Stefan
@stefan.bsky.social
AuADHD as fvck.
(He/Him). 🏳️🌈and🏳️⚧️ally.
Sometimes sweary.
ICU Nurse; Poor Law Student; Life Drawing Model; baby Sex Worker under decrim; violinist.
Formerly many other things.
@stefansitsstill.bsky.social
(He/Him). 🏳️🌈and🏳️⚧️ally.
Sometimes sweary.
ICU Nurse; Poor Law Student; Life Drawing Model; baby Sex Worker under decrim; violinist.
Formerly many other things.
@stefansitsstill.bsky.social
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Stefan
@stefan.bsky.social
· Apr 25
👋🏼 new followers…
I’m a former ICU nurse (& theatre & ED nurse & teacher) who burned everything as a whistleblower for safety (twice).
I’m rebuilding as an unemployed occasional nude life model for artists while studying a JD.
I play violin, I’m newly identified as ND & I’m too old for any of it.
I’m a former ICU nurse (& theatre & ED nurse & teacher) who burned everything as a whistleblower for safety (twice).
I’m rebuilding as an unemployed occasional nude life model for artists while studying a JD.
I play violin, I’m newly identified as ND & I’m too old for any of it.
I’m a bit cynical but utterly open minded, & I know there’s still a few surprises hiding that will either be good for me or not.
I’m a male survivor of FV.
(Oh & I had massive family responsibility from a very young age, so we don’t talk much & really don’t understand each other)
Just so you know
I’m a male survivor of FV.
(Oh & I had massive family responsibility from a very young age, so we don’t talk much & really don’t understand each other)
Just so you know
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Headline should read: Antivax-led FDA attributes 10 child deaths to COVID shots, offers no proof
November 29, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Headline should read: Antivax-led FDA attributes 10 child deaths to COVID shots, offers no proof
I’m not going to food shame a fascist, because I don’t know the fascists’ story.
There’s many, many reasons to shame a fascist. That ain’t one of them.
There’s many, many reasons to shame a fascist. That ain’t one of them.
November 29, 2025 at 8:58 PM
I’m not going to food shame a fascist, because I don’t know the fascists’ story.
There’s many, many reasons to shame a fascist. That ain’t one of them.
There’s many, many reasons to shame a fascist. That ain’t one of them.
So…insomnia again.
Amongst the stuff going on, someone asked me my birthday (which is in a week-ish).
It’ll be my 50th. I had plans for this one, with the bar set by my ex’s 50th ten years ago with a 7 week trip to Europe.
Anyway.
The person said I looked very good for a 50 year old. 😳😊
Amongst the stuff going on, someone asked me my birthday (which is in a week-ish).
It’ll be my 50th. I had plans for this one, with the bar set by my ex’s 50th ten years ago with a 7 week trip to Europe.
Anyway.
The person said I looked very good for a 50 year old. 😳😊
November 29, 2025 at 3:01 PM
So…insomnia again.
Amongst the stuff going on, someone asked me my birthday (which is in a week-ish).
It’ll be my 50th. I had plans for this one, with the bar set by my ex’s 50th ten years ago with a 7 week trip to Europe.
Anyway.
The person said I looked very good for a 50 year old. 😳😊
Amongst the stuff going on, someone asked me my birthday (which is in a week-ish).
It’ll be my 50th. I had plans for this one, with the bar set by my ex’s 50th ten years ago with a 7 week trip to Europe.
Anyway.
The person said I looked very good for a 50 year old. 😳😊
Please note, if you have an employee identify as AuADHD, please don’t suggest that you’ll know they “are coping when you approach and smile and one day you’ll smile back…”
It’s not going to happen that way.
And you need to listen when I ask for help, because that isn’t happening right now.
It’s not going to happen that way.
And you need to listen when I ask for help, because that isn’t happening right now.
November 29, 2025 at 1:23 PM
Please note, if you have an employee identify as AuADHD, please don’t suggest that you’ll know they “are coping when you approach and smile and one day you’ll smile back…”
It’s not going to happen that way.
And you need to listen when I ask for help, because that isn’t happening right now.
It’s not going to happen that way.
And you need to listen when I ask for help, because that isn’t happening right now.
Compare and contrast.
I get punched in the face by a patient at work.
I remain at the bedside for the shift. No one comes near me although all know. I document the incident.
The next day I’m told I should have had ABM training (which will be offered).
That’s it. 1/2
I get punched in the face by a patient at work.
I remain at the bedside for the shift. No one comes near me although all know. I document the incident.
The next day I’m told I should have had ABM training (which will be offered).
That’s it. 1/2
November 29, 2025 at 1:19 PM
Compare and contrast.
I get punched in the face by a patient at work.
I remain at the bedside for the shift. No one comes near me although all know. I document the incident.
The next day I’m told I should have had ABM training (which will be offered).
That’s it. 1/2
I get punched in the face by a patient at work.
I remain at the bedside for the shift. No one comes near me although all know. I document the incident.
The next day I’m told I should have had ABM training (which will be offered).
That’s it. 1/2
ffs autocorrect is borked.
You write a post, post it, and discover there’s a substitute word that makes it look like you failed English in high school.
Every fvcking time.
You write a post, post it, and discover there’s a substitute word that makes it look like you failed English in high school.
Every fvcking time.
November 29, 2025 at 12:06 PM
ffs autocorrect is borked.
You write a post, post it, and discover there’s a substitute word that makes it look like you failed English in high school.
Every fvcking time.
You write a post, post it, and discover there’s a substitute word that makes it look like you failed English in high school.
Every fvcking time.
Insert coins for oxygen
November 28, 2025 at 11:54 PM
Insert coins for oxygen
Ping @amellee.bsky.social
Taiwanese ambassador to Finland performs with his metal band at Taiwan-Finland cultural event! 🤘✊️
That's what I call great ambassador
That's what I call great ambassador
November 28, 2025 at 11:30 PM
Ping @amellee.bsky.social
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you've seen in the wild:
Wombats
Pademelons
Quolls
Koalas
Wedge-Tailed Eagle
(Bonus: American Eagle, but had to squint ‘cos they’re so smol)
Wombats
Pademelons
Quolls
Koalas
Wedge-Tailed Eagle
(Bonus: American Eagle, but had to squint ‘cos they’re so smol)
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you’ve seen in the wild:
Coyotes
Beavers
Raccoons
Tūī
Cougar
Coyotes
Beavers
Raccoons
Tūī
Cougar
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you've seen in the wild:
Caribou
Ravens
Seals
Kea
Turkeys
Caribou
Ravens
Seals
Kea
Turkeys
November 28, 2025 at 11:19 PM
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you've seen in the wild:
Wombats
Pademelons
Quolls
Koalas
Wedge-Tailed Eagle
(Bonus: American Eagle, but had to squint ‘cos they’re so smol)
Wombats
Pademelons
Quolls
Koalas
Wedge-Tailed Eagle
(Bonus: American Eagle, but had to squint ‘cos they’re so smol)
Reposted by Stefan
Apologies. Didn't alt-text it. Here we go.
November 28, 2025 at 9:05 PM
Apologies. Didn't alt-text it. Here we go.
Ok.
Here’s how I know what’s important. I can post.
I don’t have the energy to engage brain in serious discussions.
And I wish I had the ignorance to power through, but the lifetime of doing that probably hasn’t entirely resolved, so here we are.
#actuallyautisitic
Here’s how I know what’s important. I can post.
I don’t have the energy to engage brain in serious discussions.
And I wish I had the ignorance to power through, but the lifetime of doing that probably hasn’t entirely resolved, so here we are.
#actuallyautisitic
November 28, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Ok.
Here’s how I know what’s important. I can post.
I don’t have the energy to engage brain in serious discussions.
And I wish I had the ignorance to power through, but the lifetime of doing that probably hasn’t entirely resolved, so here we are.
#actuallyautisitic
Here’s how I know what’s important. I can post.
I don’t have the energy to engage brain in serious discussions.
And I wish I had the ignorance to power through, but the lifetime of doing that probably hasn’t entirely resolved, so here we are.
#actuallyautisitic
This is apparently what working with AuADHD looks like for me.
After being punched by a patient on Day 2, anyway.
Also, more training for me. But I knew that.
After being punched by a patient on Day 2, anyway.
Also, more training for me. But I knew that.
I need to work.
I need to have a day off.
I don’t have enough personal leave already due to the cyclone, and leave that payroll can’t log properly despite having documentation for.
I need to work.
I need a day off.
I need to have a day off.
I don’t have enough personal leave already due to the cyclone, and leave that payroll can’t log properly despite having documentation for.
I need to work.
I need a day off.
November 28, 2025 at 10:26 PM
This is apparently what working with AuADHD looks like for me.
After being punched by a patient on Day 2, anyway.
Also, more training for me. But I knew that.
After being punched by a patient on Day 2, anyway.
Also, more training for me. But I knew that.
I need to work.
I need to have a day off.
I don’t have enough personal leave already due to the cyclone, and leave that payroll can’t log properly despite having documentation for.
I need to work.
I need a day off.
I need to have a day off.
I don’t have enough personal leave already due to the cyclone, and leave that payroll can’t log properly despite having documentation for.
I need to work.
I need a day off.
November 28, 2025 at 9:48 PM
I need to work.
I need to have a day off.
I don’t have enough personal leave already due to the cyclone, and leave that payroll can’t log properly despite having documentation for.
I need to work.
I need a day off.
I need to have a day off.
I don’t have enough personal leave already due to the cyclone, and leave that payroll can’t log properly despite having documentation for.
I need to work.
I need a day off.
Reposted by Stefan
DuckDuckGo now lets you filter out AI images in search results. Obviously not infallible or exhaustive but it’s a start.
How To Filter Out AI Images in DuckDuckgo Search Results - DuckDuckGo Help Pages
Learn how to use filters on DuckDuckGo Private Search to hide AI-generated images in results.
duckduckgo.com
November 25, 2025 at 2:42 PM
DuckDuckGo now lets you filter out AI images in search results. Obviously not infallible or exhaustive but it’s a start.
Having dinner and maybe trivia in a pub.
Loops in…
Please pray for me.
(Also, Hard Rated Orange is evil)
Loops in…
Please pray for me.
(Also, Hard Rated Orange is evil)
November 25, 2025 at 8:50 AM
Having dinner and maybe trivia in a pub.
Loops in…
Please pray for me.
(Also, Hard Rated Orange is evil)
Loops in…
Please pray for me.
(Also, Hard Rated Orange is evil)
It would be great actually if BlueSky did the “account from - “ thing that X accidentally did.
I wouldn’t have to point out I’m not American all the time.
I mean, there’s not much room for nuance, but the disclaimer takes some of it.
I wouldn’t have to point out I’m not American all the time.
I mean, there’s not much room for nuance, but the disclaimer takes some of it.
November 25, 2025 at 2:09 AM
It would be great actually if BlueSky did the “account from - “ thing that X accidentally did.
I wouldn’t have to point out I’m not American all the time.
I mean, there’s not much room for nuance, but the disclaimer takes some of it.
I wouldn’t have to point out I’m not American all the time.
I mean, there’s not much room for nuance, but the disclaimer takes some of it.
Reposted by Stefan
Anderson Cooper: So it's more expensive to have a chronically homeless person living on the streets than it is to actually subsidize an apartment for them?
Answer: Yes, we’re paying more as taxpayers to walk past that person on the street and do nothing… #HousingFirst
Answer: Yes, we’re paying more as taxpayers to walk past that person on the street and do nothing… #HousingFirst
100,000 Homes: Housing the homeless saves money?
Giving apartments to the chronically homeless can save taxpayer dollars, advocates say
www.cbsnews.com
November 25, 2025 at 12:17 AM
Anderson Cooper: So it's more expensive to have a chronically homeless person living on the streets than it is to actually subsidize an apartment for them?
Answer: Yes, we’re paying more as taxpayers to walk past that person on the street and do nothing… #HousingFirst
Answer: Yes, we’re paying more as taxpayers to walk past that person on the street and do nothing… #HousingFirst
This is easy to read, understandable, and fvcking insane.
Also, the answer to the question “is it a bubble?”
Also, the answer to the question “is it a bubble?”
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November 24, 2025 at 10:45 PM
This is easy to read, understandable, and fvcking insane.
Also, the answer to the question “is it a bubble?”
Also, the answer to the question “is it a bubble?”
Reciting “Go The Fuck To Sleep” to my brain like it’s a mantra.
It’s not just babies.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=VQ_W...
It’s not just babies.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=VQ_W...
Noni Hazlehurst reads "Go the Fuck to Sleep".
YouTube video by Inertia Cat
m.youtube.com
November 24, 2025 at 1:54 PM
Reciting “Go The Fuck To Sleep” to my brain like it’s a mantra.
It’s not just babies.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=VQ_W...
It’s not just babies.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=VQ_W...
Me, only it’s now nearly midnight, my brain wakes me and I discover I accidentally liked one of my own posts today.
No, really. That’s why I’m awake.
And I did…but I’ve unliked it again now.
No, really. That’s why I’m awake.
And I did…but I’ve unliked it again now.
Lunch time as a person with AuADHD…
What’s Up? Says BlueSky’s prompt.
Oh, the usual. Overthinking, over - explaining & over - apologising for not being specific & clear enough in posts, in ever - present danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived the wrong way, in danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived.
You?
Oh, the usual. Overthinking, over - explaining & over - apologising for not being specific & clear enough in posts, in ever - present danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived the wrong way, in danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived.
You?
November 24, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Me, only it’s now nearly midnight, my brain wakes me and I discover I accidentally liked one of my own posts today.
No, really. That’s why I’m awake.
And I did…but I’ve unliked it again now.
No, really. That’s why I’m awake.
And I did…but I’ve unliked it again now.
“With a fucking pencil…Charlie Brown”
That "fuckin' nobody"... is John Wick, Charlie Brown.
I see dead people, Charlie Brown
November 24, 2025 at 4:23 AM
“With a fucking pencil…Charlie Brown”
Reposted by Stefan
"What sits underneath this change is the same damaging assumption that drove Robodebt: that people on Centrelink are not to be trusted.
The mere fact of needing income support becomes grounds for suspicion. Poverty itself becomes a kind of evidence."
#AusPol
#AlboTheAuthoritarian
The mere fact of needing income support becomes grounds for suspicion. Poverty itself becomes a kind of evidence."
#AusPol
#AlboTheAuthoritarian
Poverty is not evidence, the presumption of innocence must apply to everyone
In the final days of October, the Federal Government quietly inserted a last-minute amendment into an unrelated bill. It has been trying to rush through a change that would allow police and the Home A...
thepoint.com.au
November 24, 2025 at 3:31 AM
"What sits underneath this change is the same damaging assumption that drove Robodebt: that people on Centrelink are not to be trusted.
The mere fact of needing income support becomes grounds for suspicion. Poverty itself becomes a kind of evidence."
#AusPol
#AlboTheAuthoritarian
The mere fact of needing income support becomes grounds for suspicion. Poverty itself becomes a kind of evidence."
#AusPol
#AlboTheAuthoritarian
This, but the white nationalist is from another country himself.
If I’m understanding this correctly, X is owned by a white nationalist who pays poor people of color in developing countries to pretend to be working class white Americans to scare other white Americans into being afraid poor people of color from developing countries are going to ruin America?
November 24, 2025 at 3:01 AM
This, but the white nationalist is from another country himself.
Lunch time as a person with AuADHD…
What’s Up? Says BlueSky’s prompt.
Oh, the usual. Overthinking, over - explaining & over - apologising for not being specific & clear enough in posts, in ever - present danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived the wrong way, in danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived.
You?
Oh, the usual. Overthinking, over - explaining & over - apologising for not being specific & clear enough in posts, in ever - present danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived the wrong way, in danger of not sleeping because I might be perceived.
You?
November 24, 2025 at 2:58 AM
Lunch time as a person with AuADHD…