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Andrea BoBandrea
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she/her. queer, neurodivergent, chronically ill, disabled human. realist. nice is different than good.
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It is going to continue becoming increasingly important for you to understand and internalize that nice is different than good.

The sooner you get there, the better for us all.
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Here's a free Thanksgiving-adjacent cookbook that helps you reduce food waste, created completely without AI: ivacheung.com/2025/09/afte...

Print copies support a food sovereignty charity!
November 25, 2025 at 5:53 PM
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Recording of the 11/24 Octavia Butler talk is now on YouT:

m.youtube.com/watch?v=rCo3...
November 25, 2025 at 11:33 PM
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Hey, so,

If we could NOT respond to the GOP healthcare “plan” with laughter at fat, disabled, and fat disabled people, that would be great.

I hate MarkyMarkwayne as much as the next person, but “take a look at your constituents” is punching in the wrong direction.
November 25, 2025 at 10:22 PM
There's always a huge uptick in DUI-related deaths during this week, esp Wed-Sat.

Pls don't drive if you've been consuming intoxicants. Please be prepared to encounter folks on the road who consumed intoxicants & drove anyway.

& if you're a sober human who is struggling, pls reach out.

Be safe 💛
November 25, 2025 at 9:49 PM
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one of the coolest things about ChatGPT is how you can actually just never use it. you can fill your whole entire life with simply not once using it. it's incredible.
November 25, 2025 at 4:15 PM
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Does anyone in Baltimore need (or could use) a 20 lb turkey? Because reasons, we have acquired one, and while we can come up with uses for it, it's A Problem for my allergy issues and if someone needs it more, Sarah is happy to deliver anywhere in Baltimore
November 24, 2025 at 8:45 PM
What a concept
November 24, 2025 at 10:54 PM
If you shrugged off "Even though you'll find the vulnerable will fall by the wayside" bc it meant an end to a minor inconvenience for you at the expense of *everything* for us, then I'm less than zero percent interested in your incredulity about anything to do with how disabled folks are treated now
I get a bit irritated when I see “now they’re coming after disabled people?!” like we didn’t all see that clip in 2015.

They have ALWAYS been coming after disabled people. They use us to stoke fear, to delegitimize the agency of our own and other groups, as scapegoats, as bellwethers, as excuses.
November 24, 2025 at 10:44 PM
There are worse ways to spend a sick and melancholy Monday ♡
November 24, 2025 at 8:59 PM
"It's too bad she won't live...but then again, who does, Charlie Brown?"
All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain, Charlie Brown.
If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule, Charlie Brown?
November 24, 2025 at 2:43 AM
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Also: what someone is eating or not eating isn’t any of your business.
Holiday reminders:

- If someone has a new relationship, they’ll tell you. You don’t need to ask.
- If someone is pregnant and they want to share that, they’ll tell you. You don’t need to ask.
- If someone’s body has changed, they’re aware. You don’t need to point it out.
November 24, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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The problem with climate change is we have to convince a bunch of people that future people are actual people, when they don't even believe some currently alive people are people.
November 23, 2025 at 10:11 PM
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🎁 For this holiday season, consider gifting COLOR TASTE TEXTURE! It’s a great primer for people of all ages with little to no experience cooking. If you have some neurodivergent friends and family, or parents of littles, they might love this! It’s not just a cookbook, it’s a new approach to food. 🎁
I’m an Autistic classically trained chef and I wrote a food aversion acceptance cookbook and guide titled COLOR TASTE TEXTURE, that’s all about finding out what works for specific sensory needs and how to customize food for them. It’s useful for all ages, no cooking experience necessary.
Color Taste Texture by Matthew Broberg-Moffitt: 9780593538593 | PenguinRandomHouse.com: Books
An accessible family cookbook that offers solutions rather than tricks to empower the food-averse, autistic, and picky eater, with 46 recipes. This much-needed cookbook combines tips and techniques.....
www.penguinrandomhouse.com
November 23, 2025 at 9:40 PM
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Please use alt text for accessibility. It's incredibly easy to turn on the setting that reminds you and even easier to cut/paste text from images.
November 23, 2025 at 5:52 PM
Hands up if you still somehow believe that "abolish the police" is too extreme a position and/or that you don't have anything to worry about as long as you've done nothing wrong
November 23, 2025 at 1:49 AM
Vaccines don't cause autism.

(And if you don't believe that and/or you do believe that having a dead child is preferable to having an autistic child, then you should never have children and you make me hope there's a hell.)

Pass it on.
Vaccines don’t cause Autism.

Pass it on.
For the public

“Vaccines do not cause autism” is the message.

If you start talking about “association,” you’ve lost. And we lose herd immunity.
November 23, 2025 at 12:32 AM
I've seen such an uptick of talk of chatbot usage in various disabled spaces, both for "med advice" and "companionship."

I'm among the 1st to pile on re: AI, but I get it & getting it is awful. We've been abandoned & we know it.

If you're anti-AI, great!!

Pls also be pro-human & show up for us.
Regret to report that there has been another good linkedin post
November 22, 2025 at 9:12 PM
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This is the type of thing that excites me lmao why is it so bigggg like what size is the tree then 😭💕
November 22, 2025 at 8:03 PM
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We don’t need to reform ICE.
We don’t need alternatives to ICE.
We don’t need to engage in dishonest debates wondering what the U.S. would do without ICE.

ICE isn’t even 23 years old. Most adults know a world without ICE. And the billions used to fund ICE can be used to meet people’s basic needs.
November 18, 2025 at 11:40 PM
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It's science. 🧪
Using Alt text makes you cooler.
November 22, 2025 at 4:39 PM
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The fact that the president will capitulate to any strong charismatic personality makes the spinelessness of Dems all the more infuriating.
November 21, 2025 at 9:46 PM
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What do you mean by socialism? Who is doing the socialism? Is the socialism in the room with us? People can't afford food.
November 21, 2025 at 8:44 PM
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Need some laughs to get through the hoildays?
We got you!

'Holidays are Endemic: A Virtual Standup Comedy Showcase' over Zoom, December 13 6pm EST

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November 21, 2025 at 4:04 PM
Pretty sure they mean that they believe they can say and do whatever they want, including CSA, because no one will stop them, which is probably because they've said and done whatever they wanted, including CSA, and no one has stopped them
What Trump/admin says: “quiet piggy,” death to senators who encourage following the law, swastikas are not divisive, invading Venezuela is fine, Ukraine should give up land, killing journalists “happens” but don’t embarrass the killers

What they mean: stop talking about Epstein
November 21, 2025 at 2:24 AM
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November 20, 2025 at 7:02 AM