Grunkle Harm
@harmonwest.bsky.social
Midwestern writer, movie watcher, perv about town. He/him. Here as mental health allows, but don't count on it. Trans himbo. Writing lives on my site: harmcox.ghost.io. I don't DM but I do reply to Venmo @harmcoxrules.
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Grunkle Harm
@harmonwest.bsky.social
· Jan 21
Apocalypse From Now On
The apocalypse is new to some of you. For queer people, it's been here a while. Who wants to die for art?
harmcox.ghost.io
Hello new friends! I'm Harm Cox and I'm a transmasc culture writer that loves horror movies and porn.
I just got laid off from my last reliable gig so your subscriptions and donations mean the world to me. If you want to support trans folks, here I am 🙏
I just got laid off from my last reliable gig so your subscriptions and donations mean the world to me. If you want to support trans folks, here I am 🙏
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i am thinking about how I was the first and only person to make a butthole surfers steven universe amv
January 18, 2026 at 3:15 PM
i am thinking about how I was the first and only person to make a butthole surfers steven universe amv
JOHN WICK 4 rules because it dedicates zero time to explaining things and three hours to the coolest shit you've ever seen in your life, which is the correct ratio for an action movie sequel
January 18, 2026 at 3:47 AM
JOHN WICK 4 rules because it dedicates zero time to explaining things and three hours to the coolest shit you've ever seen in your life, which is the correct ratio for an action movie sequel
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Remember when video game magazines would print these nonchalantly and not explain what the fuck it was
"Hey kids here's what Steve Austin would look like if you skinned his face and put it on the floor"
"Hey kids here's what Steve Austin would look like if you skinned his face and put it on the floor"
January 17, 2026 at 11:03 PM
Remember when video game magazines would print these nonchalantly and not explain what the fuck it was
"Hey kids here's what Steve Austin would look like if you skinned his face and put it on the floor"
"Hey kids here's what Steve Austin would look like if you skinned his face and put it on the floor"
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Dead Kennedys made like three records about it
Imagine telling someone from the 1980s that America will end up being run by a cabal of dimwitted Nazis led by a fat stupid paedophile
January 17, 2026 at 6:15 PM
Dead Kennedys made like three records about it
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As screenwriter of the Labubu movie I want to clear up some misconceptions. Yes, technically they do eat human flesh, but only necrotic tissue around wounds. Doctors use them to clean up injuries and promote positive health outcomes. Labubus are humanity’s allies, except for evil Labubus of course
January 17, 2026 at 6:48 PM
As screenwriter of the Labubu movie I want to clear up some misconceptions. Yes, technically they do eat human flesh, but only necrotic tissue around wounds. Doctors use them to clean up injuries and promote positive health outcomes. Labubus are humanity’s allies, except for evil Labubus of course
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this weekend at Bookclub! come see Weaklung play with Bog Power and MYDGE! loud rock and roll music in a live setting will fix everything wrong with your life probably
January 16, 2026 at 9:18 PM
this weekend at Bookclub! come see Weaklung play with Bog Power and MYDGE! loud rock and roll music in a live setting will fix everything wrong with your life probably
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listening to "spark in the dark" by alice cooper and harm was like "is he saying Sparky The Dog" and now it is all i can hear
January 16, 2026 at 8:24 PM
listening to "spark in the dark" by alice cooper and harm was like "is he saying Sparky The Dog" and now it is all i can hear
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Because I am a middle-aged transsexual, I have no patience for people who don't do things because they are scary or hard. That includes elected Democrats.
Aw, you're scared of getting yelled at? You babies would not survive five minutes as a trans person on the red line. Suck it up and go canvas.
Aw, you're scared of getting yelled at? You babies would not survive five minutes as a trans person on the red line. Suck it up and go canvas.
January 15, 2026 at 1:18 AM
Because I am a middle-aged transsexual, I have no patience for people who don't do things because they are scary or hard. That includes elected Democrats.
Aw, you're scared of getting yelled at? You babies would not survive five minutes as a trans person on the red line. Suck it up and go canvas.
Aw, you're scared of getting yelled at? You babies would not survive five minutes as a trans person on the red line. Suck it up and go canvas.
trans friends: does anyone know of a simple way to check what laws are CURRENTLY IN EFFECT (not proposed, not under injunction) in different states? I'm trying to figure out where I am allowed to piss when I travel places, and a centralized resource would be helpful.
January 14, 2026 at 11:45 PM
trans friends: does anyone know of a simple way to check what laws are CURRENTLY IN EFFECT (not proposed, not under injunction) in different states? I'm trying to figure out where I am allowed to piss when I travel places, and a centralized resource would be helpful.
I wish the boomer method of applying for jobs actually worked, because all I want from a job is 15-20 hours of reasonably paced work where I get to experience new things, help people and then go home. In return I will show up on time and do a good job every shift. How can I explain that in a resume?
January 14, 2026 at 11:16 PM
I wish the boomer method of applying for jobs actually worked, because all I want from a job is 15-20 hours of reasonably paced work where I get to experience new things, help people and then go home. In return I will show up on time and do a good job every shift. How can I explain that in a resume?
it is very funny that alamo drafthouse is pivoting from their famously beloved "no phones in the theater" policy to "phones all the time hell yeah" and the explainer is provided by Aziz Ansari
It's like if Pepsi did "Now With Broken Glass!" featuring spokesman Andy Dick with a mouth full of blood
It's like if Pepsi did "Now With Broken Glass!" featuring spokesman Andy Dick with a mouth full of blood
January 13, 2026 at 8:18 PM
it is very funny that alamo drafthouse is pivoting from their famously beloved "no phones in the theater" policy to "phones all the time hell yeah" and the explainer is provided by Aziz Ansari
It's like if Pepsi did "Now With Broken Glass!" featuring spokesman Andy Dick with a mouth full of blood
It's like if Pepsi did "Now With Broken Glass!" featuring spokesman Andy Dick with a mouth full of blood
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did anyone know Billy Idol's "dancing with myself" video was directed by Tobe Hooper? just learning this
January 13, 2026 at 7:50 PM
did anyone know Billy Idol's "dancing with myself" video was directed by Tobe Hooper? just learning this
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Can’t believe he said this, seems somewhat disrespectful
January 13, 2026 at 7:14 PM
Can’t believe he said this, seems somewhat disrespectful
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This is the first time Scott Adams made me laugh.
January 13, 2026 at 4:54 PM
This is the first time Scott Adams made me laugh.
Currently living a far less exciting version of the Schrodinger's cat experiment where we have spent a devastating amount of money to learn that our cat may or may not have diabetes
January 13, 2026 at 12:44 AM
Currently living a far less exciting version of the Schrodinger's cat experiment where we have spent a devastating amount of money to learn that our cat may or may not have diabetes
I have no regrets about taking rich people's money and dedicating two years to my craft. I spent their ugly bloody cash on porn and drugs and now I live in Chicago. That rules for me. I would recommend an MFA if you can work the same grift. If you can't, just work Submittable and go to open mics.
I picked my MFA program because they offered me a full ride and a move to Chicago. I gained nothing from it professionally; turns out I'm still a fat, cantankerous trans dude made of box office poison. It made me fierce about my work and disgusted by publishing. If that sounds good, go for it.
Should you get a writing degree? Absolutely, if you'd like to study the craft, find community, and earn a degree that will show others you take yourself seriously, which will in turn make them take you seriously, but it's also a scam in a clout pyramid scheme!
January 12, 2026 at 10:38 PM
I have no regrets about taking rich people's money and dedicating two years to my craft. I spent their ugly bloody cash on porn and drugs and now I live in Chicago. That rules for me. I would recommend an MFA if you can work the same grift. If you can't, just work Submittable and go to open mics.
I picked my MFA program because they offered me a full ride and a move to Chicago. I gained nothing from it professionally; turns out I'm still a fat, cantankerous trans dude made of box office poison. It made me fierce about my work and disgusted by publishing. If that sounds good, go for it.
Should you get a writing degree? Absolutely, if you'd like to study the craft, find community, and earn a degree that will show others you take yourself seriously, which will in turn make them take you seriously, but it's also a scam in a clout pyramid scheme!
January 12, 2026 at 10:29 PM
I picked my MFA program because they offered me a full ride and a move to Chicago. I gained nothing from it professionally; turns out I'm still a fat, cantankerous trans dude made of box office poison. It made me fierce about my work and disgusted by publishing. If that sounds good, go for it.
Today my physical therapist asked if i was hungover and i told him i don't drink; he asked if i didn't like booze. I was like "no, i like booze too much and now i have to go to meetings about it."
That joke makes people uncomfortable, but i still think it's funny. Ah well.
That joke makes people uncomfortable, but i still think it's funny. Ah well.
I am pretty desperate to figure out where the dudes are hanging out, especially now that i don't use IG anymore and I'm too sober to be fun at a bar. I do not want to go to TMAC because it's indoors and they don't mask. Trying to widen my scope here.
January 9, 2026 at 10:14 PM
Today my physical therapist asked if i was hungover and i told him i don't drink; he asked if i didn't like booze. I was like "no, i like booze too much and now i have to go to meetings about it."
That joke makes people uncomfortable, but i still think it's funny. Ah well.
That joke makes people uncomfortable, but i still think it's funny. Ah well.
I think i remembered seeing something about a transmasc poker night in Chicago on here; if you know anything about that, can you tell me about it?
January 9, 2026 at 10:09 PM
I think i remembered seeing something about a transmasc poker night in Chicago on here; if you know anything about that, can you tell me about it?
I'm learning to walk again after i broke a rib last year. Every time i get down on myself for not being productive, i like to remind myself that i literally need to learn to walk before i can run.
Ive been in intensive therapy for various chronic shit since June of last year. I'm tired, y'all.
Ive been in intensive therapy for various chronic shit since June of last year. I'm tired, y'all.
January 9, 2026 at 9:18 PM
I'm learning to walk again after i broke a rib last year. Every time i get down on myself for not being productive, i like to remind myself that i literally need to learn to walk before i can run.
Ive been in intensive therapy for various chronic shit since June of last year. I'm tired, y'all.
Ive been in intensive therapy for various chronic shit since June of last year. I'm tired, y'all.
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wow really helpful, thank you new york times
October 24, 2025 at 2:57 PM
wow really helpful, thank you new york times
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Hell of a “One-Way Gate” by Jenny George season this year
January 8, 2026 at 7:55 PM
Hell of a “One-Way Gate” by Jenny George season this year
im so fucking tired of everything being so hard! i just want a secure home and safe pets and a healthy body and happy loved ones and enough money that i can see a movie every now and then!! what the shit!!!!
January 7, 2026 at 12:30 AM
im so fucking tired of everything being so hard! i just want a secure home and safe pets and a healthy body and happy loved ones and enough money that i can see a movie every now and then!! what the shit!!!!
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heading back to the emergency vet. bean’s blood sugar is 40 and it’s supposed to be 160. send good vibes for the girl
January 6, 2026 at 11:48 PM
heading back to the emergency vet. bean’s blood sugar is 40 and it’s supposed to be 160. send good vibes for the girl