Gabby
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Gabby
@gabby.gay
cat mom | coffee & cocktail enthusiast | does computer stuff for work | ADHD | queer/bi/poly | she/her 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
Monologue has been an absolute game-changer for how I use my Mac. Selfishly, they're giving out some really cool swag for people who get the most referrals, but I also just genuinely want more people using this app because it rules. Good vibes and great functionality monologue.to?ref=COGVBIY
Monologue | Effortless voice dictation so you can work 3x faster
Write 3x faster with Al voice dictation that gets your intent right. Say it once, see it written as you meant.
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December 5, 2025 at 8:53 PM
@zottmann.dev - feature request for Browser Actions: it would be AMAZING if you could get it to work with Dia from The Browser Company. I know they haven't been the most friendly to automation in the past, but if there's some way to get it to work that would be 🔥

cc @actions.work
November 18, 2025 at 4:41 AM
I’m entering my journaling era (mostly Hobonichi but a range of things) and I’m really loving it so far. Fancy stationary is so fun
September 20, 2025 at 11:33 PM
genuinely wish I could focus on anything as much as these two little idiots focus on birdwatching
gabby.gay Gabby @gabby.gay · Sep 15
The Great Lock-In of 2025
September 15, 2025 at 3:38 PM
The Great Lock-In of 2025
September 15, 2025 at 3:38 PM
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I have this
September 3, 2025 at 1:14 AM
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society erred when we removed the computer from its honored place in the home and ushered it into every part of our profane world. we must rebuild the temple of the Computer Room
March 20, 2025 at 2:57 PM
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The 12th annual international Gender Census 2025 is now open until at least 30th August 2025!

survey.gendercensus.com

It's for anyone whose gender (or lack thereof) isn't described by the M/F binary. It's short and easy, and results are useful in academia, business and self-advocacy.
July 30, 2025 at 4:02 PM
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an utter lack of curiosity is a defining quality of the worst people u know
July 31, 2025 at 1:17 AM
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Excuse my language but what fucking business is it of the united states government whether Brown undertakes this kind of medical care for parents and their kids who fully consent to it and desire it? Insanity! Pure discrimination in an agreement trollingly cloaked in preventing discrimination.
July 30, 2025 at 10:54 PM
it would be extremely cool if people in my neighborhood didn't set off fireworks at *checks notes* 10:45pm on a Sunday night
July 28, 2025 at 5:42 AM
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fun news! I was laid off from Twilio.

going to take this weekend to chill out, and will start looking for roles next week.

if you or someone you know is looking for staff/principal level Developer Advocacy, OSPO, dev infra, or similar roles pass them along!

reposts from tech folks appreciated <3
July 25, 2025 at 9:01 PM
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it is absolutely maddening to me that we have “canceled” upwards of five trans megastars over very ordinary and common human mistakes

while bands like whirr and brand new and arcade fire get to come back, stay active and we all just normalize their returns because “anti-woke” or whatever
July 23, 2025 at 2:42 AM
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Instead of Substack, consider: starting something called a "website"
July 6, 2025 at 1:19 AM
how does one actually find IRL trans community/friends? I feel like everyone talks about how important it is to make trans friends (which I agree with!) but no one ever talks about *how* to do it. I live in SF and I feel like it should be easier here than in many places, and yet it remains a mystery
July 5, 2025 at 5:28 PM
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Trans people, I love you. We've always been here. We always will be.
July 2, 2025 at 4:45 AM
I gotta respect the effort and hustle that Nori (our cat) puts in to trying to con me or my partner out of getting extra food after one of us has already fed her. She does it practically every time and we *basically* never fall for it, but she is undeterred.
July 2, 2025 at 5:10 AM
I think this post will stick with me for a long, long time. I've lost track of how many times I've jumped around between different productivity systems. Maybe the best system is, as @joanwestenberg.com writes, "simply, no system at all"
I Deleted My Second Brain

Why I Erased 10,000 Notes, 7 Years of Ideas, and Every Thought I Tried to Save
I Deleted My Second Brain
Why I Erased 10,000 Notes, 7 Years of Ideas, and Every Thought I Tried to Save
www.joanwestenberg.com
July 1, 2025 at 5:33 AM
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TIRED: “learn to code!”
WIRED:
June 30, 2025 at 12:35 AM
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if the holy father of the roman catholic church, by canon of the faith a man with a direct line of communication to the creator of the universe, can admit he is an out-and-out fan of the chicago white sox and not the cubs, it is beyond the pale for a politician to do the "i like em both" schtick
June 24, 2025 at 12:56 AM
Super super excited for this. Bay Area folks: go donate!!
June 17, 2025 at 3:15 PM
coming out to more people feels really, really nice
June 4, 2025 at 5:36 AM
after having dealt with a *lot* of dysphoria in recent weeks, it was really a breath of fresh air to have multiple different servers and hotel staff gender me correctly this weekend (e.g. "how's it going ladies?" when coming up to our table). Maybe I look more like a girl than I think 🤔
May 5, 2025 at 5:54 PM
one of my favorite authors put up a zine for sale over the weekend. I missed the announcement while on a trip and it sold out. I emailed asking about extras and he had some stashed aside!

I guess the lesson here is that it's okay to ask for things and often people are nice and want to help!
May 5, 2025 at 5:48 PM
I feel like I'm in a weird bubble where literally all I can think about is the game Blue Prince, which came out a few weeks ago and is excellent. The world continues to go on and I have to participate in capitalism and such, but the only thing I want to be doing is exploring that fucking mansion
April 28, 2025 at 3:50 PM