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Valeficent 🐍 (The KDrama 🔌)
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Watching the Penthouse War In Life backwards tonight.
November 26, 2025 at 3:52 AM
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I remember my 18 year old cousin brought a 36 year old woman to Christmas dinner. She got cussed out, kicked out, and almost killed by my entire family
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 10:52 PM
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Yall my rapist has been harassing, stalking and tormenting me.

But I need gas and to get food. My bank is $-187.

Please help if you can. Please
November 25, 2025 at 11:01 PM
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I believe in ol fashioned ass whoopings. Some shit deserve to be handled in the streets.
ESPECIALLY when it comes to children.

Crappy step parent (no matter the gender)?? Beat they ass

Family member being nasty towards them? Beat they ass.

Predator/predatory ass adults etc?

BEAT
THEY
ASS
November 25, 2025 at 8:46 PM
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I love this job already.

I finally work with black women who feel like big sisters and not the ones who kinda look down on you 🥹

I don’t have to code switch, I can dress down, we can make OUR jokes (we just finished kiki’ng about the potluck lol). It’s so nice, especially for this field 😭
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November 25, 2025 at 7:37 PM
......a whole nightmare omg
Biiiiiiiiiiiiiitch one of my coworkers just told me she caught her man with another woman in bed THIS MORNING!

They live together.

She went out of town OVERNIGHT and stopped by the house this morning to get something instead of coming straight to work, like she planned.
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November 25, 2025 at 9:23 PM
A non Kneegrow forcing Kneegrow Vernacular sounds so robotic. 😭 like you're just repeating phrases on t shirts.
November 25, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Chile they can assimilate as much as they want. They're still going to be sounding robotic 😭💀
For context, here's the post I originally stumbled on.

Cousins/chat, what y'all think? Dish the deets in my DMs cause I think we need to gatekeep personally.
November 25, 2025 at 9:14 PM
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Street justice be getting the job done sometimes 🤷🏾‍♀️
November 25, 2025 at 8:53 PM
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Y'all might ideologically be against predators, but y'all don't reflect that in your social behaviors. Because if you did and you heard this your knee jerk reaction would be trying to find a way to get that child away from that man. Not scheming on ways to hold her accountable
November 25, 2025 at 8:54 PM
What pisses me off is hearing the Deflection takes about the family predator. For the sake of whatever connection folks don't want to break they will ignore sa.
Whether charges have been filed or not.
November 25, 2025 at 8:41 PM
Way too many stories.
Hearing about the adults who failed everybody just ticks me off.
And you’ll get pushback about drama and whatnot but I think we all either have or know someone who has stories about looking back and wishing someone had looked out for us when we didn’t know any better.

This is how we start. You gotta be willing to shake some shit.
November 25, 2025 at 8:38 PM
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Some of these responses are a very good look into the problem our community has with not protecting children, continuing cycles of victim blaming while the real predator gets off light.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 7:48 PM
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Forget thanksgiving pull up on him.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 6:53 PM
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HE is outta pocket. SHE is a child. All the adults in her life are outta pocket SHE is a CHILD.
November 25, 2025 at 7:24 PM
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If you love her, you’ll report him to the authorities. Period.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 6:16 PM
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A 20 something year old come running behind my minor and ima beat the fuck outta them.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 6:20 PM
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My brother, that is not "dating." And family who are aware and haven't intervened is certainly complicit in this statutory relationship.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 6:27 PM
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Look, I’ll level with you: I assume my brothers know better, but if I catch any one of my nieces in this kinda situation, I’m fucking him up, I’m fucking my brother up, and then I’m slapping the shit outta everyone that takes exception to it. No family I’m a part of is lettin this shit rock, period.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 7:02 PM
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I believe in whooping ass but since it’s clear nobody in your family wants to beat his ass, just call the cops. Seriously. If you have any evidence that they’re actually dating, calling the cops on him even if he doesn’t get arrested will scare him. Nobody wants the police banging on their door
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 7:12 PM
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Some of the responses to this are weird. He’s not her parent & doesn’t control the household she resides in.

HOWEVER, I agree that y’all should put hands on him (& whoever has allowed it to even get to this point) 👐🏽
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 7:47 PM
I'm sorry why are yall telling that man to invite the predator over to Thanksgiving??? That man doesn't need anymore solidified comfortability in pursuing a teenage girl....
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November 25, 2025 at 8:13 PM
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Absolutely not. Do not offer comfort or cover for this strange relationship. Let her be mad. She won't stay mad cuz that shit won't last past summer.
You excluding them will help. Tension & stress need to be added to help break them up. Glad you're doing your part.
My 16 year old niece is dating a 20 something year old and trying to bring him to my house for Thanksgiving

NO!

So I know she not gonna come which makes me sad AF

And I can't go too hard because you can't tell nobody how to raise they kids

BUT NO!
November 25, 2025 at 7:58 PM
Influencers went from creative balls of energy to underpaid infomercial actors in just a decade. Crazy.
November 25, 2025 at 5:30 PM
That Shemar Moore macaroni and cheese on the skyline needs seasoning ,breadcrumbs and broiling.
November 25, 2025 at 2:21 PM