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🎃Fiber Alchemist 🌙✨
@quoththeeraven.bsky.social
LSW therapist by day, bisexual ambiamorous neurodivergent witch also by day, and night

I like to turn piles of string into practical and/or wearable objects (and this is not a professional/work account)

📍Chicago, ILL
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I think it’s also true that loneliness among women has historically been treated as an individual problem, while loneliness among men is treated as a societal problem. That, in turn, comes from an assumption that women are supposed to earn the company of others while men are entitled to it.
men’s loneliness gets “more airtime”?

baby I have lived the past three decades of my life witnessing corporate media elevate men’s loneliness into a full-blown balls-to-the-wall CRISIS once every 4-5 years

“more airtime” is hilarious
December 12, 2025 at 3:03 AM
Being an autistic woman in a dating climate where most men are either a. not putting in genuine effort or b. seem to have no clue how to date and actually converse with a woman (or both!) is so funny sometimes. Like, most men still have the expectation that a “good” woman is one who makes it easy
December 12, 2025 at 2:32 AM
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Every woman in her 20s/early 30s deserves to date (not cuff!!!) but DATE a fine fireman.

Gone get that fun toxicity out your system right quick 😂😂
December 11, 2025 at 11:41 PM
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lives rent free in my head
December 11, 2025 at 12:48 PM
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When my last will and testament is read aloud to my loved ones—
December 11, 2025 at 6:54 PM
I used to have a client who was so stoked about AI, he worked in a creative tech-heavy field and had been trying to affirm its usefulness in the work to his colleagues. We talked about it a lot, I think of him and wonder how he’s doing every time I read something dystopian or distressing about AI 😕
December 11, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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“Did you like that necklace I got you? You don’t remember? I gave it to you last week. You said you loved it. You really forgot that quickly?”
December 11, 2025 at 3:23 PM
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“Has become”
The US Government has become a criminal organization
December 11, 2025 at 1:04 PM
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Once again thinking about the time on Twitter where some guy was complaining about how a morning show don’t have any white people on it and I posted a picture of the morning show and it had 4 white people and one black person and the guy said “yeah but they wish they could fire the 4 white people”
Hiring a Black woman: “identity politics”

Hiring a white guy for a job that has been held disproportionately by white guys, because he is a white guy: “subverting” identity politics!

(The author of this sentence is Dylan Byers; you will not be surprised to learn that he is a white guy.)
December 11, 2025 at 12:29 PM
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Ok so I finally tried this last night at a strange and disastrous pop up in New York and would you believe it it's just hot chocolate. It tastes exactly like Swiss Miss made with half and half.
December 11, 2025 at 2:13 PM
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Social media was a mistake and now we're stuck with a dumbass president and every person who uses it suffering from some type of mental health condition.
December 11, 2025 at 3:21 AM
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and it's been thus way since forever.

all the things everyone loves about every movement was co-opted from radicalism
Leftism is the democrats' boogeyman & scapegoat for why they never win, but actually leftism's what they need, which they realize at times when they appropriate radicalism. Equitable distribution of resources & collective care that counters capitalism is what everyone's screaming for from them.
December 11, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Love being slightly guilted by my supervisor for taking two measly days off for the preservation of my own health, like this place went absolutely bonkers without me and I’m like the glue holding these men’s mental health together (which is not true or a healthy way to look at it) and I come back-
December 11, 2025 at 2:50 PM
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I was *just* briefing some folks on why I think this matters for organizing.
"The country has yet to understand these changes and runs the risk of collapsing distinct histories into a singular Black experience, exacerbating rather than reducing racial tensions, and clinging to a caricature of what it means to be Black in America."

Very informative piece.
Opinion | There are two Black Americas. Not everyone is happy about it.
The divide between natives and newcomers shows disparities in income, education and politics.
www.washingtonpost.com
December 11, 2025 at 1:45 PM
I know others usually aren’t as risk taking as I am in this specific area, but I’m not gonna lie if this dude I’ve been talking to brings me back something of the herbal variety from his Amsterdam/Euro trip, his dating potential estimation will go up slightly in my eyes lol. Like how romantic lol
December 11, 2025 at 1:22 PM
Got lucky and caught the holiday metra this morning for “free”. My grandmother was/is pissed this year when the private Christmas ride tickets sold out in less than 5 minutes, she believes it was a conspiracy carried out by the metra employees to buy them all out for only their families lol
December 11, 2025 at 1:01 PM
I have to go back to that place today and tomorrow, pray for me and my mood. I do have therapy today tho, a pressure relief to look forward to.
December 11, 2025 at 12:44 PM
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that "umar...where's the school?" is what did it

lemme gon' watch it right now
He is one of my favs….🤣🤣🤣 his answer had me laughing
December 11, 2025 at 3:46 AM
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Maybe it makes perfect sense that you'd be irritable & exhausted after carrying what you've been carrying for as long as you've been carrying it. Maybe that's not a "mood disorder"-- maybe that's the normal human response to long term complex traumatic stress, not "pathology."
December 11, 2025 at 2:12 AM
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The "best" version of yourself isn't the version that is perfect or cool or hot or whatever. It's the version of yourself that is real & self-compassionate & self-forgiving & open to evolution-- you know, that version of you your abusers & bullies tried to permanently erase.
December 11, 2025 at 2:10 AM
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full muppet cast remake of Mother!(2017)
December 8, 2025 at 9:24 PM
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Feels like the US has spent the last 5+ years on the verge of some kind of secular moral revival that keeps getting channeled into weirdo lifestyle puritanism
Cafes across the U.S. are embracing the low- and no-caffeine lifestyle, with options that are a far cry from dusty tea bags and rewarmed decaf. nyti.ms/3XKlqoj
December 10, 2025 at 9:25 PM
“I thought you guys just drifted apart, were you like, super serious?”

“I mean, we were super un-serious for a very *long* amount of time. It’s like, if he needed me to be his boyfriend, he should’ve just said that. Like, he broke the rules”

Lmaoo I Love LA is hilarious
December 10, 2025 at 10:29 PM