect to each other---hell, that marginalized people period use it to organize and educate.
That's why they hate it.
That's why they hate it.
November 12, 2025 at 8:19 AM
I hate this "phones" conversation regarding queer people and queer kids because the bottom line is, cishet society KNOWS. Right-wingers KNOW that the internet is how queer people connect to each other---hell, that marginalized people period use it to organize and educate.
That's why they hate it.
That's why they hate it.
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it's widely known that transphobic parents publicly brag about cutting their trans children off from friends and support systems especially by taking away their phones and isolating them from contact with outsiders, this anti-phone push is an attempt to make that the default condition of queer youth
So, given that a lot of trans people are offended that Brianna's transfemicide is being turned into a crusade against phone use, when Brianna had a supportive online community and was murdered offline by her classmates:
Do you think "Touch grass" is an appropriate response to that context?
Do you think "Touch grass" is an appropriate response to that context?
November 12, 2025 at 10:06 AM
it's widely known that transphobic parents publicly brag about cutting their trans children off from friends and support systems especially by taking away their phones and isolating them from contact with outsiders, this anti-phone push is an attempt to make that the default condition of queer youth
this is why we are our own family reject the false blood of our oppressors and erasers
This would explain *a lot*
Mum clearly thinks social media transed her kid, and if she wasn't trans she wouldnt have been murdered in cold blood, so social media is to blame.
Smh
Mum clearly thinks social media transed her kid, and if she wasn't trans she wouldnt have been murdered in cold blood, so social media is to blame.
Smh
November 12, 2025 at 9:54 AM
this is why we are our own family reject the false blood of our oppressors and erasers
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An easy way to make sense of cishet guys being into femboys and that "not being gay" is that the core of what's always stigmatized "gay" is feminization, not same-sex activity in itself.
Male same-sex activity in a masculinizing context has always been a lot more socially acceptable.
Male same-sex activity in a masculinizing context has always been a lot more socially acceptable.
November 3, 2025 at 10:52 PM
An easy way to make sense of cishet guys being into femboys and that "not being gay" is that the core of what's always stigmatized "gay" is feminization, not same-sex activity in itself.
Male same-sex activity in a masculinizing context has always been a lot more socially acceptable.
Male same-sex activity in a masculinizing context has always been a lot more socially acceptable.
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One thing about the "transsexual" discourse that cyclically sweeps through queer Bsky circles:
For some reason, every time we argue here about the relation of transition to trans identity, people forget that "transition is regressive and binary" is a legitimately held position by a lot of queers.
For some reason, every time we argue here about the relation of transition to trans identity, people forget that "transition is regressive and binary" is a legitimately held position by a lot of queers.
November 3, 2025 at 9:17 PM
One thing about the "transsexual" discourse that cyclically sweeps through queer Bsky circles:
For some reason, every time we argue here about the relation of transition to trans identity, people forget that "transition is regressive and binary" is a legitimately held position by a lot of queers.
For some reason, every time we argue here about the relation of transition to trans identity, people forget that "transition is regressive and binary" is a legitimately held position by a lot of queers.
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I hold out hope that one day, leftists will stop being shocked at "Person of marginalized identity holds conservative beliefs".
October 15, 2025 at 10:25 AM
I hold out hope that one day, leftists will stop being shocked at "Person of marginalized identity holds conservative beliefs".
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yeah man, trans reporters, whom the ny times derogatorily calls "trans activists" so that normies won't listen to them, have been reporting on ADF activity in the UK since 2018.
bigotry in journalism makes you late to the story.
bigotry in journalism makes you late to the story.
Really important NYT investigation finds that the ADF has been working with Reform, 'courting the party since at least 2024' and that the British arm 'orchestrated Mr Farage’s appearance in Congress, reaching out to ask if he would like to give evidence on censorship'
www.nytimes.com/2025/10/13/w...
www.nytimes.com/2025/10/13/w...
They Helped Topple Roe v. Wade. Now Their Sights Are Set on Britain.
www.nytimes.com
October 13, 2025 at 12:47 PM
yeah man, trans reporters, whom the ny times derogatorily calls "trans activists" so that normies won't listen to them, have been reporting on ADF activity in the UK since 2018.
bigotry in journalism makes you late to the story.
bigotry in journalism makes you late to the story.
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starmer: "the left has ignored immigration fears"... well, those fears are irrational and should only be addressed in such a way that makes it clear why they're irrational.
September 27, 2025 at 11:34 AM
starmer: "the left has ignored immigration fears"... well, those fears are irrational and should only be addressed in such a way that makes it clear why they're irrational.
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evangelicals don't want to "ban sex," they want to rule by rape. (which entails total control over sex and over the bodies of subordinate gender classes & children thry patriarchal sexual authority.) critical difference
September 20, 2025 at 3:40 PM
evangelicals don't want to "ban sex," they want to rule by rape. (which entails total control over sex and over the bodies of subordinate gender classes & children thry patriarchal sexual authority.) critical difference
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"Actually, we can point out that the asylum protestors are the biggest danger to women!"
a) Yes, because fascism is always toppled by facts and logic.
b) Conservatives think it's okay for "our men" to be patriarchs while portraying the Other as a threat to "our women". Come ON, this is BASIC.
a) Yes, because fascism is always toppled by facts and logic.
b) Conservatives think it's okay for "our men" to be patriarchs while portraying the Other as a threat to "our women". Come ON, this is BASIC.
August 29, 2025 at 4:22 PM
"Actually, we can point out that the asylum protestors are the biggest danger to women!"
a) Yes, because fascism is always toppled by facts and logic.
b) Conservatives think it's okay for "our men" to be patriarchs while portraying the Other as a threat to "our women". Come ON, this is BASIC.
a) Yes, because fascism is always toppled by facts and logic.
b) Conservatives think it's okay for "our men" to be patriarchs while portraying the Other as a threat to "our women". Come ON, this is BASIC.
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claims that trans ppl are especially susceptible to Nazi propaganda & that we're prone to becoming mass shooters are making same mistake. there is zero evidence for either. but when "rare" ppl engage in "rare" behaviors, we incorrectly presume there must be a connection
bsky.app/profile/juli...
bsky.app/profile/juli...
unrelated to current events, I've spent much of the last week reading & writing about the social cognition phenomenon of "illusory correlation" – this is the abstract from one of the first studies to describe it (many subsequent studies support it). sharing it now for reasons....
August 29, 2025 at 4:43 PM
claims that trans ppl are especially susceptible to Nazi propaganda & that we're prone to becoming mass shooters are making same mistake. there is zero evidence for either. but when "rare" ppl engage in "rare" behaviors, we incorrectly presume there must be a connection
bsky.app/profile/juli...
bsky.app/profile/juli...
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I'm supposed to care about the "Male loneliness epidemic" when men abandon their wives the moment they can't be domestic and sexual servents.
Among heterosexual couples over age 50, research finds that divorce rates increase significantly when the wife develops a serious illness but the husband does not; however, no such increase is seen when husbands fall ill but wives do not. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/soci...
New Research Reveals a Concerning Emerging Divorce Pattern
Divorce trends among middle-aged adults have revealed a shocking new pattern.
www.psychologytoday.com
May 21, 2025 at 4:12 PM
I'm supposed to care about the "Male loneliness epidemic" when men abandon their wives the moment they can't be domestic and sexual servents.
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the thing that gets me is that I grew up in the countryside, in a small village. among my peers from back then, there have been a handful of violent or otherwise abnormal deaths over 25 years.
I’ve been a part of the trans community for just over a quarter-century, and I’ve lost so many more.
I’ve been a part of the trans community for just over a quarter-century, and I’ve lost so many more.
It's always bittersweet when I need one, because those two girls? I lost track of one, and the other was murdered.
Our lives are so fucking precarious.
Our lives are so fucking precarious.
May 21, 2025 at 4:39 PM
the thing that gets me is that I grew up in the countryside, in a small village. among my peers from back then, there have been a handful of violent or otherwise abnormal deaths over 25 years.
I’ve been a part of the trans community for just over a quarter-century, and I’ve lost so many more.
I’ve been a part of the trans community for just over a quarter-century, and I’ve lost so many more.
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May 21, 2025 at 4:42 PM
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In the name of humanity, donate to save our lives and the lives of our children.
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