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Hermit Wife
@merlavender.bsky.social
Married to isolation. Socialist scum. AroAce She/Her. 3 TBIs in a trenchcoat. We do not platform terfs or nazis, period. Nobody is illegal on stolen land. Believe Black Women. Birds.
"To be seen is to be loved"
January 1, 2026 at 5:23 PM
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2025 was one of the hardest years of my life. I lost nearly everything, and barely survived the summer.

Since then, I've made it a year of saying "yes" — to new homes, new friends, and new experiences. I still live on the margins, but I'm safe, I'm loved, and I'm ready to keep saying "yes" in 2026!
December 31, 2025 at 2:50 AM
Accidently following 25 professional nature photographers was the best day 1 mistake I could have made. My timelines are sprinkled with beauty. The doom is interspaced with bloom.
December 31, 2025 at 3:05 AM
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I’ll see yall next year ✨
December 30, 2025 at 9:09 PM
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Still gong through the highlights of 2025. I'm still in February. We had some amazing #aurora evenings when I was up in Churchill guiding tours.
December 30, 2025 at 3:32 AM
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This is one of my favorite paintings, from any painter, ever.

Not only is she crushing Mein Kampf, but the arc of her rivet gun's cable also evokes a serpent being crushed under her heel - even while the rivet gun herself is laid on her apron like Christ on the lap of the Virgin Mary.
I didn’t know until now that in the original Rosie the Riveter painting, she is crushing a copy of Mein Kampf under her foot. Happy feast of the Blessed Virgin Mary, remembering all the women who crush the serpents of Satan under their heel.
August 17, 2025 at 5:31 AM
This is his real tiktok account. Now I just refresh and check his acct for activity to assure that he's still ok. Is it parasocial? Yes. Very.

Would I do it for every person disappeared by this administration if it were possible? Also yes.

So many people...
December 30, 2025 at 6:26 AM
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December 28, 2025 at 5:18 PM
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Please pass this on to everyone! Thanks in advance☺️
December 27, 2025 at 2:57 AM
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Welcome back to bsky from the exodus, friends. Don't forget, tagging your art is actually useful here and you can view ALL tags by just a certain user by clicking this!!
Another tip, use your feeds!!
December 25, 2025 at 8:37 PM
I have a dog visitor! All hail ButterBall, nervous dainty blanket queen.
December 27, 2025 at 7:08 AM
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Die Hard was actually appropriated from pagans
December 26, 2025 at 1:59 AM
No waistbands and laying sideways, these are my conditions.
December 26, 2025 at 4:16 AM
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For all the new artists joining Bluesky:

🎨 You don't have to censor words such as commission, Patreon or Ko-Fi.

🎨 You can share links and your post will not be de-boosted.

🎨 You can take time away from Bluesky and come back whenever you feel like, there's no algorithm to punish you!
December 25, 2025 at 7:38 PM
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December 25, 2025 at 6:08 AM
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The Streisand effect remains undefeated
December 23, 2025 at 1:58 AM
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CBS pulled the 60 Minutes CECOT segment, but Canada aired it anyway.

The segment was streaming via Global TV and YouTube (since taken down). Having a VPN set to Canada helped. 🇨🇦

My take, there is no reason we shouldn’t see this. Most of it was known information, easily searchable.
1/5
December 23, 2025 at 2:15 AM
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It's important to note for the consultant people: Kat is tied for first place, she's raised more money in this race than anyone else, and she hasn't used Twitter in months.

It's a website filled with racist AI snuff films and it's rigged against you specifically. There's no good reason to use it.
This has always been a Bluesky-first campaign. But as of today, we will no longer be using Twitter. At all.

And I'm calling on other candidates to follow suit.
December 22, 2025 at 6:17 PM
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Way too many blue wave liberals on here sharing AI images making fun of Trump or whatever. Please stop.
December 21, 2025 at 4:51 PM
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TOMORROW IS THE WINTER SOLSTICE AND Y'ALL KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. It is time for the women (defined broadly) to hunt the Year King through the woods and tear him apart with their bare hands!
December 21, 2025 at 2:53 AM
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The shorteste daye
The longest nighte
Welcome, sun
Welcome, lighte
December 21, 2025 at 6:05 AM
The stupidification of everything spiral is gaining speed.
December 19, 2025 at 11:33 PM
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If it was inevitable, they wouldn't work so hard to convince you.
December 19, 2025 at 4:29 PM
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Attacks on feminism are similar to attacks on vaccines. We begin to take for granted a world where women have rights and most children live to see adulthood, and then, over time, we begin to forget, neglect, and (now) reject the movements and innovations that brought us here.
Until the mid-1970’s, a man could not be convicted of rape in New York State based solely on the testimony of the woman he raped. A second witness was required because the female rape victim was deemed unreliable.

Feminism has not failed women.
December 19, 2025 at 5:09 PM
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A gentle reminder if you've received an invoice from a Freelancer/Self employed person which is due before Christmas.

Be a love, and pay it today.
December 19, 2025 at 9:46 AM