Nate-tivity
@deviate-ink.bsky.social
He/Him Manchester UK -- LGBT 🏳️🌈 Kink
Folk 🎧 Punk 🎻 Ambient -- Coffee ☕ Cooking
RPGs 🎲 Tabletop 📚 Fantasy Sci-Fi Reading
Folk 🎧 Punk 🎻 Ambient -- Coffee ☕ Cooking
RPGs 🎲 Tabletop 📚 Fantasy Sci-Fi Reading
ONE MORE SLEEP!!!!
Bf's family are lovely but it's been a week of masking and biting my tongue
Longing to fly home
To stim, sing and talk to myself
Kitten cuddles
Eat rubbish and drink alcohol without feeling guilty/judged
Recover from being this weird version of myself
Bf's family are lovely but it's been a week of masking and biting my tongue
Longing to fly home
To stim, sing and talk to myself
Kitten cuddles
Eat rubbish and drink alcohol without feeling guilty/judged
Recover from being this weird version of myself
December 26, 2025 at 11:50 PM
ONE MORE SLEEP!!!!
Bf's family are lovely but it's been a week of masking and biting my tongue
Longing to fly home
To stim, sing and talk to myself
Kitten cuddles
Eat rubbish and drink alcohol without feeling guilty/judged
Recover from being this weird version of myself
Bf's family are lovely but it's been a week of masking and biting my tongue
Longing to fly home
To stim, sing and talk to myself
Kitten cuddles
Eat rubbish and drink alcohol without feeling guilty/judged
Recover from being this weird version of myself
Mad panic as I lost my passport on day of travel
It was in the craft drawer with all the pens and paints obviously!
It was in the craft drawer with all the pens and paints obviously!
December 21, 2025 at 10:58 AM
Mad panic as I lost my passport on day of travel
It was in the craft drawer with all the pens and paints obviously!
It was in the craft drawer with all the pens and paints obviously!
Really amuses me that my main xmas present from boyf was going to be a back up gift for his 7 year old nephew if I didn't like it.
Sorry nephew, I'm too much of a big kid!
Sorry nephew, I'm too much of a big kid!
December 20, 2025 at 1:53 PM
Really amuses me that my main xmas present from boyf was going to be a back up gift for his 7 year old nephew if I didn't like it.
Sorry nephew, I'm too much of a big kid!
Sorry nephew, I'm too much of a big kid!
Xmas tomorrow!
The benefit of spending Xmas in Ireland with bfs family is having our own mini one before travelling and opening the pressies we got each other ☺️
The benefit of spending Xmas in Ireland with bfs family is having our own mini one before travelling and opening the pressies we got each other ☺️
December 20, 2025 at 12:55 AM
Xmas tomorrow!
The benefit of spending Xmas in Ireland with bfs family is having our own mini one before travelling and opening the pressies we got each other ☺️
The benefit of spending Xmas in Ireland with bfs family is having our own mini one before travelling and opening the pressies we got each other ☺️
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Of all the sins of AI, this is an unexpected and deeply annoying one
Funny animal videos no longer being trustworthy just fucking sucks all around. I love the wonder of animal behavior and what it says about the experience of being alive. It's because it happened in reality that it's so fun. It's not fun if it was just made up. There's no wonder there.
December 19, 2025 at 2:36 AM
Of all the sins of AI, this is an unexpected and deeply annoying one
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This is called ‘Twenty Modern-Day Proverbs’.
December 19, 2025 at 9:07 AM
This is called ‘Twenty Modern-Day Proverbs’.
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😂
grimch
December 19, 2025 at 9:30 AM
😂
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A gay friend of my dad's came back from holiday, having seen NFL and excitedly declared, "I've discovered 'Rugby: The Musical'"
December 17, 2025 at 1:29 AM
A gay friend of my dad's came back from holiday, having seen NFL and excitedly declared, "I've discovered 'Rugby: The Musical'"
I think the age of streaming has resulted in 4+ hour playlists rather than the carefully curated mixtapes we'd make when we were limited to what would fit on a cd.
Does anyone else still create mixtapes/playlists with an intentionally limited number of tracks?
Or create them for specific people?
Does anyone else still create mixtapes/playlists with an intentionally limited number of tracks?
Or create them for specific people?
Hello. I would like to celebrate the lost art of the compilation album as an eye and ear opening path into pleasures previously unknown. It might be a sampler, it might be a mix album but it's a person's singular vision of a particular genre or theme. Thread below of some favourites
December 16, 2025 at 5:21 PM
I think the age of streaming has resulted in 4+ hour playlists rather than the carefully curated mixtapes we'd make when we were limited to what would fit on a cd.
Does anyone else still create mixtapes/playlists with an intentionally limited number of tracks?
Or create them for specific people?
Does anyone else still create mixtapes/playlists with an intentionally limited number of tracks?
Or create them for specific people?
Love this post!
I love both of the Bugged In mixes by Erol Alkan for the unexpected breadth of genres and decades they covered allowing me to discover new artists
Similar vibe with Trentemøller's Harbour Boat trip mixes
I love both of the Bugged In mixes by Erol Alkan for the unexpected breadth of genres and decades they covered allowing me to discover new artists
Similar vibe with Trentemøller's Harbour Boat trip mixes
Hello. I would like to celebrate the lost art of the compilation album as an eye and ear opening path into pleasures previously unknown. It might be a sampler, it might be a mix album but it's a person's singular vision of a particular genre or theme. Thread below of some favourites
December 16, 2025 at 5:17 PM
Love this post!
I love both of the Bugged In mixes by Erol Alkan for the unexpected breadth of genres and decades they covered allowing me to discover new artists
Similar vibe with Trentemøller's Harbour Boat trip mixes
I love both of the Bugged In mixes by Erol Alkan for the unexpected breadth of genres and decades they covered allowing me to discover new artists
Similar vibe with Trentemøller's Harbour Boat trip mixes
I've been struggling the last few months, unable to focus during the workday and doing the work out of hours instead.
I don't know what's causing it, as folks at work are lovely and not unreasonable.
In my free time decision paralysis is taking over, spending all my time figuring out what to do.
I don't know what's causing it, as folks at work are lovely and not unreasonable.
In my free time decision paralysis is taking over, spending all my time figuring out what to do.
December 16, 2025 at 4:42 PM
I've been struggling the last few months, unable to focus during the workday and doing the work out of hours instead.
I don't know what's causing it, as folks at work are lovely and not unreasonable.
In my free time decision paralysis is taking over, spending all my time figuring out what to do.
I don't know what's causing it, as folks at work are lovely and not unreasonable.
In my free time decision paralysis is taking over, spending all my time figuring out what to do.
PJs + Hot Chocolate + Gremlins
December 15, 2025 at 6:58 PM
PJs + Hot Chocolate + Gremlins
I changed my name 17 years ago (just name not pronouns or gender). I'd never been happy with my birthname and I decided to make the best of our entire office being laid off, using that as an opportunity for a clean switch.
I gave the family a few months heads up as I knew they wouldn't be happy
I gave the family a few months heads up as I knew they wouldn't be happy
my niblings were *three and six* when i came out to that side of the family, with my new name and they/them pronouns. they switched immediately and got it right 97% of the time, and corrected all the adults around them who misspoke
“How do I explain trans people to my kids”
mate, what are you explaining? “Kids, this is Mr Jay, would you like to wave or fistbump or shake hands?”
what is there to explain beyond “here’s a person”
mate, what are you explaining? “Kids, this is Mr Jay, would you like to wave or fistbump or shake hands?”
what is there to explain beyond “here’s a person”
December 15, 2025 at 4:34 PM
I changed my name 17 years ago (just name not pronouns or gender). I'd never been happy with my birthname and I decided to make the best of our entire office being laid off, using that as an opportunity for a clean switch.
I gave the family a few months heads up as I knew they wouldn't be happy
I gave the family a few months heads up as I knew they wouldn't be happy
Eugh EE trying to con me by telling me they're giving me a free* tablet when I had to phone to renew the broadband
* they didn't mention the extra tenner a month I'd have to pay for data, despite me specifically saying I didn't have much use for a tablet. They lied saying it was cheapest deal
* they didn't mention the extra tenner a month I'd have to pay for data, despite me specifically saying I didn't have much use for a tablet. They lied saying it was cheapest deal
December 12, 2025 at 4:59 PM
Eugh EE trying to con me by telling me they're giving me a free* tablet when I had to phone to renew the broadband
* they didn't mention the extra tenner a month I'd have to pay for data, despite me specifically saying I didn't have much use for a tablet. They lied saying it was cheapest deal
* they didn't mention the extra tenner a month I'd have to pay for data, despite me specifically saying I didn't have much use for a tablet. They lied saying it was cheapest deal
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♫ 12 drummers drumming
♫ 11 pipers piping
♫ 10 lords a-leaping
♫ 9 ladies dancing
♫ 8 maids a-milking
♫ 7 swans a-swimming
♫ 6 geese a-laying
♫
♫ 11 pipers piping
♫ 10 lords a-leaping
♫ 9 ladies dancing
♫ 8 maids a-milking
♫ 7 swans a-swimming
♫ 6 geese a-laying
♫
December 12, 2025 at 1:27 PM
♫ 12 drummers drumming
♫ 11 pipers piping
♫ 10 lords a-leaping
♫ 9 ladies dancing
♫ 8 maids a-milking
♫ 7 swans a-swimming
♫ 6 geese a-laying
♫
♫ 11 pipers piping
♫ 10 lords a-leaping
♫ 9 ladies dancing
♫ 8 maids a-milking
♫ 7 swans a-swimming
♫ 6 geese a-laying
♫
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i stand by this statement every year
December 12, 2025 at 1:27 AM
i stand by this statement every year
For months I've thought someone has been talking about a cat and it only dawned on me today they've been referring to their partner when they mentioned that 'the bear' takes lukewarm showers
They even posted conversations and I just assumed they were imagined conversations with the cat (like I do)
They even posted conversations and I just assumed they were imagined conversations with the cat (like I do)
December 12, 2025 at 9:49 AM
For months I've thought someone has been talking about a cat and it only dawned on me today they've been referring to their partner when they mentioned that 'the bear' takes lukewarm showers
They even posted conversations and I just assumed they were imagined conversations with the cat (like I do)
They even posted conversations and I just assumed they were imagined conversations with the cat (like I do)
Probably @karu1402.bsky.social cos always looks like he makes good scran
Whilst scrolling through here, I got to wondering which person you follow on here you'd choose to cook for you.
I'd choose @mandapen.bsky.social. Who would you choose?
I'd choose @mandapen.bsky.social. Who would you choose?
December 11, 2025 at 11:29 PM
Probably @karu1402.bsky.social cos always looks like he makes good scran
#Pathfinder2e Playing a tanuki monk in (based somewhat on the personality of Avatar's Uncle Iroh). Starting to get to grips with how he plays.
Online games mean we can play with Kev's friends over in Ireland. Looking forward to catching up in person when we visit family over Xmas
Online games mean we can play with Kev's friends over in Ireland. Looking forward to catching up in person when we visit family over Xmas
December 10, 2025 at 11:21 PM
#Pathfinder2e Playing a tanuki monk in (based somewhat on the personality of Avatar's Uncle Iroh). Starting to get to grips with how he plays.
Online games mean we can play with Kev's friends over in Ireland. Looking forward to catching up in person when we visit family over Xmas
Online games mean we can play with Kev's friends over in Ireland. Looking forward to catching up in person when we visit family over Xmas
Not naming folks who might not appreciate the attention but thanks to those who post their anxieties, doubts + quirks. To those sharing their small wins and petty annoyances.
I fret and self-edit far too much (getting better with it) but your posts are so validating
Sending good vibes your way x
I fret and self-edit far too much (getting better with it) but your posts are so validating
Sending good vibes your way x
December 10, 2025 at 3:41 PM
Not naming folks who might not appreciate the attention but thanks to those who post their anxieties, doubts + quirks. To those sharing their small wins and petty annoyances.
I fret and self-edit far too much (getting better with it) but your posts are so validating
Sending good vibes your way x
I fret and self-edit far too much (getting better with it) but your posts are so validating
Sending good vibes your way x
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many things - owl things, crow things, skull things - available in my shop. last posting date for most of them is a week tomorrow 👀 #art #printmaking shop.frankduffy.co.uk
December 10, 2025 at 8:49 AM
many things - owl things, crow things, skull things - available in my shop. last posting date for most of them is a week tomorrow 👀 #art #printmaking shop.frankduffy.co.uk
Saw Pillion at cinema, entirely male audience made up of 3 couples and one solo.
Snuck in a flask filled with homemade gin martinis. Don't judge, it kept them cool and you're only jealous you didn't think of it first.
No spoilers/reviews until @ayrtonobrien.bsky.social has seen so we can discuss
Snuck in a flask filled with homemade gin martinis. Don't judge, it kept them cool and you're only jealous you didn't think of it first.
No spoilers/reviews until @ayrtonobrien.bsky.social has seen so we can discuss
December 9, 2025 at 11:25 PM
Saw Pillion at cinema, entirely male audience made up of 3 couples and one solo.
Snuck in a flask filled with homemade gin martinis. Don't judge, it kept them cool and you're only jealous you didn't think of it first.
No spoilers/reviews until @ayrtonobrien.bsky.social has seen so we can discuss
Snuck in a flask filled with homemade gin martinis. Don't judge, it kept them cool and you're only jealous you didn't think of it first.
No spoilers/reviews until @ayrtonobrien.bsky.social has seen so we can discuss
Wrapping xmas presents today:
Masking tape ✅
Parcel tape ✅
Duct tape ✅
Plumbing tape ✅
Washi tape ✅
Cellotape?- hiding for it's life!
Masking tape ✅
Parcel tape ✅
Duct tape ✅
Plumbing tape ✅
Washi tape ✅
Cellotape?- hiding for it's life!
December 6, 2025 at 4:39 PM
Wrapping xmas presents today:
Masking tape ✅
Parcel tape ✅
Duct tape ✅
Plumbing tape ✅
Washi tape ✅
Cellotape?- hiding for it's life!
Masking tape ✅
Parcel tape ✅
Duct tape ✅
Plumbing tape ✅
Washi tape ✅
Cellotape?- hiding for it's life!
Staying cosy indoors on this wet afternoon spinning @ellenbethabdi.bsky.social on vinyl. Bliss!
December 6, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Staying cosy indoors on this wet afternoon spinning @ellenbethabdi.bsky.social on vinyl. Bliss!