Stachedaddy👨🏻
@stachedaddy.bsky.social
miscellaneous queerdo, cranky new englander, music nerd, historian, ex-academic, leatherman, poly, sober, emotional support Top, softdom Dad
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(he/him/his) 📍Boston
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Not some dude bringing a whole-ass pizza onto this 30 minute flight I’m on. 😂
July 25, 2025 at 12:28 PM
Not some dude bringing a whole-ass pizza onto this 30 minute flight I’m on. 😂
Actual footage of me leaving P'town after an incredibly satisfying and kink-affirming 4 days at the Fascination Retreat this past weekend.🫀🔥
@fascinationkink.bsky.social
@fascinationkink.bsky.social
a woman with white hair is walking down a hallway holding a piece of paper
Alt: Madonna runs down a hotel hallway wearing a black trenchcoat and carrying a suitcase. She looks back briefly, laughs, and bites her finger in reaction to all the sexy kinky scenes she's just partaken in. It is in the last moments of her "Justify My Love" music video, released in 1990.
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May 20, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Actual footage of me leaving P'town after an incredibly satisfying and kink-affirming 4 days at the Fascination Retreat this past weekend.🫀🔥
@fascinationkink.bsky.social
@fascinationkink.bsky.social
Who’s cumming down this weekend to join in the fun?🫀😈
May 12, 2025 at 8:49 PM
Who’s cumming down this weekend to join in the fun?🫀😈
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Get your baskets ready.🐰🪺😏
April 20, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Get your baskets ready.🐰🪺😏
"pretty much I would let Gemma know that she is a ..."
April 8, 2025 at 11:28 PM
"pretty much I would let Gemma know that she is a ..."
Proud to be a Bostonian today.🏳️⚧️✨✊🏼
In a 12-1 vote, Boston City Council approved a resolution making the city a sanctuary for transgender and gender diverse people #NOH8
March 14, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Proud to be a Bostonian today.🏳️⚧️✨✊🏼
name a show you're positive no one else remembers but you
March 13, 2025 at 10:59 PM
name a show you're positive no one else remembers but you
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Happy Birthday to my amazing husband @stachedaddy.bsky.social !! Love you so much 🥰
February 20, 2025 at 2:49 AM
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Greetings Kinksters!
Welcome to our new home on Bluesky as we begin our migration away from Twitter. Please give us a share so that folks know where to find us.
Leave a photo in the comments to say hello.
See you kinksters soon. Woof. 🫀😈🔥
Welcome to our new home on Bluesky as we begin our migration away from Twitter. Please give us a share so that folks know where to find us.
Leave a photo in the comments to say hello.
See you kinksters soon. Woof. 🫀😈🔥
January 15, 2025 at 7:58 PM
Greetings Kinksters!
Welcome to our new home on Bluesky as we begin our migration away from Twitter. Please give us a share so that folks know where to find us.
Leave a photo in the comments to say hello.
See you kinksters soon. Woof. 🫀😈🔥
Welcome to our new home on Bluesky as we begin our migration away from Twitter. Please give us a share so that folks know where to find us.
Leave a photo in the comments to say hello.
See you kinksters soon. Woof. 🫀😈🔥
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every new restaurant in every major city is either called Thistle+Thorn and thinks adding turmeric to brussel sprouts makes them worth $30 or is called Burger Bitch and has a neon sign in the window that says “im gonna fuck a hamburger”
December 29, 2024 at 7:11 PM
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ngl i’ve always been chill with genders. Like when Shania said "let’s go girls" i knew it included me
December 16, 2024 at 6:05 PM
ngl i’ve always been chill with genders. Like when Shania said "let’s go girls" i knew it included me
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Hey Queer Guys,
It's cool to make friends with queer guys you don't want to/can't sleep with. We have good stuff to offer other than sex, like understanding, support, opportunities to socialize, and access to other queer guys you *can* have sex with.
Sincerely,
Gay Bitterskeets
It's cool to make friends with queer guys you don't want to/can't sleep with. We have good stuff to offer other than sex, like understanding, support, opportunities to socialize, and access to other queer guys you *can* have sex with.
Sincerely,
Gay Bitterskeets
December 6, 2024 at 9:27 PM
Hey Queer Guys,
It's cool to make friends with queer guys you don't want to/can't sleep with. We have good stuff to offer other than sex, like understanding, support, opportunities to socialize, and access to other queer guys you *can* have sex with.
Sincerely,
Gay Bitterskeets
It's cool to make friends with queer guys you don't want to/can't sleep with. We have good stuff to offer other than sex, like understanding, support, opportunities to socialize, and access to other queer guys you *can* have sex with.
Sincerely,
Gay Bitterskeets
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I once had a professor ask “Why is there a Business section in the newspaper but not a Labor section?” My classmates and I probably rolled our eyes, but damned if I haven’t remembered that question every few days for 30 years now.
The best way to understand the NYT is as a chronicle of power, which may explain why there are ** checks notes ** seven reporters on this single story about beefing up executive security
As I was saying:
December 7, 2024 at 1:06 AM
I once had a professor ask “Why is there a Business section in the newspaper but not a Labor section?” My classmates and I probably rolled our eyes, but damned if I haven’t remembered that question every few days for 30 years now.
November 18, 2024 at 6:08 PM
100% this. No pressure or expectations. Connection and intimacy are always paramount.
Can’t stay hard? Don’t stress, let’s just cuddle and makeout.
Ass not cooperating? Not a problem, let’s cuddle and makeout.
Can’t manage to cum? Again, not a problem, we had fun the whole time anyways.
Sex is about enjoying the time together, not stressing about doing it perfectly.
Ass not cooperating? Not a problem, let’s cuddle and makeout.
Can’t manage to cum? Again, not a problem, we had fun the whole time anyways.
Sex is about enjoying the time together, not stressing about doing it perfectly.
November 17, 2024 at 6:13 PM
100% this. No pressure or expectations. Connection and intimacy are always paramount.
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Seems like Bluesky might be taking off, and I gotta say to the Oldskies how cool that we all helped tend the fire while we waited for our friends to join us at summer camp.
And we did it our own ways. Some readied s’mores, others prepared arts and crafts, and others fucked in the lakehouse.
And we did it our own ways. Some readied s’mores, others prepared arts and crafts, and others fucked in the lakehouse.
November 10, 2024 at 4:50 PM
Seems like Bluesky might be taking off, and I gotta say to the Oldskies how cool that we all helped tend the fire while we waited for our friends to join us at summer camp.
And we did it our own ways. Some readied s’mores, others prepared arts and crafts, and others fucked in the lakehouse.
And we did it our own ways. Some readied s’mores, others prepared arts and crafts, and others fucked in the lakehouse.
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Trans friends - here's an overview of what to expect/prepare for legally. This is from a lawyer I know well, who specializes in LGBT family law. I trust him to be 100% accurate and careful in his analysis.
www.jernerlaw.com/after-the-el...
www.jernerlaw.com/after-the-el...
After the Election: Things Trans People Should Know Now | Jerner Law Group, P.C.
Following the election, many U.S. policies and regulations may be affected by the new administration. Transgender and gender non-conforming individuals can take steps now to protect themselves and pre...
www.jernerlaw.com
November 9, 2024 at 4:06 PM
Trans friends - here's an overview of what to expect/prepare for legally. This is from a lawyer I know well, who specializes in LGBT family law. I trust him to be 100% accurate and careful in his analysis.
www.jernerlaw.com/after-the-el...
www.jernerlaw.com/after-the-el...
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If you need to talk to someone.
November 6, 2024 at 4:01 PM
If you need to talk to someone.
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I have been fighting rich entitled bullies my whole life, it feels like. And that's the worst part of all of this. That the bullies win, again and again, and their vicious glee in hurting others is seemingly supported by a majority of the population.
I will not lose my kindness because of them.
I will not lose my kindness because of them.
November 8, 2024 at 2:29 PM
I have been fighting rich entitled bullies my whole life, it feels like. And that's the worst part of all of this. That the bullies win, again and again, and their vicious glee in hurting others is seemingly supported by a majority of the population.
I will not lose my kindness because of them.
I will not lose my kindness because of them.
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Sober folks: call on resources if you need to. Reach out to your people. Remember that when the world is going to shit; it isn’t going to be any better if you lose what (seemingly little, to be fair) control you have over yourself. We’ve got this, together.
November 6, 2024 at 3:52 PM
Sober folks: call on resources if you need to. Reach out to your people. Remember that when the world is going to shit; it isn’t going to be any better if you lose what (seemingly little, to be fair) control you have over yourself. We’ve got this, together.
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Right. Here's your to-do list for the next two months to put you in the best possible position to survive what's coming:
1. Renew your passport (or apply for a passport) this week even if it is not expiring in the next four years. Renewing early will give you the maximum 10-year validity period.
1. Renew your passport (or apply for a passport) this week even if it is not expiring in the next four years. Renewing early will give you the maximum 10-year validity period.
November 6, 2024 at 2:03 PM
Right. Here's your to-do list for the next two months to put you in the best possible position to survive what's coming:
1. Renew your passport (or apply for a passport) this week even if it is not expiring in the next four years. Renewing early will give you the maximum 10-year validity period.
1. Renew your passport (or apply for a passport) this week even if it is not expiring in the next four years. Renewing early will give you the maximum 10-year validity period.
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I. Don't. Want. To. Fight. I don't want to take today to be sad so I can fight tomorrow. I just want to live my fucking life. I want to live in a country where I can just do that. I don't want to spend the next 4 years fighting and then the next 4 and the next 4.
November 6, 2024 at 1:07 PM
I. Don't. Want. To. Fight. I don't want to take today to be sad so I can fight tomorrow. I just want to live my fucking life. I want to live in a country where I can just do that. I don't want to spend the next 4 years fighting and then the next 4 and the next 4.