became an unconscious bias against myself After years of failed relationships, a marriage to a good man that just didnt work, other relationships with not good men, I thought it was me, I was broken. Maybe I'm ACE, maybe I'm Demi. But even with deep emotional relationships something was missing 4/n
January 24, 2026 at 3:47 PM
became an unconscious bias against myself After years of failed relationships, a marriage to a good man that just didnt work, other relationships with not good men, I thought it was me, I was broken. Maybe I'm ACE, maybe I'm Demi. But even with deep emotional relationships something was missing 4/n
Given the number of sexually proactive hucows, holstaurs and just plain demi human cow girls I know all being sexually rambunctious it would be interesting to meet one who is that Ace.
January 24, 2026 at 3:56 AM
Given the number of sexually proactive hucows, holstaurs and just plain demi human cow girls I know all being sexually rambunctious it would be interesting to meet one who is that Ace.
★ sobre mim ! ;D
idade: 24
comida fav: macarrão
faculdade: n faço
cor fav: todas
signo: sagitario
mbti: a ultima vez q eu vi era infp
cabelo: raspado
olhos: castanhos
sexualidade: demi lesbica ace
solteiro: sim 😩
idade: 24
comida fav: macarrão
faculdade: n faço
cor fav: todas
signo: sagitario
mbti: a ultima vez q eu vi era infp
cabelo: raspado
olhos: castanhos
sexualidade: demi lesbica ace
solteiro: sim 😩
January 23, 2026 at 10:13 PM
★ sobre mim ! ;D
idade: 24
comida fav: macarrão
faculdade: n faço
cor fav: todas
signo: sagitario
mbti: a ultima vez q eu vi era infp
cabelo: raspado
olhos: castanhos
sexualidade: demi lesbica ace
solteiro: sim 😩
idade: 24
comida fav: macarrão
faculdade: n faço
cor fav: todas
signo: sagitario
mbti: a ultima vez q eu vi era infp
cabelo: raspado
olhos: castanhos
sexualidade: demi lesbica ace
solteiro: sim 😩
LOL yes! it’s weird for me being ace/demi bc i can find someone super attractive (mostly personality-wise) but eww no touch 🤣 ever since high school ppl thought i was crazy
January 23, 2026 at 8:24 PM
LOL yes! it’s weird for me being ace/demi bc i can find someone super attractive (mostly personality-wise) but eww no touch 🤣 ever since high school ppl thought i was crazy
(I am also still on the ace spectrum. I even still ID the same way I have since I was a teen in being demi, so the consistency is there for me too. No matter what changes I make or what I question I seem to circle back around to the same sexuality lol)
January 23, 2026 at 6:38 PM
(I am also still on the ace spectrum. I even still ID the same way I have since I was a teen in being demi, so the consistency is there for me too. No matter what changes I make or what I question I seem to circle back around to the same sexuality lol)
I don’t know to what level you want the discussion, but my fic has an ace/demi-Stede awakening that he works through, heavy in some parts. Very slow burn, if that’s your thing.
archiveofourown.org/works/606381...
archiveofourown.org/works/606381...
archiveofourown.org
January 23, 2026 at 3:56 AM
I don’t know to what level you want the discussion, but my fic has an ace/demi-Stede awakening that he works through, heavy in some parts. Very slow burn, if that’s your thing.
archiveofourown.org/works/606381...
archiveofourown.org/works/606381...
Yeah, it's also kind of why I wrote it. I think the surprise of its absence has value.
Everyone feels fulfilled without it.
Likely it's just twanging my own insecurity, as I'm demi and so a bit between ace and not ace.
Everyone feels fulfilled without it.
Likely it's just twanging my own insecurity, as I'm demi and so a bit between ace and not ace.
January 22, 2026 at 11:29 PM
Yeah, it's also kind of why I wrote it. I think the surprise of its absence has value.
Everyone feels fulfilled without it.
Likely it's just twanging my own insecurity, as I'm demi and so a bit between ace and not ace.
Everyone feels fulfilled without it.
Likely it's just twanging my own insecurity, as I'm demi and so a bit between ace and not ace.
For the sake of future writing projects, I need to at some point talk to aroace peeps about their experiences.
While I am on the ace spectrum by virtue of being demi, I'd rather hear from people who are actually aroace before I go writing things as I imagine them.
While I am on the ace spectrum by virtue of being demi, I'd rather hear from people who are actually aroace before I go writing things as I imagine them.
January 22, 2026 at 7:09 PM
For the sake of future writing projects, I need to at some point talk to aroace peeps about their experiences.
While I am on the ace spectrum by virtue of being demi, I'd rather hear from people who are actually aroace before I go writing things as I imagine them.
While I am on the ace spectrum by virtue of being demi, I'd rather hear from people who are actually aroace before I go writing things as I imagine them.
Rep: mlm, ace-demi main character, late-blooming bisexual love interest, ace-demi side characters
CWs: attempted sexual assault, brief homophobia, discrimination, abuse, graphic violence, torture, imprisonment, neglect, starvation, kidnapping, genocide, death
CWs: attempted sexual assault, brief homophobia, discrimination, abuse, graphic violence, torture, imprisonment, neglect, starvation, kidnapping, genocide, death
January 22, 2026 at 6:36 PM
Rep: mlm, ace-demi main character, late-blooming bisexual love interest, ace-demi side characters
CWs: attempted sexual assault, brief homophobia, discrimination, abuse, graphic violence, torture, imprisonment, neglect, starvation, kidnapping, genocide, death
CWs: attempted sexual assault, brief homophobia, discrimination, abuse, graphic violence, torture, imprisonment, neglect, starvation, kidnapping, genocide, death
Just because im demi/ace at the moment doesn't mean im not still a huge pervert.
January 22, 2026 at 5:59 PM
Just because im demi/ace at the moment doesn't mean im not still a huge pervert.
n é mt longe daq nao
eu sou ace e lésbica, a Luise é bi e acha q é demi...
Ja a Flan a gente n tem ideia so sabemos q é horny pra krl, e a Lilian o maximo q conseguimos rotular é q ela "gosta de uma putaria"
eu sou ace e lésbica, a Luise é bi e acha q é demi...
Ja a Flan a gente n tem ideia so sabemos q é horny pra krl, e a Lilian o maximo q conseguimos rotular é q ela "gosta de uma putaria"
January 22, 2026 at 2:43 AM
n é mt longe daq nao
eu sou ace e lésbica, a Luise é bi e acha q é demi...
Ja a Flan a gente n tem ideia so sabemos q é horny pra krl, e a Lilian o maximo q conseguimos rotular é q ela "gosta de uma putaria"
eu sou ace e lésbica, a Luise é bi e acha q é demi...
Ja a Flan a gente n tem ideia so sabemos q é horny pra krl, e a Lilian o maximo q conseguimos rotular é q ela "gosta de uma putaria"
🟠 honestly we read Howard as ace/demi with how he responds to sex with rye bemusement, sarcastic dismissal and annoyance, or total flustered confusion (this movie is great btws)
January 21, 2026 at 11:00 PM
🟠 honestly we read Howard as ace/demi with how he responds to sex with rye bemusement, sarcastic dismissal and annoyance, or total flustered confusion (this movie is great btws)
nothing has ever made me feel more ace than this fandom between learning what demi is through eddie fic and discovering all of you who want to bite and bark and shit are serious 😭 i am so obliviously not built the same.
January 21, 2026 at 8:19 PM
nothing has ever made me feel more ace than this fandom between learning what demi is through eddie fic and discovering all of you who want to bite and bark and shit are serious 😭 i am so obliviously not built the same.
Anway …
“Bean Counter” is likely to have a lot of themes that are relatable regarding a relationship with a Demi-Aro/Ace-Autistic-Queer whose Special Interest drives are strong enough to he deleterious to our health.
“Bean Counter” is likely to have a lot of themes that are relatable regarding a relationship with a Demi-Aro/Ace-Autistic-Queer whose Special Interest drives are strong enough to he deleterious to our health.
January 21, 2026 at 4:28 PM
Anway …
“Bean Counter” is likely to have a lot of themes that are relatable regarding a relationship with a Demi-Aro/Ace-Autistic-Queer whose Special Interest drives are strong enough to he deleterious to our health.
“Bean Counter” is likely to have a lot of themes that are relatable regarding a relationship with a Demi-Aro/Ace-Autistic-Queer whose Special Interest drives are strong enough to he deleterious to our health.
A couple "otherwises"
Xela - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Wilma - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Suri - Lesbian
Felicia/Celia - Lesbian
Xela - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Wilma - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Suri - Lesbian
Felicia/Celia - Lesbian
January 21, 2026 at 4:02 PM
A couple "otherwises"
Xela - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Wilma - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Suri - Lesbian
Felicia/Celia - Lesbian
Xela - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Wilma - Ace/Demi, NO NSFW
Suri - Lesbian
Felicia/Celia - Lesbian
Rach is ace, but sheis of the demi/aego spectrum. She's not sex replused either. She just never thinks about herself when it comes to sex, but she's down to do the deed if her partner shows interest, and she does get into it since she has that bond with them.
January 21, 2026 at 5:27 AM
Rach is ace, but sheis of the demi/aego spectrum. She's not sex replused either. She just never thinks about herself when it comes to sex, but she's down to do the deed if her partner shows interest, and she does get into it since she has that bond with them.
tbh i fall somewhere on the ace spectrum because ive tried the real deal and either im demi and lost feelings for the guy or the act just plainly repulses me 😭 crazy how kinks and shit work
January 21, 2026 at 2:40 AM
tbh i fall somewhere on the ace spectrum because ive tried the real deal and either im demi and lost feelings for the guy or the act just plainly repulses me 😭 crazy how kinks and shit work
As a #Demi #BiLesbian who’s had people get Big Mad™️ that I honor both my sexual and romantic attractions and insist that I “can’t call myself this” (fuck off; Bi Lesbians have been around since at least the 90’s)
I am BEYOND EXCITED to see how Alastor’s Ace journey plays out!
I am BEYOND EXCITED to see how Alastor’s Ace journey plays out!
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January 21, 2026 at 2:15 AM
As a #Demi #BiLesbian who’s had people get Big Mad™️ that I honor both my sexual and romantic attractions and insist that I “can’t call myself this” (fuck off; Bi Lesbians have been around since at least the 90’s)
I am BEYOND EXCITED to see how Alastor’s Ace journey plays out!
I am BEYOND EXCITED to see how Alastor’s Ace journey plays out!
As one who's moved back and forth along the ace/demi spectrum all his adult life (currently demi), Ace-ness is perfectly natural and normal, and no one should make you feel any less of a person because of it.
January 21, 2026 at 1:36 AM
As one who's moved back and forth along the ace/demi spectrum all his adult life (currently demi), Ace-ness is perfectly natural and normal, and no one should make you feel any less of a person because of it.
Is it that he's demi or gray ace? Is it that he is alloromantic even if not ace? Is it compulsive allonormativity??
But yeah most people don't like Mammon bc he is a massive cuntwaffle and I'm afraid he can't compete with the raw Tumblr sexy man energy of Alastor
But yeah most people don't like Mammon bc he is a massive cuntwaffle and I'm afraid he can't compete with the raw Tumblr sexy man energy of Alastor
January 21, 2026 at 12:28 AM
Is it that he's demi or gray ace? Is it that he is alloromantic even if not ace? Is it compulsive allonormativity??
But yeah most people don't like Mammon bc he is a massive cuntwaffle and I'm afraid he can't compete with the raw Tumblr sexy man energy of Alastor
But yeah most people don't like Mammon bc he is a massive cuntwaffle and I'm afraid he can't compete with the raw Tumblr sexy man energy of Alastor
I'm really curious about this too. 🤔 its tricky to navigate. I'm on the ace spectrum too (demi) but also don't have an answer. 😆
January 20, 2026 at 11:37 PM
I'm really curious about this too. 🤔 its tricky to navigate. I'm on the ace spectrum too (demi) but also don't have an answer. 😆
That is so disappointing and again, sadly not surprising.
I'm on the ace spectrum myself (demi) and any ace rep that gets rep is valid. It's not at all hard to empathise, to understand and put yourself in another's shoes. It doesn't need to be YOUR rep to be valuable
I'm on the ace spectrum myself (demi) and any ace rep that gets rep is valid. It's not at all hard to empathise, to understand and put yourself in another's shoes. It doesn't need to be YOUR rep to be valuable
January 20, 2026 at 11:06 PM
That is so disappointing and again, sadly not surprising.
I'm on the ace spectrum myself (demi) and any ace rep that gets rep is valid. It's not at all hard to empathise, to understand and put yourself in another's shoes. It doesn't need to be YOUR rep to be valuable
I'm on the ace spectrum myself (demi) and any ace rep that gets rep is valid. It's not at all hard to empathise, to understand and put yourself in another's shoes. It doesn't need to be YOUR rep to be valuable
Hello there, fellow ace! :)
Well he is actually right hahahh
We can be horny and kinky af ;P
At least I know I am 😎
Btw I also think I am demi but definitely ace xD
Well he is actually right hahahh
We can be horny and kinky af ;P
At least I know I am 😎
Btw I also think I am demi but definitely ace xD
January 20, 2026 at 10:57 PM
Hello there, fellow ace! :)
Well he is actually right hahahh
We can be horny and kinky af ;P
At least I know I am 😎
Btw I also think I am demi but definitely ace xD
Well he is actually right hahahh
We can be horny and kinky af ;P
At least I know I am 😎
Btw I also think I am demi but definitely ace xD
From I got, people got defensive over their headcanons about Al's asexuality being threatened by canon. Because, in their heads, if he isn't THEIR specific type of ace, he's not good representation, regardless where he falls (aro, allo, demi, gray, sex-repulsed or neutral etc.), ship or no ship
January 20, 2026 at 10:54 PM
From I got, people got defensive over their headcanons about Al's asexuality being threatened by canon. Because, in their heads, if he isn't THEIR specific type of ace, he's not good representation, regardless where he falls (aro, allo, demi, gray, sex-repulsed or neutral etc.), ship or no ship
Actively hostile on first interaction? - either block or act hostile towards in turn.
Im also Demisexual and within that spectrum only interested in or feel hetero attraction. Have had many in the aro-ace community invalidate me because of being Demi and not being the classic definition of it
Im also Demisexual and within that spectrum only interested in or feel hetero attraction. Have had many in the aro-ace community invalidate me because of being Demi and not being the classic definition of it
January 20, 2026 at 6:48 PM
Actively hostile on first interaction? - either block or act hostile towards in turn.
Im also Demisexual and within that spectrum only interested in or feel hetero attraction. Have had many in the aro-ace community invalidate me because of being Demi and not being the classic definition of it
Im also Demisexual and within that spectrum only interested in or feel hetero attraction. Have had many in the aro-ace community invalidate me because of being Demi and not being the classic definition of it